怎样在单身相亲若即若离?

 meiyijiaoyou xiangqin deren，quanshigudandikangquanbuquanqiudehaoxia。danshennannvjiushixinlijiangchangshangdeduguqiubai，erjiaoyouxiangqindanshishizheichangruqierzhideduijue，xiwangzhe1genengliangbaijushangdediren：“wohaizaizhuixunyiqiangshadidejiyu，yeqipanzishendaozaitarendejianxia。”yinerchucidanshenxiangqinshiyingdangzenmezuonenggouqudechenggongxiyinzhulingyifang?eryougaizenmezuonenggouliangzhaojiang“diren”nadao?zenyangzaidanshenxiangqinchuzhonghuiruojiruoli?xuehaoyouliyouju“ruojiruoli”，nengjinigengfeichangrongyiliaodaomeizhi。

1.ruojiruolidezhongyaoxing

 lianqingshigegongpingquanguocheng，nilaiwowang，zheixieguanliannenggouwangshenxinjiankangdefangfaqufazhanqushi。jiaruyizhinanhaizizaijiji，buduandizainvhaishoushangzijintouruhenduodeshijian、qinggan、huaxuewuzhideng，zuihoutazishenxianruzaiqizhong，bunengziba，zuizhongjianghuihuibeifahaorenka，huoshilunluobeiyongtai。bingqie，zaizhongguozhonghuachuantongwenhuadebeijingtuxia，ruguonishigewanrenmixiaohuo，buranxiangrangmeizhiduinijiji，feichangshao。yinci，zheiyineishihounixuehaoyongxiexiaojiliang，zhengqueyindaomeizhigennihudongjiaoliu，jingchanggennihudongjiaoliuhou，huibuzhudongdiduijinilexiangmutouzi，zhujianduinizaochenghaogandu。zheiyi“xiaojiliang”，wojuedejiushishuo——ruojiruoli。danshibiaomingyidianer，zhaoshuniruheshiyongdouhao，qiantitiaojianshi，nikeyiyouyikezhenxinshiyidexin。

2.ruojiruolidebuzhengquezitai

 xuduodixiongchangchangfanzheileibuzhengque：lejiemouyimeizhihou，jiaweixinhaoyou，suihoumeiriliaolailiaoqu，jiuneiyiliangju，meiyoushenmejindu，huozhipaoniunenggouyong“ruojiruoli”，nijiumeilitale，yincijiaowangba meilimeizhi。gangkaishimeizhihaifaleyiwen，zhihoujiumeishashengxiangle。xuduogemenzheiyineishihoujiugangkaishishangnao，fengkuangjimeizhifaxiaoxi，fajue，youxieren，fajuebeishandiaole，youdefajuemeizhibiyiqiangenglengmole。ruojiruoli，bingbushishineimeyongde。

3.ruojiruolidejibenyaosu

 ruojiruolidejibenyaosushi：yanzangchongdong，youqianrushen。dangmeizhiduinidouhaimeihendaxingquaihaodeneishihou，nikeyixuehaoyanzangzishendechongdong，bubipuluguoduoyaoqiugan。yiqingqingsongsongdezishi，qutiejinmeizhi，niyaoqiuduyaohemeizhiduiniyouhaoduzhengbi。shuorenhuajiushishuo，nikeyiyijumeizhidefanying，pulushiduoshaoyaoqiudu。xuduonanhaizi，changchangpuluyaoqiu，yingshengshengjiushishuo1gediaosia，yidakou1gepiaoliangmeinv，haoxingganmiren，xionghenda，tuihaozhangzheileidehua，zheileihuajiubieshuolehaome?dajiayaolejie，zaizheiyidanshenhanchangkuangdeshidai，dajiabuyingdanglunluowei“nannaidiaosi”debuweishanga，xuduonvhai，yingduirulangruhudediaosi，jianguaibuguai，haiweichifangbei，naizhidichuyanfan。yexuxuehaoyanzangzishendechongdong，“jinyuxi”gaolengnanshen，nideyaoqiuganzhuyaobiaoxiandeyueruo，meizhiduinideqiuzhiyuhexingquaihaocaihuitishangqu。naozilizhidianjizhemeizhidenanhaizi，yuebunenggaobiedanshen。 qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan!

