新春佳节逃不了的相亲恋爱交友该怎么看待?

有哪些 恋爱交友技巧 ?新春佳节快来到，许多高龄单身男女青年人男人女人都是遭遇爸爸妈妈分配的相亲约会。你是否会略微不甘心和难堪呢?当回家了相亲约会早已是不能违反的指令时，你应当怎么看待呢?

STEP1：最先务必有下列三种充分准备：

 1、huoxuxiangqinyuehuidetongguolvwei40%，yijianzhongqinggailvwei10%，yinciduixiangqinyuehuibubibaohendadeqiwang，yifangxinhan。younaxielianaijiaoyoujiqiao?lianaijiqiaoyounaxie?

 2、jibianyiqiancengjianguolingyifangdexiezhenzhaopian，pengmianshihuanshimianbuleyuzhenrenbanyoupiancha(yibanshizhenrenbanbixiangpianlvecha，buqingchuxuduorenjideshinnianqianjiuzhao)。

 3、yicixiangqinyuehuiyihou，lingyifanghuohuichuxiansipilailianhuoshizongerzhongqingkuang，cijieweiyiqiezhengchangfanying，yingbaochiqingxinglixingkandai。

STEP2：穿着打扮：当然干净整洁是相亲约会第一因素!

 xiangqinyuehuiyizheyaoyidangran、daqi、ganjingzhengjiezhudao，wuxuguoduzhuangzhong。yixiuxianyuledabanjiukeyi，wuxuguodushishangchaoliu。shinengzhanshichunipingchangdefengcai，wuxusuzaochenglingyigeziji。

STEP3：基础礼数：文明礼貌最不容易被嫌多

 buguancicixiangqinyuehuijiushiniganxinqingyuanhuanshifuyanleshilaoren，daqidedangquanshiduixianghudezhongshi。jibiantaoyanlingyifang，shiyebutaihaodangzhongjilingyifangganga，nenggouzaiguohouduanxiaoxi、dianhua、huogenjuxiangxijieshaorendengjizhongfangshiwanyanxiejue。

 anshishiduilingyifangdezhongshi。nanrennvrenjunyingdaqidangran，youwenminglimaodanyoububiguodujuli。nanhaizirunengzuoyixiefangliaokouzheileiyouyiyideshibingzhanxianfengfandedongzuo，zehuizainvhaixinlidadajiafenxuduo。

STEP4：相亲约会场所早安排

1、kafeitingchalou：zuipubiandexiangqinyuehuichangdi

 shinengzaibaoxianghuoshikaochuanghubijiaosimidebuwei，bianjielianggerentanhuaneirong。xianliaoshijianbubiguozhang，yi30fenzhongdao60fenzhongweiyi。

 yibannanxingdoushijijifuqian，danbuqingchunvxingnaizhinanxinghuimingquetichuaafuqian。zongeryanzhifuqiannantiwuxuguodusichan，jiaruyoulingyifangbangnifuqian，jitamenyigezhenxinshiyideganxiehexiaoronggengjiahao。jinliangbuyaozaidiyicinvhaixiangqinjiusongxianhuahuobiedelipin。

2、kandianshiju：leijigongtongyuyan

 ruyifangnengtizaomaihaoyingpiaoshi。zaikandianshijuyiqianhuoyihoukefenpeiyixieyinchaxianliaodexinxiangmu。zhutihuodongshiyuezaidabaitiankaizhan。

3、youdisanrendaochangdechangsuo(xiangxijieshaorenhuopenyoudaochang)

 budanyaoguanxinyouhuimubiao，haiyaoguanxindaochangdebieren。danduibierenderenzhidubunengchaochuyouhuimubiao。duibierendenantiyeyingshushihuiying。

4、shengtaigongyuanmiaohui：tianmanhuanleqifen

nvhaikezhunbeichongfen，wuxuchuanmafandexuezihuolintaizhongdepinpaibao。

 nanxingqingzouzaiaijinchedaodeyice。biezouhenyuanle，wenxintixingsuishisuidixiexi。lianggerenjinkenengzaixuduorendediquzhutihuodong，biezoudaoshengtaigongyuanzuishenchudengmeiyourendiqu。feibiyaocuoshi，nanxingwuxuchengfeijizuomenlashou、fuyaodengzishi。

STEP5：帮你提前准备话题讨论，聊够1钟头!

 diyiciyuehuidehuatitaolunguanjianjinjinweiraozaigongzuozhong、jiazhong，nenggouxianghuxiangxijieshaoxiegongzuozhongzhuangkuang、qingkuang、jiatingbeijing，wuxuguoduxiangjin。wuxutidaoshijishouyi，jiarulingyifangwenqi，yehebushushizuoda。

 chengxinyingshidiyiguilv，youyiqipiandaihuiweijinhouchanshenganquanyinhuan。jiarupengdaobuxiangyaohuiyingdenanti，nenggoufengqudexiaodao“xiayiciduinishuo”huoyongbiedefangfameidaiguo。xianliaoshiwuxuguoduxinji、yewuxutaidanyougaliao，liangrenweiweilailinjiukeyi。

 huatitaolunkebaohan：nianshuhuogongzuoshangdeyouqudeshi、pingchangdegerenaihao、dangxiashixingdehuatitaolun……jianxinzheizhonghuatitaolunliaowan，shijianzaoyichaochu40fenzhong，jiarudajiayeyoudezaiciliao，bicidouhaimeiyaozoudehanyi，jiuyiweizhedajiaduixianghudediyiyinxiangfeichanghaoe!jiunenggoufenpeixiayiciyouhuie。

STEP6：相亲约会之后TIPS：

 laorenhexiangxijieshaoren，haowuyiwenhuilejiediyiyinxiang，shushihuiyingjiukeyi。jiarubuxiangyaozaidupengmian，jiuwanzhuantuicihaola。jiaruganjuelingyifanghaifeichanghao，nenggouzaiyouhuiwanbihoufaxinxigaozhilingyifangnideniantou，nanhaizinenggouzhijieyidian，nvhaiyekeyishuoxieliru“lejienihengaoxing”zheilei。lianaijiqiaoyounaxie?