怎样挽回老公?如何挽回我的老公

 zenyangwanhuilaogong?bulunshijingyinghunyinhuoshiwanhuiqinggan，doulibulebicijiandeyouxiaodegoutonghegoutongjiaoliu，neiyangcaihuixiyinzhu。youyuliangrenzhongjiandexingqing、siweimoshijiqiaihaodeng，quanshihuijuyouyidingdechabie。jiarunimeiquzhangwolingyifangdegezhonggeyangniantou，dangranjiubumingbaitadeyiqie，naizhiliantajiejueyijianshidefangfahetediandoubunenglejie。

1.确立好他人的二种需求

 youyidabufenderenmenzaiwanhuiqianrendelichengzhong，yizhihuigenjuzishendekanfaheyishiquguidinghuoshishiyaoqiulingyifang，jihuyebumingbaihuanweisikaoyixiayixia，dangranyebuhuilizaitadefangxiangshangduidaiwenti。zheiyangyilai，wanhuidangranshimeiyoushenmeqidaile。dadaoliyefeichangjiandan，niyongyuanbuzhidaobierendexinlizaixiangganshenme，meifarenzhidaotamenzhenzhenzhengzhengxuyaodeyoushisha，yincijishishitouruzaiduodeqinfen，doumeifabeitamensuojiena，fandaohuishiyinweizishenyiciyouyicidesipilailian，zaiqianrenxinliliuyoutaichadeyinxiang。neishihoubieshuowanhuile，lianyiqiezhengchangdelianxidoumeiyoubanfabaozheng。

zaiwanhuizhong，buyinggaitaizaodetoulugaoxuqiudewanhuimudi，yiyangdeyebukeguoduoqukaolvlingyifangdexuqiu。

zaizheier，qianrendexuqiuguanjianfenchengerzhong：

yizhongshijibenshangxuqiu，jiandandianjiangbianshirongmao。

 wulunqianrenduoaizheni，huoduohuoshaoquanshihuikanzhongnidebiaomian，zhongjiuzhangdehaokanderen，shizhongshihuibeiyouhuidaiyude。zhongjiu，aimeizhixin，shirenrenjieyoude。ziran，zaizheierpiaoliangdewaimaobingbushichuncuideshencaimiaotiao、rongyanhao，fanershinengweichiyizhongzhuanxiangdefengcai。zairichangdeqingkuangxia，xuanzeheshizishendechuanzhedabanjiqizhuangmianchuanzhedaban，jinertuxianzishendeyoudian，congerzhanshichuzishendexinxin，yidanbenshenderenqizhitishengle，neimakendingshihuijiqianrenyanqianyiliangdejuede。shouxianliuyouyigehaoyinxiang，neimaxiamiandewanhuijinzhanqingkuangdejiuhuichenggongxuduole。

lingyizhongxuqiubianshijingshencengmiandexuqiule。

 zaixuduoqingkuangxiabierenbingbuhuiyinweiniweitamailenaxiejingzhilipinjiuyinererdadong。daliangqingkuangxia，tamengengbixudeshiyuyanbiaodafangmianshangdejiaoliuheqingxushangdefuwei，erbushichuncuidewuzhidadao。zaiqingganhuoshihunyinshenghuoshangbian，meiyigerendouqipanbeilejie、beirenkejiqibeizhongshi，bingqieyeyaoyouyiqidexihao，neiyangsisidibakongzhulingyifangdexuqiudian，jiangduifangjinjinbakongzaizishendeshouxinli，rangbierenganshoudaonishishifendongtade。zhixushibawozhuletaliangdexuqiudianyihou，dangranshibuhuilikainide，zaiwanhuideqingkuangxia，yehuixiandegengweijianyi。

2.剖析情感系统漏洞，从而对症治疗

 zaiwanhuishizuifeichangrongyifandeshiwubianshi，zaimeiyoupouxichufenkaidezhenshiyuangushi，jiumangmuqucaiyongwanhuidexingwei，haowuyiwenhuimeishenmejinzhan，yeyouyoukenenghuidebuchangshi。

 youqishinanhaizi，tamenzaifenshoushi，tongchangquanshilengdanyoujueqingde，zheidaduoshushiduizhiqiansuokucunjiyadebumanyisuochanshengde。erzheileibumanyi，zaiyiqianliangrenjiaowangdelichengzhong，quanshihuichuxianmeimude，zhibuguoshijiushinijihuyemeiyoufajueguobale。

 shijishang，youdeqingkuangxiazaiqingganzhong，nidetouruxinjiaruguozhongle，shihuijiangaiqingbianweibierendexinlifudande。zheileiyali，shihuiranglingyibanxunsudibikaini。niyizhihuiganjue，zishenzaoyibayiqiedouqingxihaola，qinglvlikaizishenkendingshibuhaode，zhushicaolao，hantaikejudebazijicongqinglvderenwujiaose，bianchenglelaotaipoyiyangderenwujiaose。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxiaxia，lingyifangjinideaiyihaowuyiwenjiuhuiyuelaiyueyuelaiyuedile。

 zenyangwanhuilaogong?nixiaitaerqieguanzhuta，zishenshimeishenmedacuode，keshijiarunitourudequeshishitaiduole，douzaochenglemengfacaozonglingyifangdexiangfa，zheijiushicuodalele，zhinengjiakuailingyifangliqudesulv。yinerzaifenshouhou，jiaruyaoxiangwanhuilingyifang，jiuyidingyaotebiezhuyiweichihaoyingdangyoudejianju，bahuazaibierenshoushangdesixuqianyidaozishendedeshenshanglai，duoweizijixiangmutouzi，duofajuewaibiandeguangkuotiandi，rangganqingyuelaiyuejiandanqiezide。neiyangdehua，dangranjiuhuigengfeichangrongyiwanhuile。