相亲失败的原因

 buyaohaipazijiyouxiudetaiyaoyan，yinweizaiyouxiuderen，yetaobuguo“shanwaiyoushan”，pazijidequediantaimingxian，napazhishiyidiandian，baoluchulai，yehuizhijiedaozhixiangqinshibai。neimexiangqinjiaoyoubanfayounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanzhongguoshixiangqindewenzhangba。

jingchangyuehuiderenkendingyouzheiyangdejingli：

 zhengrumutonglilunyiyang，yigemutongnengzhuangduoshaoshuiqujueyuqizuiduandebanzi。yigemutongyaoxiangzhuangmanshui，bixumeiyikuaimubandoushitongyangpingtande，bingqiemeiyousunhuai，ruguomutongliyouyikuaimubanbupingtan，huozhemubanxiayouyigepodong，neimezheigemutongjiubunengzhuangmanshui。

 erqiezheigeduanbanhuoquekou，youshishizhinansiwei，youshishidananrenzhuyi。leyujintianjiulaihedajiazongjieyixiasangenanshengxiangqinguochengzhong，yidingbuyaoshuodeshahua。

"nizhangdehaibucuo，jiushibafen。"

 xiangqinjiaoyou:yaoshikejide，buyaoduinvrenshuohaohua。xuduonanshihuijuedezheibutaizhengchangma，zaishuowoda8fenyijinghengaole，youshenmebumanyi?shishishang，zaijinvshengdafendeshihou，yijingchongmanleduinvshengdeqingmie，nvshengruguoyudaozheiyangdenansheng，haikeyizhijiebatajiaopass.woshibushibazheijuhuajiaozuozhinanai，yinweitamorenleyigeluoji：nvrenshigongju，shiwupin，shikeyifendengjide。

"nibushigepangzi，danruguonengshouyidianjiugenghaokanle。"

 bushaonanhairenwei，zaiyunvhaixiangchudeguochengzhong，baochishidangdezhilvhuixiandehenyounanziqigai。danshi，lingrengangadeshi，xuduonanshengquebuzhidao，tamenzirenweizainvshengyanli，zijishi“chun”he“buhuishuohua”。

 zhenshideshenghuobuxiangouxiangju，nayouneimeduode“xinuaile”，xiangqinzhenyaojimeiziliuxia“buhuishuohua”deyinxiang，nikenengliandiercijianmiandejihuidoumeiyou。

dangxuyaokuayaoshibixuhenhenkuayao，nagenvhaibuyuantingjijuhaotingde?

"wodangnian…""wodepengyou…

 zhongguoshixiangqin,zuiweihaipananrentiqidangnian，youyijulaohuashuodehao，“haohanbutiqidangnianyong”，zongrongnanrentiqidangnianyong，wangwangshi“xianzai”buruyi，nayigerenshengchongshi，youmubiao，youjihuaderenzhengtianzuishangshuozheguoqudechengjiu?hekuangneixie“dangnian”yeweibishizhende。tongli，zhengtianna“woyouyigepengyou…”laiherenliaotian，yeshiduizijibuzixin，jiaruniyudaoxiangqinduixiangzenmeshuo“wopengyou”ni，neinikeyizhijiewen“neiyaobubanipengyoujieshaojiworenshi?”