相亲记：相亲好 还是自由恋爱好？

 mengjianzijixiangqinshizenmehuishini?biyehouwoyizhibeixiangqinhongzha，danzhijinhaimeiyudaoheshiderentanlianai，kandaoqitapengyoudoushiziyoulianaiwoyoudianhaipa，danxinxiangqinrenshibuhao，suoyixiangwenwenleyulaoshitongguoxiangqinrenshidehezijirenshideyoushenmebutong，xiangqindehuayaozhuyixieshenme?haishiqitayoushenmeleiqu?qiujiu!neimexiangqinjiehundebanfayounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanxiangqinjidewenzhangba。

 huida：shouxian，wobuzhidaonishuode“buhao”zhideshishenme，qishidoushiyiyangde，xiangqinzhishiyitiaorenshiyixingdejiejing，erziyoulianaishizijidajiandepingtai，xiangqinzheigequdaodetedianjiushikeyibangzhunibikaiyibufenbuhegederenqun，zhijiecongxiangduiyouxiuderenqunzhongshaixuan。

 mengjianzijixiangqin,xuduorenhuijuedexiangqinhennanyourangrenxindongdeganjue，danshiyijianzhongqingzheiyangdeshiqingzaixianshishenghuozhongbingbuduojian，yinweirenyuelaiyuezhongshishengcunjiazhi，ershuobaidianjiushizhongshiwuzhi，zheishizaichucijianmianshihennanpanduande，suoyiwulunxiangqinhaishiziyoulianai，renshihelejiedeguochengdouxuyaonizijiqubianbiefenxizheigerenshifouheshi，shifouzhidetuofuyisheng，zaizheiyidianshang，lianggerendeyouliebuxiangshangxia，meiyousheibideshangshei。

xiangqinji，yinci，ninwanquankeyifangxinjixutongwojiaowang。

 guanyuxiangqinyaozhuyixieshenme，youshenmezhidezhuyidewenti，womeiyouxiangqinguo，yebunengjiniquedingdedaan，danshiwokeyibabierenxiangqinzongjiedeyixiejingyangaosuni：

 diyi，buyaoshoupian。yinweinimenshidiyicijianmian，buyaodayingtaquyigerenshaoerpianpidedifangjianmian，bulejieshenme，suoyididianshinilaidingde，zhaonijiafujinhuojulizhezhongdanrenduodedifang。

 ruguobicidouyouxingqu，ziranbuhuiyouwenti。danshiruguoduiduifangbuganxingqu，buguanshiyinweijianguangsihaishiyinweimeiyougongtongyuyandengdeng，zhiyaobushitebiejiduanderen，buyidingfeiyaoyongzhijieledangdejujuefangshi，biru：

shishishang，nimenzhendehenhaoa。

 xiangqinjiehun，“wohenzhenshiwomenzhijiandeyouyi”，mudezhiyi，jiushiyaobiaomingnibuxiangshiquzheiweipengyou，tongshirangtazhidaotazainixinzhongdezhongyaodiwei，zheishifeichangyouxiaodeanwei，yinweizaishendeyouyiyejingbuqishanghaizizun。qici，zheiyeshiyigeyouyidingyudidehuida，bijingshijieshanghaomaxiangchihuicaodegushitaiduole。