婚恋相亲的十种聊天的技巧

 zenmeheweijianguomiandejiaoyou xiangqin duixiangliaotian?zhenduimeijianguomiandejiaoyouxiangqinduixiang，xiangyaobaituozheicengmoshenggan，jiudebawoyixieliaotiandejichufangfa。xialiezheishizhongliaotianshuhuirangduifangaishangheniliao。

 zhenduihaiweijianguomiandehunlianxiangqinduixiang，yidingyaohaijidezhangwohaozhongchidu，lanyanzhijidejianju。yinweibicihaiweijianguomian，yinciliaotianshibubitailengmo，neiyanghuirangduifangjuedewobutairongyilicaita，yejiumeibanfaduinijijizhudongle。liru，duifangguqiyongqihenilianluo，yexuqueshiyiliangju“hehehe”“e”laixiaomoduifang，neiyanghuanzuosheidoushimeibanfabuduanlianluonide。

 changkaishiliaotianjianyidebiaoshujiushishuo，niyizhizaihuihuazhongmeiyoubiaomingdeniantou，xiaogushi，xintaihuoshijuede，zaochengduifangzaicibiwendeaihao。liruyigenvhaixunwenni：“nijinriguoderuhe?”ni：“jianzhiyiyannanjin”。ta：“zenmela?”ni：“taiexinxiangtule!zaiyebuhuixiangyaozhidaode。”zheiban，tahuiduizheizaiqizhongdexiaogushishifendehenganxingqu。

jiaosebanyanyouxiliaotiandejiqiao

 jiaosebanyanyouxiheli，youyutazhuyaobiaoxiandebingbushizhenzhengdezhuangkuang。jiaosebanyanyouxizhongdajiashiyandebingbushizhenzhengderenwujiaose。yinerfangzhilenankan。dajiayekeyizairenwujiaosezhongfangdekai。liruniyaoshuo：“nilaixiexiba，yinweiwoshuile。”jiaosebanyanyouxi：“aiqingtuixiaba。zhenshuimianle。mingtianzaifannidepai。”jiaosebanyanyouxiwangwangheliyouyutazaochengdeganqingshizhenzhengde。zheijiushishuo，zaijiaosebanyanyouxizhongnijiduifangyiqiejuedejiuhaositamenzaizhenzhengrichangshenghuodejuedeyiyangmingxian。

幽默风趣聊天

 zheidongximeibanfadanyihuadexuexipeixun。youmofengqujiushinideyizhongsiweimoshi。wojuedezaicibiaoming，bingbushininengshuoxiaohuajiushishuofengqule。fengqubingbushihuoxudehuatitaolun，zhishiyouyuzheigeren。yongshifenyansurenzhendeyikouqishuozheshifenhuangdandehua。yidianbuhaoxiangzaiwanxiao。zheishijishangshiyizhongchuhuyiliaodesiweimoshi。dangnimeiyouzheileisiweimoshi，neimatashuochuqudejiubiranshiyouliyoujude。yejiumeiyoufengqukexun。

联络感

1、qianbulianluogan(xianghudehuatitaolun)

 liru：woheniyuanxianshitongyisuochuzhongbiyedeya/yuanxianniyexiaichijiemojianga。zaijiaowangqianqi，renmenjiezhuzheileilianluoganlailiaoqilaiduifang。neiyangdelianluoganyueda，dajiabianchengdepengyou/qinglvdegailvyueduoda。

2、深层次联络感

 lirudajiachangyouguobeilingnvedeqinshenjingli/babamamalihundeqinshenjingli/xiangyaozijindeniantouzheixie。shencengcilianluoganyibanheqingganheganqingguagou。yejiushishuoshenjiao。yiduanguanlianxunxujianjindoutaobudongduofangmianlianluogan。yaoliuyidejiushishuo，shengchanzhizaoduofangmianlianluogandezuijiashijihedizhishifenguanjian。nibukeyizaidaxiawudehetarenliaoniaishangguoyigebugaiaideren。niyebukeyizaiyouxitinggaozhitaniyiqianxiangyaozijin。

若即若离

yongchuidiaodebuzhoulaixingronghuihuadebuzhou。lijijulishuoming：

 li1：ni：nilaizinali?(youhuo)duifang：shandongren。(diaoshang)ni：shibushi!wozuiaiheshandongrendajiaodaole!(juanxian)danshiweisharujinhenihuigoutongjiaoliujiannan!(shifangchulai)。zheiyifangshi degongxiaojiushishuo，jinibujinheduifanghala。youburongyishileshenfen。bingqiekeyijiqiduifangdeqiuzhiyu。

诱出价值观念

 zheiguishuyuduofangmianliaotiandecengmian。nixiangyaohuozhiduifangdeyixieyinsibaohuhuozhemimi。lirunixiangzhidaotatongnianshidaideqinshenjingli。huoxuninenglijiwen：“niershipengdaoguonaxienanyiwanghuaideshierma?”。cikeduifanghenjianghuijibuqilai。jiunenggougangkaishizishenbiangushizhengqueyindao。