相亲费用谁买单？

 mengjianxiangqinshizenmehuishini？yuehuixuyaohuafei，danyousheilaichengdan?renmenchuantongshangrenwei，nanrenyinggaifuqian，zheiyishuofa，wuyishizuiweirenmensuorentonghejieshoude，youqishinvxingdeqianyishi。zaiyouxiedifang，nvxingbujinbuyongfuqian，erqiehainengshoudaohongbao。neimehunlianxiangqinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanxiangqinyihoudewenzhangba。

 xiangqindefeiyongkeyishuoshiranghenduonanrentoutengdeshiqing。youyigenandeshuotacengjingyudaoguoyigenvhaizi，tadefumujuranhaidaizhesangeqinqiyiqilai，shuoshi“yiqibaguan”，yidunfanyaohuadiaojiangjinqianyuan。yucitongshi，tahaishuo，yougeguniangdaitaqugaojidifangchifan，dianlehenduocai，chiwanhourangtadaiguniangquguangjiemaiyifu，ranhouyouqukandianying，linzoushihailaiju“juedewomenbuheshi”。

 yinweizaiyiyuangongzuo，yangguangdexuduolingdaodouhenxinshangta，suoyiouerhuiyourenjitajieshaonvpengyou。xiangqinyihou,cengjing，tazaixiangqinzhongyudaoleyigefeichangnianqingdeguniang。neiguniangyizuoxiajiudianleyizhuocai，ranhouzishiqili，zuihouhaidabaoqilai，shuozheishitamamaxihuandeyexiao。buzhiruci，nvfanghaiyaoqiunanhaizidaitadaogezhonggaodangxiaofeichangsuoxiaofei，yitiandekaixiaorangtajuedeyoudiansha。

 mengjianxiangqin,sheilaizhifuxiangqinfeiyong?nanrenhenvrenyoubutongdeguandian，youxienanrenrenwei：“xiangqindeshihoubuyuanyihuayifenqian，yinweimeigerendoushimoshengren，erqieshuangfangkenenghuijiuzheiyicijianmian，zijimeiyoubiyaolangfeixianqianquzuobubiyaodeshiqing。”eryouxienvxingzexiangfan，tamenduineixiebuyuanhuaqiandenanrenbiaoshiyane，bingrenwei，“tamenbujinlinse，erqiezongshiyiziwoweizhongxin，buzhidezijituofuyisheng。”

 jiaruzaixiangqindeguochengzhong，nvxingbujinbuyonghuaqian，erqiehaihuishoudaohongbao，neimechanshengdejilixiaoguokendingshibutongde。duiyuzheigenvrenlaishuo，zheibuguoshiyidunfan，zaijiashangshouhongbao，zheiyangtajiubuhuitaizaiyixiangqindezhiliangle。zaizheiyangdehuanjingxia，nvxingyebuhuihenyongxindeduipinzhijinxingpingjia。ruguonvrenyeyaochengdanxiangqindefeiyong，neimetahenzhuzhongxiangqindezhiliang。

 zaixiangqinfeiyongfangmian，aazhishiyigejiaohaodexuanze。yucitongshi，haiyouyigeyuanze，jisheishuolesuan，sheimaidan。bierenweinvrenshidiyiweide，bubihuaqian。wulunruhe，womendouyaodapozheizhongchuantongguanniandeshufu。

 hunlianxiangqin,xuduonvxingzaikanzheipianwenzhangdeshihou，huoxuhuimayidun，shuolianxiangqindefeiyongdoushebudehua，haiquleshenmelaopo?shishishang，womenyekeyihuanyizhongfangshi，xiangqindefeiyongdoushiyoubierenweizijimaidande，haihuiqushenmeyangdelaogongni?suoyi，nannvshuangfanggongtongchengdanchengben，shiyizhongfeichanghelidezhiduanpai。