婚姻太苦怎么挽回

　　hunyintaikuzenmewanhui，biezheji，biezheji，zheiciwozheiyizimeitipingtaiqinggandashijiujidajiazhizhizhao，jiaoniruhewanliuneijijikeweidehunyinshenghuo，haiyoua，haiyaoduinishuoshenmeyanzhongcuowuyidingbukeyifan!nizhunbeihaolema?womenzheibianliaoqilai!

　　一、开场小意外：婚姻不是儿戏，但挽留能够有点儿趣味性

　　zuixiana，womendeqingchu，hunyinshenghuokebushiguojiajia，bukeyiyanhuolidechenai。danwanjiuhunyinni，daoshikeyiyoudianerquweixing，biezhengdexiangquanqiumoriyiyang。nixianga，ruguoyitiandaowanmenmenbulede，lingyifangdoujuedefan，haitanshenmewanhuini?yinci，womendebaochikaixin，bawanjiuhunyindangzuoyichang“quweixingzhengbasai”!

　　haole，dapochongxiaolou，womenyiqilaikankanwanjiuhunyindediyibu：kanqingxiankuang，bielumangxingshi。

　　二、看清现况：婚姻问题，其实也没那么可怕

　　haoduorenyitingdao“liyi”liangzi，jiuhedehuifeiyanmie，ganjuetianyeyaotaxiaqule。qishini，hunyinwentibingmeiyouneimekepa，tajiuxiangshiyichangfashaoganmao，zhixulijiduizhengzhiliao，henkuaijiukeyizhiyu。

　　shouxiannidepingjingxialai，haohaodifenxiyixiadajiaganqingchuxianwentidezhuyaoyuanyin。shiyouyushenghuosuosuichanshengmaodun?yeshiyinweidisanzhechazu?huozhejingjifazhanyalida?zhiyouzhaodaolewentidebenzhi，cainengshibangongbei，wanjiuhunyin。

　　bieyishanglaijiukuzhehanzheqiulingyifangbieliyi，neiyangzhihuirangduifanghuijuedenifan，gengjiajiandinglihunxinxin。shouxianniderangzijilengjingxialai，ranhouqulianxiduifangtan。

　　三、防止严重错误一：不要把“挽留”挂在嘴上

　　haoduorenyixinxiangwanjiuhunyin，jiuyitiandaowanba“wanliu”guazaizuishang，fangfohaipalingyifangbuqingchuyiyang。qishini，zheimezuozhihuishideqifan，rangrenjuedeninihaofan，henjiuchanbuqing。

　　niyaogaoqingchu，wanjiuhunyinbingbushikaozuijiangde，ershitongguoxingweilaiyanzhengde。niyaoyongzijidexingdonglaigaosutamen，niyaogenggai，nikeyiweilezheiduanganqingfuzhunuli。

　　hunyintaikuzenmewanhui，lirua，dajiadangshiyinweijiawuhuochanshengmaodun，neimenikeyizhudongchengdanqijiawu，rangbierenkanjiannidegenggai。huozhenimendangshiyinweigoutongbudaoweizaochengaiqingshengshu，neimenikeyiduolianxiduifangshuoshuohua，shuoxinlihua。

　　zongeryanzhia，biezhengtianba“wanliu”guazaizuishang，yaoyishijixingdonglaishuohua!

　　四、防止严重错误二：别一味惯着，放纵自己

　　youxierenweilewanjiuhunyin，jiuyiweiguanzhelingyifang，naizhimishileziji。neiyangjiedanzi，budanwanliubushanghunyinshenghuo，haihuirangtamengengweiqiaobuqini。

　　niyaogaoqingchu，hunyinjiushilianggerendeshi，bingbushiyigerendedujiaoxi。niyiweiguanzhelingyifang，zhihuirangduifanghuijuedenimeiyouzhujian，henmeifengcai。niyaoyouzijidelichangzunxunyuanze，bieweilewanjiuhunyinermishileziji。

　　lirua，lingyifangxiaiquwan，danniquebuxihuanchumen。neimenikeyiheduifangshuo：“wozunzhongnidexihao，danshiwoyeyouzijideshenghuofangshi。dajiajiuzhaogejunhengdian，bujinnengrangnilvxingyukuai，hainengrangwoguodeshushi。”

　　neiyangshuoya，jibiaoxianleniguandianzunxunyuanze，youtixianlenizunzhonghelijie。zheiyangdeni，cainengrangduifanggewaizhenxiheaixi。