情感挽回的五大禁忌

 zai qinggan detiandiyouzhehenduohenduodejinji，qinggantiandihenguangkuoyehenxiaxiao。xiaxiaodezhirongdexiajigeren，guangkuodebaolanleshijie。zaiqingganchuxianwentideshihou，jinxingqingganwanhuiqianwanbuyaotaruxiamiandewudajinji。

一、情感挽回的五大禁忌

jinjiyi，guoyuweiquqiuquan。

 henduonvshengzaiwanhuiganqingdeshihoudourongyifanzheigecuowu，yiweizhiyaotanenghuidaozijishenbian，zuoshenmedoushikeyide。suiranweilerangnanyouhuixinzhuanyi，shidangfangdizitaishibixudetaidu。danshifangdizitaibingbuyiweizheyiweidiweiquziji、manzutadeyaoqiu。

 bijingtanlianaishixuyaolianggerennengzhangjiudixiangchuxiaqude，weiquzijizhinengqiudeyishidehuahaoyueyuan，zuizhonghaishiyaomianlinpomie。bingbushiweiletanenghuidaonishenbian，nijiushenmeshiqingdoukeyizuo。haishiyaobayanguangfangzhangyuanyidian。suoyi，wanhuiganqingqianwanbunengguoyuweiquqiuquan。

jinjier，shitu“jinu”duifang。

 henduonvshengzaiwanhuinanpengyoudeshihouhuicaiqujiduandefangshi，xiangtongguojinuduifangyinqitadezhuyi。chuletongguoyixie“nixiang”xingwei，yeyoudenvshenghuiguyizengduoheqitananshengdejiaowang，huozengqiangqinmidu，laixiyinnanyouzhudongzhaoziji。

 zheizhongfangshishifeichangbukequde，yifangmian，hennandadaoyuqixiaoguo，xiangfan，haiyoukenengxiangtashifangniyijinglingxunxinhuandexinhao。lingyifangmian，zheizhongxingweihenrongyiluoxiahuabing，duifangkeyiyiciweizheng，gengjinyibujujuegennihehao。suoyi，zheizhongfangshifeichangbukequ。

禁忌三，不作为。

 henduonvhaizizaifenshouhouzuizhiguandexiangfajiushinanguo，zhengrichenjinzaishiliandeqingxuli。huanxiangzheyexuduifangnengfaxianzijidehao，xiangyaozhongxinzaiyiqi。zheizhongbuzuowei、zhidengdai，buhuihuanlainixiangyaodejieguode。

 ruguotanengzijixiangdaonidehao，xiangtongnimendeganqing，nimenjiubuhuifenshoule。jiranxiangyaowanhuizheiduanganqing，jiuyaozhudongqunuli，buyaojizijiliuxiayihan。

jinjisi，jishuangfangshijiankaolv。

 suoweifenshouhoulianggerendouxuyaolengjingyixia，guoyiduanshijianzaichuliganqingwenti，qishishibuduide。tongchanglaishuo，guoduanshijianzhihou，dengqingxuchendianxialai，nimenjiugengbukenenghehaole。gangfenshoudeyigeyuejueduishiwanhuidehuangjinshijian。

 guolezheiduanshijian，yexuduifangyijingmanmanshiyinglemeiyounideshenghuo，shenzhifaxianmeiyounizijiguodegengziyou。suizheqingxudelengjing，ganqingyeyuelaiyuelengque。suoyi，buyaojishuangfangshijianduokaolvshenme。xiangwanhuijiuganjinxiashou。

jinjiwu，xiangtadepengyousuku。

 wanhuiganqingdeshihoukeyiqingqiuwaiyuan，danshishibuyaoxiangtadepengyousuku。yinweinideweiquruguotongguotadepengyouchuandaotadeerduoli，zhinengqidaofanzuoyong，yexuhaihuijiqitadenifanxintai。

 kuangqie，zheixieshiqingjingguoleyigerendezui，zaishuochulaishifoushinixiangbiaodadeyisijiubudeerzhile，henyoukenenghuichanshengwuhui，zheiyangjiuhuijinimendehehaozaochengmomingdezuli。suoyi，ruguoxiangyaobiaodaqingchu，buruzhijiequhebenrengoutong，erbushitongguozhongjianqudao。

二、情感诉求

 renmenzairichangshenghuozhonghuiwukebimiandiyudaoqingganfangmiandewenti，baokuoqinqing、youqing、aiqingdengqingganwenti。dangzheizhongganqingmeiyoudedaoyouxiaodibiaodahuogoutongdeshihou，jiuhuizaineixinxingchengyizhongfaxiehesushuodekewang，zheizhongkewangjiushiqinggansuqiu。

 sejishikong，kongjishise。zaihuoyuedenianqingrenquntili，nannannvnvyiqi，dajiayouneimedenianqing，kandaomouweixinyideyixing，kendinghenxianghetazaiyiqi。 youjingdexiaoyuanxiaodao，qinglvyiduidui，doushineimeqingchunnianshao，huarongyuemao，biyuexiuhua，yingzaochuneizhongaimeideqifen，laonianrenzouguodouanshengjimo，gantanzijibuzainianqing。