我妈同意买房了你凭什么不嫁给我，喜欢和爱的本质区别是什么

 xihuanheaidebenzhiqubieshishenme？huachanghaoyuechangyuanrenzhang：“lianggerenzhijiandeshiyingshiyizhongneixindeganjue，erbushiyizhongshijue，bunengyinweimanzushijueerhushiganjue。”lianggerenshipeibujinbunengyinweidanchunmanzushijueerhulveganjue，yebunengyinweidanchunmanzutingjueerhulveganjue。

 zheibingbushishuoshijuehetingjuebuzhongyao，nimianqianyouyigerangnishangxinyuemuderen，tongshiyehuiduinishuohaotingdeqinghua，dangranyeyouxiangyingdeyiyi。

 danbuyaowangjiyigeshishi：wulunshiaiqinghaishihunyin，doubushisantianhuoliangtiandeshi。ruguonizhiguanzhushijuehetingjueerhushiganjue，lianggerenchizaohuiyanjuande，yinweiwulunshiwuduomemeili，wulunqinghuaduomemeili，duotingdouhuihenwuliao。

 ruguonishuonibuxiangneimezaiyi，jishiaizhishizanshide，neiyebushiai，zhishione night in some where，yuzhenaixiangbishibugoude。

 kewangzhenaiderenbuhuizhikaolvpiankedekuaile。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，nibunengzhiguanxinshijuehetingjue。niyinggaibaganjuefangzaidiyiwei。zhiyouzheiyang，nicainengtongguoshijuehetingjuedewaiguankandaobenzhi。

众所周知，爱情和爱情是有区别的。然而，许多人无法区分彼此的区别。

 zaiwokanlai，henduorendougaocuolefangxiang，zhuazhulefangxiang“xihuan”he“ai”zheijigezizuowenzhang。shishishang，liangzhedezhenzhengqubiezaiyu“ren”。

 buchengshuderencaihuiba“xihuan”guazaizuibian，yinweitamenbudongaiqing，jishishuoaini，yezhishishuoshuoeryi，suozuodehaishitingliuzaixihuandejieduan。

zhiyouchengshuderencainenglijie“ai”yinweitamenzaojiuguolexihuandejieduan。

huanjuhuashuo，ruguonixiangzhidaoyigenanrenshixihuannihaishiaini，guanzhuta“shifouchengshu”jiugoule。

 yiwodeqiannanyouweili。tashuotaaiwo，woyouquanxiangxinta。raner，dangwomentanlunhunyinshi，tabuchengshudeyimianxianxianchulai。tabuzhidaoruhebiaodataduiyigerendeai。

 henduorenshuonvrenxihuanwancaimiyouxi，wobutaitongyizheigeguandian。neizhongrangnanrencaimidenvrenshikehende，danbingfeisuoyoudenvrendoushizheiyang。

suiranzhenzhengchengshudenvrenyehuirangnanrencaice，danzhixianyunanrendezerenheyiwu，buhuiwuliqunao。

 yiwodeqiannanyouweili。wobixuxiangtajieshitashifouyinggaiweitamendehunfangzuozhunbeima？ruguotazhendeaiwo，tahuiyouzijidexiangfa。wulunshirangtadefumumaihaishiwomenchengdan，tadouhuijiwoyigemanyidedaan。

 dantameiyouzijidexiangfa。tabuzhidaowoxiangyaoshenme。tabudebupaohuijiawentadefumugaizenmeban。tadefumubutongyimaifangzi。tagaosuwobuyaoxiangmaikefengyiyangmaifangzi。woshizhehetafenshou。

 xihuanheaidebenzhiqubieshishenme？tapaohuijiagaosutadefumu，ruguotabumaifangzi，tajiuhuifenshou。tazhanzhuanfance，bianchengleyigemaikefeng，gaosuwotadefumutongyimaifangzi，rangwozhuajinshijianjiajita。

 wojujuele，yinweitadexingweitaiyouzhile，jiuxiangyigehaiziyiyang，yigechengshudenanrenbunengxiangtaneiyangzuo。tingdaowojujueleta，wokaishihewofapiqi，wenwoweishenmebujiajita，zheihexueshengzhengchaoyoushenmequbie？wozenmenengfangxindibawodeyushengtuofujizheiyangyigerenni？

 woxiangtajieshilelianggeyuanyin：“shouxian，nibushiyigehaozhangfu，zhishaonibushiyigenengjiwoanquangandezhangfu，yinweinimeiyoudulideyijian，wobixutixingnihenduoshiqingyaozuo；dier，niqinbushiyigehaopopo，duihunyinmeiyouchengyi。tongshi，tayekeyibiaomingnibushiyigehaozhangfu，yinweinishenzhiwufapanduannidemuqinshifoushiyigehaopopo。”nijuedewoshuodeduima？

duiyunvrenlaishuo，genjunanrenshifouchengshulaipanduanaiqinghexihuan，shiyoudaolide。

 raner，zheizhongpanduanyouyigexianjuetiaojian：nvrenxuyaochengshu，lijieai，fouzenibuchengshu，bulijieai，meiyougenggaodelijiehegainian，nibunengpanduan。yigebuchengshuderenshuobierenbuchengshu，zhinengzhengmingtamenbuchengshu。

 jiarunifuhezheigexianjuetiaojian，nijiukeyifangshoupanduanduifangshifouchengshu，fangfayehenjiandan，congtashuohuazuoshidefangshijiukeyikanchulai。

 ruguonizhengzhongdihetatanhunlunjia，tajiuxianggehaizi，buzhidaozijidexiangfa，kuanrong，xinren，zunzhongshishenme，jishitashuoleyiwanbian“woaini”，yebushizhendeaini，dingduoshixihuan，duiniyoudianhaogan。

 dangran，chengshudenanrenyeyouhaiziqideyimianhehaiziqideyimian。danshichengshudenanrenkeyifenbianchushenmeshihouyinggaichengshu，shenmeshihoukeyiyouzhi。dangnitanlunshengyishi，tamenbuhuijiuchanni。

 xihuanheaidebenzhiqubieshishenme？zheishiwomenqianmiantidaode“ganjue”duifangkeyirangnizaiduideshihoujuedezhidexinren，neijiushiaideganjue；ruguoduifangzongshijiniyizhongyouzhibudongshideganjue，taduinideganqingjiubushiai。