相亲交友有哪些技巧呢?

 wojuedejuedaduoshurendoushiyoubeiqinrentuoqu xiangqin huoshizishenjijixiangqinjingli，tongchangqingkuangxiashibaideyuanguyaobujiushishuoxianghuzhijiankancuowuyan，yingjianpeizhibufuzishendeguifan，yaobujiushishuozaibixushuipingshanghelingyifangliaobudaohuoshibuqingchuliaonaxieyouguanlian。xiangqinjiaoyouyounaxiejiqiaoni?

yi zenyangmiaoyong“ruojiruoli”fa，xunsugenxiangqinjiaoyoumeizhituidongguanlian

 chucidanshenxiangqinhouruhefazhanqushi?chucixiangqinhouduixianghuzhineng1gedayuedezhangwo，xiangyaoshencengcifazhanqushiguanlian，gengkuaidefangfabixushigenjugoutongjiaoliu。xiabianjiaoshijiulaijiaoniruhegenju“ruojiruoli”fa，shencengcigoutongjiaoliulaixunsutuidongqinggan。xuduorengenmeizhixiangqinyihou，meizhiyetongyishizhejiaowangshizheshencengcizhangwo，yejiubiaoming，nidejichubiaozhunshihehumeizhideguidingde，meizhicaixiangyaogennichupeng。

 keshixuduorenjiqiegenmeizhimingqueguanlian，lejienvhaibujiujiugaobai，jilingyifanghendagongzuoyalihebushushidu，cikemeizhijiuhuigaosuni“meiganjue”、“renmenyouwenti”、“renmenhuanshizuopengyouba”?neiyouyunaxie?youyunimeiyouxunzhaokaiqinvxingaiqingdedianyuankaiguan。xuduozhinanshuaigezaizhuiqiunvshengdeneishihou，zhangqiyilaiquanshiyiyixingpengyoudezhenshishenfenchuxian，liru：gangkaishijiubiaoshuquelideshujuxinhaowoxiangzhuini，bazishenganjuehaodewupinjinvhai，rangnvhaipugongdejienani，jieguodoushibeinvxinghenhendidehuijue。guanjiandeyuangushinitaifeichangrongyihuode，taizaodepululezishendemudi，rutongzheijianhuopin，suishisuidigongnvxingxuanze，chediqueshilezhudaoquan，zhiyoudengnvxingwanleizhe，xiangzhaogehaolaogongjialecaihuixiangqileni，shizaitaidekebei!yinci，jinrijiaoshiyaojiaodajiakaiqinvxingaiqingdedianyuankaiguan，liangzhaonadaotadejuemiwuqi：“ruojiruolifa”。“ruojiruoli”shibingfasanshiliujidedishiliuji。quanwenhanyishi：yaoxiangzhuazhuziji，nenggouxuyixianfangkuanta，shitashifangyalifangbei，chongzupulu，suihouzaibatazhuazhu。 qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan!

 tashiyizhongshifenjingzhandezujinvwangjishuxing，yingyongzaidanshenxiangqinlianqingzheijianshiqingshangkeyishuoshibeigongban!conghuidenanshengzaizhuinvxingdeneishihou，zongshizhanxianzishenchusedeyibian，keshiduinvxingyuqingguzong，rangnvxingjijidexianglaitanxunni，zhujiantafanglejinqu。dangnvxingxiangnibiaoshuhaogandudeneishihou，xuyishidudelakaita、shuyuanbicita。nvxingjiuhuishangnao，buguanbuguzhenshishenfen，jijidilaizhuiqiuni。yinci，jibiannibingbushigaoshuaifu，ruguonibawolezheiyimiji，yaonixinzhongdenvshenweileniruchiruzui，yebingbushixiangxiangzhongdeneimawanwandabudao。shijiyingyongjichu：

er、xiangqinjinglixianliaozhongzenyangyingyongruojiruoli?

 zailianqingzhong，liaotiandejiqiaoyouyigezhuanyeshuyujiao“suomen”。keshixuduonanhaizizaipaoniushizongshiyixindela，ganjuetingcongtacaihuiqutagengweideaijin，gengnongqiaochengzhuodeshi，youderengensuizubeihuoyenaibeixuededemouxiedingyihexianliaoshu，liru：1、 zhuiqiunvshenghaiyaoduitahao，guanzhuta，tajiuhuiduiniyouganjue。2、 zaozhongwanyaowenhou，fanyingchunidetiexin，tahuixiguanxingnideshouhoude。3、 weirenchushiyaotanbai，neiyangkanqilainizheixiaohuoerzhenxinshiyi，nvhaihuiduiniyouganjue。4、 bubiyouqianghuadiaode，nvhaitaoyan。zhengyouyuzheizhongyishideqianyimohua，caiyongyouxianrujinneimaduozhinanshuaigedeliaotianfangshi：ni：jinriguodegaoxingma?ta：haihaobani：bugaoxingma?ta：womeitouani：neirujinganshani?ta：kandianshijuni：shenmedianying?ta：xihongshishoufuni：ezheilei“chixutichuwenti+languanzhu”deliaotianfangshi，budanrangmeizhiganshoubushangnideshiyongjiazhi，bingqiehaihuiganjuenifeichangwuqu，xiangqinmeizhiyiyangshizheileijuede。nannvpengyoudegoutongjiaoliubingbushimaimai。zhishigoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhongzaochengdaliangdexintaiganshou，zheisuanshinvrenxiangyaode。zenmecainengrangxiangqinnvhaizaochengxintaini?huoxushibianzhehuashi，nikeyirangtajuedeyihuierkaixin，yihuierweiji。liangxinghudongjiaoliuzhongzhengfu2xianghushizheijianshifenyoukuailedeshier，nanshengzaizhengfunvrendequanguochengzhong，nvxinghuixiaigenniwanzhuomizangdeshoujiyouxi。yinci，ninengshuohaotinghuadoutagaoxing，keshijilao：bubiyizhiquyueta，youshihouderangtajuedenibingfeiyitaweiguanlizhongxin，tadeaojiaoxintaizhuangtaihuishuzhangya，zaochengjinpogan。huanjuhuashuo，rangta“weilenikaixinweileniyou”，rangtaganjuezishenxintaidedianyuankaiguanbawozainideshoushang，tadaziranjiuhuiganjue“nihenguanjian”!

