不如把相亲当成一种娱乐活动

 mengjianxiangqinshizenmehuishini？shouxian，meiyounayizhongaiqingfangshishizhixianghunyinde。wozhidaoyigeren，duitaganjuehenhao，danshizuihoudehuohuashibuhuiximiede，zheishiyigezhubudeguocheng。erxiangqinshizhijieqieruzhutide。neimehunlianxiangqinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanxiangqinyihoudewenzhangba。

 qici，xiangqinduixiangbushinisuoxuanzede，ershinidefumu，qinren，pengyou，tongshi，hunjieweinixuanzede。tamenyongtamenzijidebiaozhunhengliangshifouheshi，huoxuyijianmian，nijiushaxiao。nimenbingbuyidingqingchuzijizaiduifangyanzhongdexingxiang，zhishikeyitongguozheigetujinghenqingchudelejiezijizaibierenyanzhongdexingxiang。

 qisan，xingyubuxing，shuangfangdoukeyizhijieledang，huozhejiandandiduizhongjianrenbiaobai，zheiyangkeyibimianhenduomafan——bushanghaiganqing，bubeifubaofu，bupohuaimianzi，yipailiangsan，xiangwangyujianghu，jieshengbushaochengben。yibanshuolai，lianaijiuxiangguangshangdian，tiaotiaohenqingsong，haikeyikankanjia。jiushibanifangdaochaojishichangli，jiushizheigehuo，zheigejia，xing，buxing，labuxialai，jiangjiuliluocui。

 xuduorenbujieshouxiangqinzheizhongxingshi，juedezijishibeitiaochulaideneigeren，qishishixianghutiaochulaide。yeyourenhuixiang，lianggewanquanbudaganderenbeishengyingdifangzaiyiqizhijieshangchuangshengxiaohainandaobuxingma?danshitadehaochujiushi，ninengrenshizainideshenghuozhonggenbenbukenengyujianderen，sheiganshuozheibushiyiciqiyu?xiangqinbushilianggerendeshi，bierenkeyichanhejinqu，zheijiutaifuhezhouweirenweiguanbaguadexinlile。zenmehuiyou“feichengwurao”zheimeduorenkanni?

 quxiangqinshi，yaoyoudianyuleqingxu。rujinxuduoershichutoudexiaonvhaidoumangyuzhenghunxiangqin，yuledexingzhiyuanyuandayushiyongdexingzhi。wulunduodanianjideren，zhiyaoshidanshenjiukeyicanjiaxiangqin，zhishizuoweiyeyuhuodong。neikenengniyaoshini?

 youyisideshi，zaixiangqinzhongyouyizhonglaodiaozhongdan——tamenyiniandaotoudouzaicanjiagezhonggeyangdexiangqinhuodong，churugezhonghunjiejigou，erqiejinkenengdicanjiarenheyizhonglianyihui。suiranhuafeibuxiao，danshitamendouxuehuileruhejieyue。

 mengjianxiangqin,duonianqian，womendanweiyougehunjiejigou，jubanhuodongshi，wocengkanguo。chengyuanyiqidabaolingqiu，meirenfu50yuan，wanyigexiawu，zhihouhaiyouchahuahuigongdajiasixiajiaotan。choujiangjieshuhou，youdianyingpiaohecanquan，haiyouyiniandeshishangleizazhideng，zhongjianglv100%。buguanzenyang，zijichuquhua50kuaikendingwanbuleneimeduo。yichangyouqude，jueduiyaohuipiaodehuodong，yougehuiyuanjianjuebucanjia，taheyuangongyiqizhanzaimenkou，yanbabadiwanglikan，yibiankanyibiandunang：“xinbingbuduoa。”

 sangexiaoshidoushizaimenkouliuliuzhanzhe，kanzhebierenwan，zijiyebujinqu。ruguomeiyouneigerangwoxinhuanufangderen，woyebuhuimaipiao。

 yurenbuxiangshibujiaotan，zennengquedingbuxintiao?zheileirenyijingwanquanjinrulejiaose，renweizijizhendeshigezhenxuanzhe，haidejinliangjieyue——tawangjileduifangyeshiren，yewangjilezijibunengdancong“baozhuang”kaishi。zheileirenkechengwei“jixiehunjiezheng”，duonianlaiyizhizaijijiahunjiesuolidanrenhuiyuan。yikaishigentayiqiruhuide，doushishenghaizide，taquehaizaimenkoukanzhe。

 zheileirenwangjilehunliandebenzhishijiaoliu，shijifaqinggandechongdong，erchuncuijiangqidangzuoshiwuxingdehuodonglaiwancheng。zheiyijudongjiuxiangshiyixiexihuanpaoyiyuandedayedama。yuanlibenlaijiushikanbingdedifang，zheixiedayedamayoushimeishijiuquyuanlinaxieyao，weilexiaohaoyiliaobaoxiaoedu，bulaiyuanlijiubufangxin。tayichengweitamenshenghuozhongbukequeshaodeyibufen。

 hunlianxiangqin,yeyounannvduixiangqinhenganxingqu，tamenwangwangzaiduanshijianneidaliangxiangqin，tongshiyuxuduoyixingbaochilianxi，yiyibijiao。huobisanqueshihenshihui，danyouyigequedian——nanyiqushe。meiyigerendouyoutadeyoudianhequedian，niyinggaixuanzelinizuijindeneiyige，erfeizuiwanmeideneige。zhongfunaqifangxiadejieguojiushi，guodudixiaohaolezijidereqing，jishijuedingyaoyumourenxiangchu，zaijianglaiyehuichangchanghouhui：dangchuwoyaoshixuanzea，erbushixianzaidebjiuhaole。youhuozheshishuo，woshiruhemangmuxuanzezheiyangyigerende。