给交友相亲女生的14条忠告（上）

 nvhaijiaoyou xiangqin shihoupengdaogeshigeyangdeyiwen，zheihenjianghuidaozhinidewupan。xiabianzheizhongjijiaoyouxiangqinnvshengdezhonggao，niyidingyaokan。

1、zuixianxuduonvshengpengdaodezhuangkuangjiushishuo。gangkaishinanhaizhuidejin。zhihoumanmanlengmole。gaobudongyuangu。

 pouxi1:nandehenduiniyouganjue，yincizhuidejin。keshinimeiyisifanying。huomeikanshangta。huozhebulengburede。neiyangtadaziranshiququdongli。tahaowuyiwenxiangquwenqizhoubiandepenyou。tapenyouhuitanbai，zheiyinvdeaojiao。nijiulengtajirizailiao。neiyanghuoxucuoguoleyuanfen。

 pouxi2:gangkaishikanyangzibingbushihenlingrenmanyi。keshixiangqizishennianjibianda，shuodongzishen，moyangnaxiebuguanjian。jiujuecechupengxia。zhihoufajuequeshijienabushang。jiulengxialaile。

 pouxi3:chuzaimangranhuanjiederengangkaishihuanshiduoyongxinde。zhihoufajue。buzhiweishenmeyaoshuapengyou。jiehundeyiyizaiyu。(zheiyinvhaiduojian)

2、hunlianxiangqinquanshijiezoukuaide。yincimiantianjiunenggoudengsi。zongxuduorenmaiyuanxiangqingonglixingqiang。

 pouxi:hunlianxiangqindemudiyuanbenjiushishuoyibianwanhun。nandaoshuoshiyibianchuquduolejiepenyou?dahuoerzuichunshangshuodeshi，xiangqinjiudanglejiepenyou，bulefufudehua。haikeyibianchenglanyanzhiji。neimarujinnihuiyixiazishen。niyuzhiqiannanpengyourujinhuanshilanyanzhijide?youjigerengzaijixulianluode?turanyouyitian。nifajueninanyouhezhiqianxiangqinhaiyaoshoujiweixinhuoqqxianliao。suihoutagaosudajia，nageshilanyanzhiji，nixinma?

 3、nanhaibumingbaixihuanni。yibanjiuyigeyuangu。xiangmaomeizuodaotaguiding。yijubuyiyangdenansheng。guidingyebuyiyang。buyiyang。guobushangdiyiguan。nandebenzhiburongyiquzhangwonidebenzhi。qingsuannibenzhifeichanghao。

 pouxi:xiangqinmeiqingganjiben，jiarugangkaishipengmianyoumeiganjue。benzhibuyuanliao、buyuanzaicipengmian。keshijiadingdajiashitongxuemen。gangkaishimeiqingganjiben。keshiwubiyaomeitianpengmian。bansuizheshijianzhuanbian。youjianghuijiuzaochengleqinggan。zheiyijiushishuoxiangqinhezishenshuapengyoudechabie。

4、懂得发嗲

 nitongguolvshenggao80%。qiantitiaojianjiushinihenlingrenmanyinagenande。nifadiahuijifananshengdeweihuchongdong。neileibierenbixudejuede，huirangzishenjuedecunyouhenyoushiyongjiazhi。(jinguanyoushizishendoumeifajue)

5 、yuanxianxiangqinnanmeineimashuoaiwo

 pouxi:neiyangxiang。。。wojiangnaxiehaoni。dajiacai pengmianjigexingqi。zennengrangtarenaizhenigeyusiyuxianni?qingganbixushijianhangshijichu。gangpengmianhaowuyiwenmeineimeaini。zaijiabierenyitiaosuoshuo:“xiangqinnanyuanxianmeineimeaini”suihoujiusheqile。wojulishuomingbaliruyuwozai1qi20dexifu。buqiangzidanhuilaile。wokeyidangzaiqianbian。ruguoganglejie1tiandenanpengyou。woyexu(yingdangshuoyiding)jiuburongyiweijiguantoule。

6、xiangqinhou，yongwuxuquwenweituoren，lingyifanglingrenmanyizishenbu?suihoujueceyaozaicifazhanqushibu

 pouxi:wenleyebaiwen。buqizuoyongde。juedaduoshuhuodedecankaodaanquanshi，renhaifeichanghao。nenggouxianchupengxia，jianjiandizhangwo(neiyanghenguanfangwangdehuiying)。yincilingyifanglingrenmanyizishenbu。genjuyuechuqu。xianliaoneishihoudemuguanghezishikandechuqu。

7、tarendejianyizhiyouzuocanzhao

 meigerenyoudianerxiaowenti。jiaruyouyusuoshidanxin。nifatiezixunqiubangzhu。huodedeloudixiacankaodaandabufenshi“fenle”，“jianjuefen”shuozhenhuanifenleguanloudixiadeshashi?meiyourenhuijinitichufenshoufuzeren。yincibanshiyidingyaokaolvdaoqingxi。jiarunandequeshihenzhadehua(yuanzexingwentihuojiazhiguannian、renshengjiazhiguan‘renshengguandengnantidehua)，neimafen，biezaiyouyu。