 liruneiyang：yibanxianliao：nihaomei(meizhitingduole，meishajuede)ruojiruolifazhizanyangni：“wofaxian1genishoushangde“wenti”(tui)meizhi(henhaoqixin)：naxie?ni：shinixiaoqilaifeichangpiaoliang，xiangfanye，woduokanyuedujiyandoupalichendawoya(la)meizhi：hahahahaha，duiyuma，naliyoubierendapaimingxingpiaoliangyinci,zanyangmeizhibubifanfanerkua，zhishiyaoyoujutihuadewupin，budannengkanqilainidexini，yekeyirangmeizhiqueshikaixin，huoxuzaizanyangyiqianlaigeshidudeshiya，diaozhuantadexintaiyeshixuezhongsongtan。

san ruojiruolifazhijiangfa

 jiushishuozaixianliaozhong，rangniyutadebuweipingqi，naizhinikeyilvegaotayidianer。zheierdegaobingfeishuoquanliheyingxiangligao，zhishiniziwojiazhijiaoweigao。liru：meizhi：niduogao?ni：doumeiyouduogaoba，ligoutianhaiyuanzhenimeizhi：hahahahaha，niruheneimefengquni：niruhenenggouneimekuaijiukuabieren，yaobeifazhandeemeizhi：kuaniyaobuhaoani：neiburan......(huaixiao)meizhi：naxie?ni：jiangshanggedahonghuaba

si jiaowangzhongzenyangyingyongruojiruoli?

 jiaoshijiandaoxuduonanhaizijizijidenvwangkeyishuoshi“jinxinjieli”，yuetachulaiyongcan，weitamaixiezi，qixijie、shengchensongli，nvhaishuomeiyouqianlikehuiqian，naizhiyouderendouganlenanyougaizuodeshi，danchangchangtanqiqinggan，nvhaijiuraokaihuatitaolun，jiushishuoburenkeniyeshitananyou，neijiushizenmehuishi?duile，youyunijiushishuobeiyongtaia!dengshijiankeyile，huoshitazhaodaogaolengnanshen，yejiugaiyunizaijianle!jiaruzhangwomaoderenbidinghuigaoqingchu，maomaonijijiaijindeneishihou，tajiuhuipaodeyimian，ruguoniwuluntadeneishihouyouhuigandaonidebianshang!zheileiquanguochengrutongzaigennidayouxi!wojuedemaohenvxinghenxiang，zhuomobutoucaihuiguanxinni，caihuiduinizaochenghaoqixin，caihuiyitiandaowanxiangnongqingchuni!liru：ninengjijidenuanweitouhuaisongbao，guanhuaibeizhi，jijideanshizheniduitayouhaogandu，suihouhuranxiaotuiertian，zheijitiannvxinghuigaobudongnijiujingxiangganshenme，hurandelewuyinxinhuirangtaxinhuangyiluan。keshi，jilao：zaitaannabuzhujijiyuenideneishihou，nijijizhudonghuiyingguanzhuyixiaxiadoushifeichangbixude。huanjuhuashuo，jiushishuorangtajuededaonideyuqingguzong，rangtaduinimengbi，gaogaobudongnineixinduitashiruhexiangde，tajiuhuimanmandigangkaishiguanxinnini，xintaibeiniqianyindai。zailiru：ruguonishizhijinkou、xiangyong、qinwendengshenhuaguanlianbeijushi，hebushizherenyishi，quhuiniderenzhidu，shidudepaijitaguoduanshijian。zaizheiduanshijian，qingbiezaicilianluotaduitahao。zheixiepaijishijiannei，jiushishuorangtamanmandecongbuzaihudaomishi，zuizhongtadexinlihuigaoqingchu，dajiazhongjiandepengyouguanxizhudaoquandoubawozainideshoushang，erpaijitazeshiduitadechufa。yincitajiuhuijijixiangfangfaququyueni。zheiyineishihou，“zong”zaoyichongfenfahuilezuoyong，jiexiaqu，“qin”jiushifenzhongyaole。

 nikeyixuanzhunjihuizaiduitawenrougongji，yaoburanzhangqidepaijiyehenyoukenenghuirangtaxinrusihui，yejiushishuo“zong”bukeyiguodu。hebuxuanzhunjihuigongji，rangtalaolaoshishidizijintourunidehuaili，hennantaobulenidewuzhishan。yinci，jiaoshishuodaozheier，dajiakandonglema?shuobailede“ruojiruoli”shizhiduinvxingyao“hurehuleng，huyuanhujin”。