家庭教育中，父母的哪些行为会导致孩子的情商下降

 jiatingjiaoyuli，womenzaijiaoyuliyizhizaishentoudeyigejiaoyudedianjiushiyuanshengjiatingduiyuhaizideyingxiangjihushikeyiyanxutamenyishengdefazhan，danshishishishang，henduojiazhangzaizuozijidejiaosedeshihouchuxianlehenduodiqingshangdebiaoxian，zheikenenghejiazhangbenshendediqingshangyouguan，danshizheizhonghuiyingxiangzhehaizi，daozhihaizixinggegefangmiandequeshi。neime，yibangaoqingshangdefumuzairichangjiaoyuhaizideguochengzhongyounaxiecuowushiyaobimiande？fumuyinggairuhejiaoyuhaizi？

一、无缘无故提他人家的孩子。

 zirandaijihaizishichangjingzhenghebizhaomubiao，zheiyeshimeiyouhendawentide，keshiwuyuanwugutitarenjiadehaizi，zheijiuhendiqingshangzhishangle，bingqiezheileitideqingkuangxia，haitongchangbushiyishidejihui。yixiejiazhangtongchangzaizishendehaizishiluodeshihou，jiutitarenjiadehaiziduomeduomechuse，meimingqiyueweilegenghaodijiqihaizideshiqi。

 jiatingjiaoyu，shishishangzhinengranghaizigengweideshiwang，zaishiluogoutongjiaoliucengmian，jihuwanquanjiuguandiaoleduijiazhangdexinfei。eryixiejiazhangzaihaizizishenzhigaoqiyangdeqingkuangxia，jiazhangquemeianshidequchuqitaxiaohaizidechusedediqu，laitishizishendehaiziyeyoufazhandekongjian，quehehaiziyiqizhigaoqiyang，dingzhuqitabibushangzishenxiaohaizidediquzuole，zuihouzhishizishendehaizizaiyurenxiangchudeqingkuangxiabuzhishenqian，zaitarushehuifazhanyihouchidakui。jiazhangzaiwenhuajiaoyuhaizideqingkuangxia，yaoduozhengqueyindaohaizizishenguanxinzishendefazhan。

二、无缘无故斥责孩子或是另一半。

 xiaohaizizaizuoyixieshideqingkuangxia，tongchangyebuxiangdadajiaxiangxiangdeneiban，changchangchanshengdezhuangkuangbianshihaizihenyoukenengxiguanxingdezuobutaihao，zuoweijiazhangzheigeshihouyingdangduojijilihepouxijiqixiezhu，erbushichongguoquchizehaizinizenmeneimemeiyouyongzheixie，zheileichizezhenduihaizidefazhanlaijiang，jihushichedimeiyouyidianzhenglianxiezhude，haicuzhanglehaizidedikanghefanpanjuqing。

 fumuyinggairuhejiaoyuhaizi？zaishaozhangyixiedeqingkuangxia，haizidechengxianhuirangfumudoubule，yebijiaoyanzhongdeshanghaidaolehaizideshizhexinshiwudezhudongxing，duihaizideqiuzhiyujiqiyanjiunengliyoujiaodaweihai，zuihouweihaideshitadexiangxiangli。

 ziranyixiefumuzaihuxianggoutongjiaoliudeneishihoudeyixiebushidangdexingweibiaoxianheguandian，yehuiduihaizidaozhiyidingdeweihai，youqishizaihaizideyanqian，fuqijiandezhengchaobuxiu，huijihaiziliuyouhenshendeqianjiadeweihai，zheileibuhaodeweihai，huicongeryingxiangdaodaotamenzaiweilaijiejuezishenrichangshiwudenengli。

三、暴力轻率的沟通交流。

 jiatingjiaoyuli，xuduofumuzaiweirenzhengzhifumudeneishihoushishifenqianquexixinde，xiguanxingdegenjupianmianxingzhicihuoshipianmianxingdefenbianjiulaimingquezhenggeshidejieguo，zuihouhaizizishendebiequhaimeihuodechuli，youzaoshoulaiyuanyuzishenfumuqishixiongxiongdezhuize，rangxiaohaizigezhonggeyangyoukunanyan。

 ziranzheileibaolidechulifangfa，haoxiangshijiejuelehaizixuduowenti，keshishishishangyidianwentiyemeiyouhuodechuli，zhangqiyiwang，haizihefumudegoutongjiaoliuwanquanjiuzhongzhile，yixiezaifumuyanqiandelaolaoshishihaizi，henyoukenengzaisixializeshilingyigemoyang，neiyangdehaiziyidantarushehuifazhan，zhenduijiatingguanxidelianlianbushejiyuweiling，ziranzheizhonghaiziyinweiqianquebixudegoutongqudao，zuihouzaochengtamenzaiweilairenshengdaoludelvtushangchanshengleyixieshieryihou，feichangrongyipianji。

四、一厢情愿的给孩子决策将来。

 yixiefumu，benzhezishenzhenduiyixielingyudeguandian，ronghezishenderenshengguanrenshengguanjiazhiguan，qiangzhidejuecelehaiziyishengdedaoxiangxing，lirucongbudadeqingkuangxiajiujueceshitachulailianboji，huoshiliangangqin，yagenkanyebukanzigedehaizidetianfude，zuihouzhishizishendeqianyongle，haizidejiaoxueyebeidanwule，bingqiejihuhaizideyishengyebeidanwule。zheiyangzideanlibuzaishaoshu，youxierenhenyoukenengqingyidian，zaihaizidegaokaotianbaozhiyuandebaomingquanguochengzhong，qiangzhiranghaizibaomingqitaxuexiao，zheiyeshizaiqizhongdiqingshangzhishangdeyibufen。

 fumuyinggairuhejiaoyuhaizi？diqingshanghuozheyouxiejudongshifumuzaibujingyijianbiaoxianchulaide，danshiruguofumuzijimeiyouzhuyi，shizhendehuihenyingxianghaizide。zheixieyezhishizuoweicankao，yinweifumuyeshihaizidediyigelaoshi，xiwangfumumenyenengzhuyixiaduizijihaizidejiaoyu。