相亲不知道聊什么？

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 shuoshizaide，hexiangqinduixiangliaotian，qishibingbunan。renrendouyouyudaomoshengrendeshihou，renrendouyouyubushuxiderenjiechudejingli，xuduorenyudaoxiangqinshibiandezuizhuo，bingfeiyinweitamenzijibuhuiliaotian，ershiyinweizheizhongxiangqindefangshifuyuletaiduodeyishigan，jizijizengjialebushaoyali。

 chensipiankehou，nixiangxiangqindemudebujiushiyaozhaogekeyizhangjiuxiangchudebanlvma?jiashiniyikaishijiulianpinghedexintaidouwufaweichi，neigaitanshenmefazhanni?lingwai，benlaijiubushimeiyicixiangqindouhuiyoujieguode，canjiaxiangqindenidakeyibaozhe“jieshixinpengyou”detaiduquliaotian，bujizijitaiduodehuanxiang，qingzhuangshangzhen，fanernengbiaoxiandechuhuyiliaodehao。

 ruguonitianshengjiuhenrongyiyudaomoshengrenchanshengjinzhanggan，neimewojiujinijiangjiangliangzhongxiangqinfangshi，jizhuzheiliangzhongfangshi，yidinghuiduinidexiangqinliaotiandayoubangzhu：

事先做好见面的准备。

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 xiangqinjiaoyou:ciwai，shixianzuohaochucijianmiandehanxuanzhunbei，zaixianliaoyixiewuguanjinyaodeshiqinghouzaijinruzhengti。lirubicixihuandeqiuduidebisai，zuijinshangyingdedianying，haiyoushenbiandexiaoqushi，qishizheiyeshiyizhongnengrangshuangfangzaitanzhengshizhiqianmanmanyure，nengrangshuangfanggengjiaqinmi、shushiheziranyixie。

让对方说自己想说的话。

yaoshinibuneimejiantanni?buyaojinde，zuogehaodetingzhongyoushihougengnengxiyinren。

 renleizuizaihudehaishiziji。biruzaizhichangshang，henduolaobanjishikeyihexiashuliaotiandaowuye，qishiyezhishixiangbiaodaziji，buyidingfeiyaotingxiashushuohua。ruguoxiangyaobiaodaziji，taiguoqiangliedeyuwangyehuirangnixianruzheizhongwuqu。dangran，buyaotaiguozaiyinishifoubixushuoxieshenme，tebieshidangnibuaishuohuadeshihou。erqie，rangduifangshuochutamenxiangshuodehua，ernizhishimomodibiaoshizantong。

""?那么你告诉我具体的情况是怎样的"

"woyexiangtiyanyixia，nixiangaosuwonimenzuihoushizenmechulideba"

 zhongguoshixiangqin,ruguonizongshinenggourangduifangshuochutaxiangshuodehua，taziranhuigandaogaoxing，tongshiyehuigengjiayuanyixiangnitigonggezhonggeyangdexinxi。gengzhongyaodeshi，zhiyouzaiduifangshouxianganjuedaoniyuanyitingtashuodehuashi，tamencaihuigengyuanyiqingtingniduizijidebiaoda。shaoyanguayu，caishixiangqindejibenzhunze。