我发现我好像喜欢挖墙脚

shenmeshiwaqiangjiao？nishenbianyouzheiyangderenma？xihuanwaqiangjiaoshishenmexintaibenqizhuanmenjieshaonanxingxihuanwaqiangjiaoshishenmexintai。

一、挖墙脚是什么

 waqiangjiao，benyishizhijiangqiangdexiabanbuwadiao（duiyingyu“qiangtou”gainian），yizhiqiangdezhengtishihengerdaota。biyuchaitai，weibianyici。erxianjinshizhiwaqujingzhengduishouxiangguanderenyuan、jishu，congershiliyidadaohua。xianzaiyouxieyezhiqiangzoupengyoudeduixiang，dangranzheishibufuhebenyide。xianzairenmenyechangyong“zhiyaochutouhuidehao，nayouqiangjiaowabudao”laibiyuaishangyigeyouduixiangderenbingbata（ta）qiangguolai。

二、喜欢挖墙角是什么心态

 1、duibixintai：ruguonanrenyudaoleyigexihuandenvren，buqiaodeshizheigenvrenyijingyoulesuoshu。nanrenbuhuilikejiufangqi，tahuiguanchayixiayizijidetiaojianshibushikeyiwayixiaqiangjiao。zheiyangnanrenjiuhuizaineixinliyuxihuandenvrendelingyigenanrenzuoyifanjiaoliang。kankanzijinaxiedifangyouyoushi，neixiedifangshibururenjiade，jingguoleyifanbijiaoruguonanrenjuedezijishihuizhanshangfengde，neimetajiuhuixiadingjuexinquwayiwaqiangjiao。nanrenzaizuoduibideduixiangduoshushishehuidiweidegaodihetiaojianshourudengbijiaoxianzhudefangmian。

 2、bingbushibaozhebishengdejuexin：youyunanrenshishuyuqingyifangqidequnzhong。yeduobaozhejiaoxingdetaidu，xiangzhewanyijiudedaoleni。tahuiquwa，neikenengjianchibuleduojiu，yongduodadejuexin。zheiyidianshangnanrenshiburunvrende，nvrenbuhuiqingyixihuanyigeren，yebuhuiqingyijiufangqiyigeren。yinweinanrenbushineizhongyitiaodaozoudaoheideren。zaizuoyijianshiqingdeshihoutahuigengduodekaolvdaochengbenhehuibaolv。zheixiechengbendangranbaokuozijideshijianhejingli，ruguozheigenvrentajiugongbuxia，tayidinghuizhuanyimubiao，xunzhaoxiayigeliewude。

 3、ziwokending：suishuoxihuandenvrenyijingyouleduixiang，keshinanrenquehuirenweizijicaishigengshihede，tahuizaixinlirenweizijicainengjinvrenxingfu，zhiyouzijicainengduinvrenhao。qishigenwomenzailianaishangdexintaichabuduodoushizheiyangde，juedeshishangzaiyemeiyourenheyigerenhuiyouzijiduitahao，ganjuezijijiuhaoxiangshiweitaershengdeyiyang。dangranyehuirenweitayeshizuishiheziji，yenengrangzijikaixin，daijizijimanmandexingfu。

 4、meiyoufuzuiyishi：xihuanwaqiangjiaoshishenmexintai？shehuiyulunshiran，ruguoshiyigenvrenquwaqiangjiaodehua，bierenjiuhuiduizheigenvrenzhitoulunzude，shuotazenmezheimedebudaode，buzhilianchi。keshiruguoshiyigenanrenquwaqiangjiao，fanerhaihuiyourenqugulitanulizhuiqiuzijidezhenai。zheiyejiuzainanrenwaqiangjiaodexintaishangjianqingleyali。tayejiuhuirenweizheishihenzhengchangdeshi，zaixintaishanghenfangsong，neimetajiuhuifangkaishoudadandequwale。nanrenzaiwaqiangjiaodexintaishangdewusuoweihewuyali，haiyoubierendekanfaweinanrenwaqiangjiaochuangzaolexintaishangdehaotiaojian。