征婚相亲男女该有心态是怎样的？

 wulunshizhenghunxiangqin、xiangqinzhenghun，huanshihunjiexiangqin，douyulaiyuguangfan，danyiranyouxuduorenjuedeyizhenghunxiangqinneiyangdefangfalejieyigeyixingpengyou，budanwuqu，haibixutixindiaodan，wufaxunzhaoxinaidelingyiban。danshijishang，hunjiexiangqindanshishirangwomenchushileyigejiyu，yaoshinengyushangdongnideren，buzaihugezhonggeyangfangfa。

 yexuduorenmaiyuan，xiangqinyicici，queyirandanshennannv，duixiangqinzhenghunzaojiushiwangtouding。hunjiexiangqinbuyidingjiushishuoyaoweicixunzhaorenshengdaoludeairen，renmenbaxiangqinzhenghundangzuojiyu，lejiexindepenyou，buduanfengfuduocaihetuozhanzishen。

 shijishang，xiangqinzhenghunnanrennvrenzaixiangqinquanguochengzhongquefaleyixieleguandexintai，tamengaiyoudexintaizhuangtaishiruhe?jiexiaquyiqilaikankan!

相亲心态状态一：不必担心被回绝

nizishendeshiyongjiazhi，yulingyifangdedianpingbuxianggan。

zuixian，zainibeihaipahejiaolvbuanshuiyanyiqian，bixuxianxiangyixiangxiangqindeyichu。

 jiarudajiashijingrenjieshaodexiangqin，neimenihaowuyiwenlejie，weituorenyiban shijiangguonidehaotinghuade，zheiyidianzuoweidajiaguanliandeqizhidian，shishifenfeichanghaode。

 zheixiehaipazishenbuzuhao、beihuijuederen，guigenjiedijiushishuogerenjiazhigantaidi，bazishendeshiyongjiazhichedichuangjianzaiyigelurendedianpingshang。

shijishangyigelurenaibuairenmen，bingbukeyidaibiaorenmenruhe。

 meigerenshiduyiwuerde。naxinxianshuiguozuoxingrong，rutongrenmenxuduorenshipipa，xuduorenshiiphone，xuduorenshishuimitao，xuduorenshidayingtao，xuduorenshiliulianguo。

 yincinimenshishenmemoyang，zhidaibiaonidetexing。bingfeiyixierenbuyuniyouhui，jiubiaomingmeiyourenhuiyaoni。huoxu，bazishenshidemoyangzhanxianchuqushibixude。

二、相亲心态状态一：真情并不是追来的，只是吸引住来的

 dangnidenanpengyouzhuyaobiaoxianchuxianzhudebujiqing，nijuedejiaolvbuan、henzhirugu，neimeninenggoushizhezhefajigexinxi，huoshizaikaizhanyiciyaoqing。youyuzhongjiurendeqingkuangdoubuyiyang，meidingzhuishangtaxinqingyumen，huoshigongzuozhongbuhao，tibuqilaijiqing。

 keshijiaruliuyanheyaoqingnidouzaoyiganle，lingyifanghuanshixintaibujiqing，bingmeiyouxiangnizuoyiqiebiaoshu，yizhihuijueyunipengmian，neimenijiuqianwanbiezaisichanle。

 sichanzongshijinikanqilaiyibuzhongshilingyifang，ershigengweibianyi。ninengqufanshengzijiyounaxie“quexian”huoshikeyitigaodediqu，suihouquanmiantigaozishen，weixiayicixiangqinzuotiqianzhunbei。

 jinyinjianguojihuimiandenanpengyouanranshenshang，shiyijianhenhuajixideshier。niweiheyaorangyige“luren”shangxianidexintaini?nizhangwotashiduoshao?#suishenxiedaixingfukuaile zaicixiulu——anhuishengxiangqinwangxinnianxianci#

 aiqingshiyaochuangjianzaizhangwohexianghuqinshenjinglixuduoshierdejibenzhizhongde，dajiazhongjianchedimeiyouzheizhongyaosu，niyiban mishangdejinjinniduizheiyirendexiangxiang，huoshishixihuanyigerenlianaideganjue。yincizheishuodaodijinjinxiaowoziliandeshoujiyouxieryi。

 yaohaijide，zhenghunxiangqinbingbushiyigemeirirenwu，zhishiyigenenggouhenyouqudezhutihuodong，yibianjiniyushangbuyiyangderen，zuihouguodegengweigaoxing。

 nidecezhongdianbubifangdaobuzaiyini，bubeinixiyinzhuderenshoushang。nikeyishizhongbacezhongdianfangdaonizenyangyuelaiyuegengqiang，gengfengfuduocai，genggaoxing，gengsuiyishang。

nidexintaizhuangtaiyueqingqingsongsong，xiwangyueshiji、youxiao，jiuhuidedaoyuegaodeganshou。