单身相亲:旧时相亲

 xiangqinyouchengxiangmen、duishi。yejiushizaiyihunjieduanhuangengtiehou，youmeirenlianluoanpai，shuangfangzhangjianmian。guwangjinlaidexiangqinyishihenxiangsi。laoyibeinannvshuangfanghubuxiangjian，eryoufumubaoban，zeshitongguohongniangbasubuxiangshidenannverrenyuezaiyiqi，dangtianxiangqindenannverrenjianmian，doutebiezhuyigerenxingxiang，liqiujiduifangliuxiahaoyinxiang。jiarunanfangqunvjiaxiangqin，yidingyaoshuxizhengqi，yimaoyixin。duichichadenanwa，fumuyeyaojiaotaruhequnvjiahoujingyanjingjiu，ruhechenghu，ruhezhaodaikeren，dengdeng，ranhouzaiyoumeirenhefumudaizhetamenqunvjia，qijuzhidaduoshijujindaiban，xiaosadafangbuzu。neimeguanyudanshenxiangqindebanfayounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanmengjianquxiangqindewenzhangba。

 mengjianquxiangqinshizenmehuishini？zheiyitian，xiangqindenvxuyehenzhongshi，yaochedididasaoganjing，bachuangzinongdeganjing，neiwaizhengjie，nvxuyeyaodabanyifan，tongshiqinglaijiefujiujiu、qigubayi，rangta(ta)pingjiayixia，kanta(ta)shifounengdingqin。yucitongshi，haizhunbeileretengtengdefancai。jibianshixiangqin，nannvyemeiyouyuanzhijiejiaotan，zhishigeziliuxinguancha，huxiangtoukanjiyan。fanhoulinxing，youshuangfangfumusongqianhuoliwujinannvshuangfang，yibanshizaixianchangjishou。guanyushuangfangshifoutongyijieqin，zeyoumeirenchuanhou，huxiangjiaohuanyijian。

 nan、nvxiangzhonghou，nvfangfumuhuofumuzaimeirendepeitongxia，dainverdaonanfangjiamenkou“kanyikan”，yejiao“kanyikan”，quanmianjiechunanfangjiatingchengyuan，lejienanfangjiadiyouduoshaomu，fangyouduoshaojian，mengjianquxiangqin，yaoyouduoshaogekong，shengchuduoshaogetou，yuanluobuzhi，shineibaishedengqingkuang，zhenzhuonverguomenderizishifouhaoguo。congqian，yixiejiatusibi，wuziruxuanqingdepinhanrenjia，weilejierzichengjiuqinshi，zaizheiyitiannvfangyaoxiangqinlinjiejiaju、baishe、beirulaichongyutimiandihunchidengsi，laiquyuebici。”“kanshanglehuo，jiukeyishunlichengqinle。”

 minsunannvxiangqin，chulezainvfanghuonanfangjialijuxingwai，dabufendoushinannvzaijishang、miaohuishangjinxingsuoweide“xiangjian”。yejiushishuo，nannvshuangfangdouyoumeirenhuofumudaidaojihuishang，youmeirengezherenqunyaowang，shuangfangzhinengyipie，sheinengkandeqingchu。zheigefangfabeichengwei“fanguan”。youqinannvshuangfang，yifangyoushengliquexianhuoqitamaobing，youxiezuofumudebianyumeirenhangxieyiqi，qinglaibiedenanren、nvrendaiti，zhiluweima、yihuajiemu，suyujiao“shidingtou”，zhiyoujiehunhoucainengzhenxiangdabai。rucibeipiandeyifang，huizhiwanyi，nanmiananzishanghuai，tunshengqiqi，yuanhenzhongsheng。jiushehuicongtoudaowei，shengmizhushufan，doushizirenmingku，qianshizaonie。shijianyizhang，yejiuanranwuyang，baitouxiangshou。

 xuduorenrenwei，xiangqinshiyizhongfeichangluohoudelianaifangshi，zaichanshengganqingzhiqianbuduandiduiduifangdejiatingbeijing、shenghuozhuangkuangjinxingceliang，shiyizhong“burendao”de“shilixin”zuofa。suoyi，henduonianqingrenzaifumuhuoqinyoude“cuohe”xiaxiangqin，zongshiduiduifangtiaosanjiansi，buyuanyishenrulejie。

 danshi，meiguobinxifaniyadaxuedexinlixuejiazaizuixinyiqide《jinhuaherenleixingwei》zazhishangfabiaodelunwenzhichu，xiangqinqishihenzhongyao。

 danshenxiangqin,yanjiuzhetongguoyijiazhuanyedehongnianggongsiwanchenglezheixiangyanjiu。tamenfaxian，hongnianggongsizaianpaixiangqinzhiqian，wangwangyijingxiangxibijiaoleliangrenlixiangyuxianshizhongde“lingyiban”，renweitamenbanpeizhihou，caijuedinganpaixiangqin。danshi，buguanshumiancailiaoduome“banpei”，daduoshurendouhuizaijimiaozhonghoujuedingbuzaijiaowang，erqienvxingzuojuedingdeshijiangengduan。