相亲总是不成功怎么回事？

 xiangqinjiqiao：zhenduixuduo nanhaizieryanyexudoushiyouguoxiangqinyuehuidelijing，zaigaitanlianaidenianlingmeiyoudaihuiquyigenvpengyou，bulunshibabamamahuanshiqinpenghaoyou，doushiweiniderenshengdashicaolao。xiangqingonglveyounaxie？neimaxiangqinyuehuibianbianchengyitiaojindao，youxierenduixiangqinyuehuitianmanchengjian，juedelaorenxiangxijieshaodemubiaoyidingbingbushizishenxinaide。danshijishangtashizhongwuhui，youdeqingkuangxiayuanfenzheileiwupinliulianwangfan，nizenmezhidaoxiangqinyuehuilejiedeyidingbingbushinixiaide?

相亲约会

 yinci baxiangqinyuehuidangzuoyizhongyiqiezhengchangdededaotanlianaidefangshi，bingmeishenmebuneng。danshixuduo nanhaiziyidingdoufannaoguo，xiangqinyuehuiquanguochengzhongduinvshengyinxiangfeichanghao，danshixiangqinyuehuiwanbihouqueyizhimeiyoulexiamian，neimajinriwojiujiaonizheijigechangyongzhaoshitigaoxiangqinyuehuitongguolv。

一定要营造优良的第一印象

 xiangqingonglveyounaxie？ruguonidiyicijiejiaoyigeren，lingyifangrangnidediyiyinxiangshizhiguanzhongyaode。neimazaixiangqinyuehuizhong，diyiyinxiangyeshiyouweizhongyaode。kenengzaixiangqinyuehuiqiandanjianguolingyifangdexiangpian，keshizhongjiusheiyebukeyipingzheyizhangzhaopianjiujueceduizheigerendeyinxiang。

 youxuan，zuoweinanhaizixiangqinyuehuibuwandaoshijichudewenminglimao，diyicijianmianjiuwandao，buguannixiangshuoshenmeyuanyin，nvxingzongshijuedenimeiyoubadajiadexiangqinyuehuifangzaixinli。huoshinishigebushijianguannianderen。cizhi，kandaonvhaixiaorongwenhao，yantanjuzhidaqihennengdedaolingyifanghaogandu。jinguanmeiyigexiangqinyuehuiderenmianbuledoushiyoujiaolvbuandexintai，keshijiarunijiangjiaolvbuanguoduodezhuyaobiaoxianzailianbu，neimayiqieyigenvshengdouburongyiduiniyouhaogan。zuizhongbuguandajiazhongjiantaolunnaxiehuatitaolun，yidingyaowenminglimaoyongyuxiangnvhaizhanxianchuniyouliangdesuzhi。

明白找寻共同语言

 zhenduixiangqinyuehuideshuangfangeryan，zhongjiudiyicihelingyifangpengmian，bicizhijianyidingcunyouyixiejuligan。eryaoxiangjiangdizheiyifenjuligandeshifangfajiushigoutongjiaoliu，jianghuakendingshimenzaoxingyishu。zainihenvshenggoutongjiaoliushi，yidingyaotiaoxuandajiaxianghuhenganxingqudehuatitaolun，bubijinjintanyixiewuguanjinyaoshifenwuqudehuatitaolun。neimanizanvhaixinzhongzhongyidingyeshigewuliaoderen，buyaodanxinzishenbusuihe，danyouzhaobuzhegongtongyuyan，ninengzaixiangqinyuehuiqianlveweiduinvhaizuoyidianzhangwo，yijutadexihaogangwei，zhaoxungongtongyuyan。

yaolejiegoutongjiaoliushixianghujinyibuzhangwodezhongyao，yeduidajiakefouhaiyoushihoufazhanqushijuyougenbenxinggongxiao。

主动付钱勤奋保持联络

 huoxuxiangqinyuehuidebicizaichileyicifan，heleyicixianmokafeihoubianhuigebendongxi，youyudajiabingbingbushihenlingrenmanyilingyifang。keshiwoshuoqideshi，buguannishibushilingrenmanyiyunixiangqinyuehuidenvhai，zaixiangqinyuehuiwanbiyaojiezhangdeqingkuangxianibixujijizijitaoqian。bubiganjuetashihutuqian，yebubiganjueyingdangxianghaiwaineibanaazhi，zaizhongguonannvxiangqinyuehuinanhaizijijifuqian，shinanhaizidenanzihanqigai。jishiliangrenmeiyuanfen，niyizhizaitaneixinyehuiliuyouhaoyinxiang，fanguolaijiaruyaoxianghenvshengyoushihoudefazhanqushi，neimafuqianjiuyeshiwubidele。

 xuduo nanshengshuo，xiangqinyuehuishijuedeliaodaotingbucuo，danshixiangqinyuehuiwanbihouyoumeiyouxiamianle，cikebubiganjuenvhaiyidingduinisuoranwuwei，jiuziganduoluo。nichedinenggou jijilianluota，yicibuhao2ciyibianaideren，jijilianluolingyifangbingbudiuren。huoxutashigechuyubeidongderen，ertayizhidengzhenidejiji。

 xiangqinjiqiao：xuduo renjuedeshuobailedexiangqinyuehui，shuangfangdoubingbulejiexianghu，shijishangbianshikanyan，erzheixiezhangxiangxiangduixingbugaoderenbianhuiduizishendexiangqinyuehuimeiyouzixinxin。shijishangchediwuxuzheiban，buguannikanqilaizenyang，jilaoxiangqinyuehuizhongzenyangchengxiannizijidegerenmeilicaisuanshizhongyao。zuizhong，zheixierengzaixiangqinyuehuidadaoshangqianxingderen，xiwangnijinzaopengdaoduideta。