如何拒绝相亲对象?

 zaixiangqindebeihouqishishibicidejiating，neimezenyangcainengzaibimiangangadeqingkuangxia，henyoulimaodijujuexiangqinduixiangni?rengranyoubiyaojieheshijilaikaolv。neimexiangqinjiaoyoubanfayounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanzhongguoshixiangqindewenzhangba。

第一，相亲：

 xiangqinshi，jiaruniqueshiduizheigenanshengmeiyouxingqu，keyishidangfangmanliaotianjiezou，shaozuolengdan，shaoshuoyijuhua，pinfanshuoyijuhua，zongeryanzhi，yaojitafanggexinhao，“woduinimeishenmexingqu”，miandetayishinanyijieshou。

 xiangqinjiaoyou:dangran，jiarunigentazaiyiqiliaotianshiyouyizhongruzuozhenzhandeganjue，keyizhaogejiekoulikai，yingshizuopinzhongyouhenduozheiyangdelizi，buyidingyangeanzhaozheizhongfangshi，linghuoyunyongjiuxingle，zhiyaoduimianbushishagua，kendingnenglijienideyisi。

第二，相亲之后。

 xiangqinzhihou，jiashemeiyouxiangguohetayiqikanyikan，huiquyihouqianwanbuyaochenmo，yinweichenmohuijizhouweidailaimorendetaidu，huozheshuochuzijidexiangfa——

 yi、gaosunidefumu：jiranxiangqinshitamenanpaide，neimezaixiangqinjieshudediyishijian，yidingyaogaosufumuzijidetaidu，jishijieguohuirangtamenlveyoushiwang，danyeyidinghuihenlijieni，zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，keyibahuashuodezhijieledang，zaiyoufumuquheduifangdejiarengoutong。

 er、gaosuqianxianzhe：yexunimenzhijianyouyuehaoxiangqindehongniang，neiniyekeyizaiganxietaduinideguanzhaohou，youtazaiquzhaolianggerendejiarengoutong，zheizhongqingkuangxia，huabunengtaizhijieledang，shaoxianhanxu。

 san、gaosuxiangqinduixiang：jiarunidanxinzhongjiangekailehenduoren，huizaochengxinxibuduideng，zhongguoshixiangqin,shenzhichuxianxinxichuandicuowudeqingkuang，qingzhijiegaosuta，danqianwanbuyaobahuashuodetaizhijie，hanxuzaihanxu，shuoshuotadeyoudian，zaijizijizhaogejiekou——“nishigehenshangjindenanren，danshiyexuwomendexinggebutaishihe”，ranhoufayizhanghaorenka，woxiangniyidinghuide!