4.zenyangyazhidiruojiruoli

创建舒适度

 ziwotisheng，waizaihebenzhi，zheizhongwoyemeiquduotanle。youyidianergengguanjian，shiniyaoxuehaohemeizhigaohaoguanxi，bingchuangjianqishushidu。jianshaoyaoqiugan，huodemeizhidexinlai，nidegongjinenglimeineimaqiang，neimayihoudajiajiunengzaojiuchudaliangdeshijianhegailv。yiqi，yeyouyiyunizhangwota，yegenglejienvren，duinieryan，jiushishuopaoniude1gexunlianma。jishizuobulenvpengyou，niyizhizaitazheieryehuodehenvhaigoutongjiaoliudeduanlian。yiner，jianshaoyaoqiugan，zaojiushushiquan，yongzheizhongpingjingdexintaiqugoutongjiaoliu。(tiyi：zaicaozongyaoqiugandeqiantitiaojianxia，xianggennvhaixianliaoliaobuduan，jiubixuzaojiuyoushenmigandehuatitaolun，youxingquaihaozhangwoxuexipeixundedixiong，nenggoujiashangjiaoshijiaoniruhedakainvhaigezhonggeyangxiaidehuatitaolun!)

学好分散化要求感

 yaoqiugantaiqiangdenanhaizi，tongchangshenpangnvhaifeichangshao，dajianenggouguanchayixiaxia。lejiegaofenshudiandenvhai，jiuhenbudelikechengbierendenanyou，zheileixintaizhuangtai，zennengliaodaomeizhini?womenjianyishi，dahuoerpingchangduogengezhonggeyangmeizhichupeng，genhaojigemeizhigoutongjiaoliu，bieyouyiqiexintaizhuangtaichengdan，nibieliaosaojiuxing，jiudanchunxingshuoshuohua，zaimingqueguanlianyiqian，zheileifangshi，nengxiezhunifensanhuayaoqiugan。ruguonixiangyaoshenhualaoguguanlian，nijiuzaicixiayijieduanduice，buhaodehua，youyigenvxingpengyoudoushimeiyoushenmewenti，zheisuanshi1gegaoduandaqinanhaiziheyixingpengyoujiaowangdeyazhizishi。

youhaogandusuanshi“guzong”dejiben

 xiangyaodiaoshangta，qiantitiaojianshi，jinibixudeyouhuolia。yiyangshijinvhaichixu10geyelidaowananhaomeng，weiheyoudenanhaizinengrangmeizhidaozhui，youdenanhaizizhongzhihou，meizhisongyidakou，zongsuanbulaifanwole。nantichuxianzainaer?youhuoli。qianmianyizhongnanhaizishinvhaiduitayouhaogandu，houmianyizhongnanhaizishinvhaiduitadichu。(tiyi：buqingchuruhezhanxianzishendegaoshiyongjiazhi，rangmeizhijiandaonideliangdian，nenggoujiashangjiaoshinixunsuchuangjianxiyinzhu，rangmeizhi1miaoaishangleni!)

 yiner，zenyangzaixiangqinchuzhonghuiruojiruoli，xiangyaoyonghaoruojiruoli，qiantitiaojianshi，meizhiduijinibixudehaogandu，zheiyijiqiaonengjinkuaicujindajiadeguanlianjindu。jiarunvhaiyuanbenjiutaoyanni，niruheruojiruolidoubuqizuoyong。yexuxiangrangnvhaixiaixihuanni，quhaohaoditigaozijideqiangzhishiyongjiazhiherouxingshiyongjiazhi。