被父母逼相亲？最理想的相亲是什么样的

 xiangqinyuehui，zaoyibianchengshehuifazhanzhongzuijuyiyidehuatitaolunzhiyi，dajiafenfenyilunquemeiyoutongyihuida。zaiyuehuijiaowangzheiciboyizhong，fumu、ernv，daodisheicaikeyizuodao“shuangying”ni?yihuoshi，xiangqinyuehuiyoumuyouzuilixianghuadeqingkuang?

1、擅于征求儿女的建议

 zaixiangqinyuehuishang，babamamalaoshenlaodongliweixiaohaizhaolemubiao，jinguanhenyousixu，danruozhaoledemubiaoxiaohaibulingrenmanyi，budanshechilangfeiernvshijian，bingqiehaifeichangrongyitishengjidairendefenqi。yiner，zaixiangqinyuehuizheijianshiqingshang，tiyibabamamayingdangduokaolvdaoxiaohaidetihui，duozhengqiuxiaohaidejianyi，nenggou lingtingtadezhaoduixiangdebiaozhun，motouxiaohaixiaidezhonglei。

 lirurujindenianqinggengxiaiyuneileiyouquweixing、nenghuxiangjiqi、xianghuchengcaiderendaoyiqi，fumukezaizheixiefangmianjiabajing，qianwanbiezhuguanyiduanyongzishendeguifanweixiaohaitanduixiang。

2、提早整体规划婚姻生活，减少找对象的标准

 zainianqingrendequanqiuli，xuduo babamamadoushiyouyigeyihuo：“xiaohaijiujingzaitiaosha”。shijishang，zheiyinantigusuanyouxuduo nianqingrendoubuqingchu，wangbiantiyinianlingshihenanrennvrentiqianzhengtiguihuazishendezhongshendashi，yaoshimeiyouniantoude，nenggou shidubaomingcanjiababamamafenpeidexiangqinyuehui，jianjiandizhaolemubiao。 qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

 danshi，zainianqingrenzhizhong，yeshishifenzhizhede，liruyoudenianqingrenhuijiziji“liangshendingzuodazaochu”yitaozhaoduixiangjiaowangdebiaozhun：feiyimibabubi、xiangmaoyaojingmei、wubiyoufangyouche、wubiduodazheixie。zhenduizheileizhizhedenianqingren，nenggou lvewei“jianshao”xiazhaoduixiangdebiaozhun，zaiganqingli，jiaowangshufu、sanguanyizhicaisuanshizhongzhongzhizhong，zhenduigangpengmiandenanpengyou，bubijizheyipiaofoujue，shizhaojiyuliangzhezhijianduojiaoliuyugoutong，motouzhuangkuanghouzaijueceyebuwan。