夫妻情感问题咨询：如何挽回有问题的婚姻

 fuqiqingganwentizixun，yulaiyugengjiayouyi，rangbenshenzhiqianbutaihaodeyinxiangzailingyifangdexinlijianjiandiqingchu，jiezhezaiyongxinderongmaoquxiyinzhudaolingyifang。wanjiuhunyindanglingyifangjianjiandiduinidebianhuadaozhigerenaihaodeqingxingxia，yejiujianjiandibeinizaiduxiyinzhugandao。zhongyaoyingyongdaotupodian，jianjiandiqujiajuhexiufuhunyinjiukeyile。

第一：切忌死缠烂打

 henduonanrenzaijiejuefenshouhou，quanshixuanzequjiuchanbuxiulingyifang，huochixuzuoyixiejuededuitakaixindeyijianshi，yejiushishuoyixietianyanmiyudehua，liru“woshiainide，zuowodexinniangba”，huozhe“qiuniyuanliangwobencihaoma，nimeiyunxu，wobingbuzou”dengdeqiqiufangshi。

 nijuedeneibansichanlandajiunengrangtazhongguiyuhaoma?huiyingshi：budakeneng。yinweicishinvshengbenlaixintaijiushihenfanxinde，jiashangnisichanlandazaochengdeyali，bianhuijuedehenfannaizhijiweipaichi，neibandahuoerdeguanxijiuyizhigengjiazaogao，naizhijiyoukenenghuizaochengwufawanhuidexingshi。

第二：自我反省自身，承认错误

 dangganqingfashengnandiandeqingxingxia，henduorenbuyizaibenshendeshoushangzhaoyuangu，yizhiaibazeren，guoshituifanlingyifang。neimonandianzishizhizhongmeifahuodejiejue。

 jiejueganqingshangdeguoshi，yaozhidaocongzishenshangmianzhaoyuangu，binggaizheng。biangengzhiqiandebutaihaoqiyexingxiang，bimianzaiyicuozaicuoyiqiandeyouwu，caiyoukenengwanhuilaopo。jiaruyigenvrenburongyibaorongbuduanzuocuoshierbuzhihuigai，bukejiuyaodenanhaizide。

三：应用二次吸引去进行再度吸引住

 fuqiqingganwentizixun，fenkai，jiuquerennideyicixiyinzhuzaojiusangshizuoyongle，cishijiuxuyaoyingyongercixiyinlaizaiduxiyinzhulingyifang，keyicongnidezaoxingsheji，shenghuofangshi，xiayishidengfangmianjinxingzishendeshengjigaizao，rangzijiyulaiyugengjiayounanrenqizhi。