怎么挽回日渐冷淡的婚姻

　　zenmewanhuirijianlengdandehunyinzaihunyinshenghuodelvxingzhong，meiyigebuzhengquedouxiangyikuaihouzhongshitou，yazhefuqiganqingdegongluqiaoliangshang，rangcengjingdetianmimanmanwujieyuzhengzhisuotidai。dandangnirenshidaozijifanxiacuowu，xiangwanhuiqizidexinshi，yichangzhenxinshiyieryouxiaodezhiqianjiuchengweilefujianguanliandeguanjiansuozaigenji。neiyang，zenyangcainenggenjuzhiqianwanhuiqizikanjiannidekuijiu，zhongxinkaiqidajiaxingfukuailedamenni?

　　yi、renzhenfansi，chongfenzhunbei

　　congniquedingxiangqizizhiqianyiqian，bixuyaoxiankaizhanshenkeziwofansheng。zhuiyinimendeguanximaodunyuchongtu，shenshizijidaodicuozainaer。shiyouyuhushileduifangdeganshou，yeshiyinweichongdongzhixiajiangchushangxindehuayu?jinyoumingquezijibuzhengque，caikeyizaizhiqianshiyiwentiweidaoxiang。

　　“xifu，wozhidaozijiyiqianyizhijiabanjiadiandaoshenye，queconglaimeiyouxiangguonideqingxu。niyigerenzaijiali，budanyaozhaoguxiaohai，haixuyaojiejuejiawuhuo，quexiangyigewoxingwosu。woconglaimeiyouguanzhuguonidejianxin，haichangchangyigongzuozhongweiliyou，duobiduizheigejiayiwu。wozhendecuole。”

　　zheizhongkaichangci，jibiaoshiniduibuzhengquedeqingchurenzhinengli，yenengranglaopokanjiannidechengxin。

　　yucitongshi，tiqianzuohaozhunbeiyeshifeichangzhongyaode。niyaozhidao，zhiqianbingbuyidingmashanghuodelaopodeliangjie，tayexubiaoxianchulengdan、naonunaizhijujuejiaoliu。danbuguantaruhefanying，niyidingyaobaochinaixinyujiandingbuyi，yongnidexingdongqushuomingnidegenggai。

　　er、zhenchengdaoqian，dadongxinli

　　zhenchengshizhiqiandelinghunsuozai，jinyoufazineixinzhiqiancaikeyidadonglaopodexinxian。zaizhiqianshi，fangxiayiqiedefangyuyuyanzang，yizuichunzhendeqingganlaimianduita。

　　“qinaida，wozhidaozijishanghaileni，bingqiesunhaidehenshen。zheizhongrizizhijin，kanjiannimeitianyileiximian，woneixinchongmanlekuijiuhetongku。wocaiyishidao，wodexingweirangniganjuedaoxinhanyuwunai，rangniduizheiduanhunyinsangshixinxin。danwozhendebuxiangshiquni，nishiwojinshengzuizaihuderen。woyuanyongwodeyushengqumibuwodeguocuo，zaicihuodexinrenheai。”

　　zaiyuyanhuanjiezhong，liuyiyuqidewenheyuzhenxinshiyi，muguangyaozhushilaopo，rangtaganshoudaonizhuanzhuyuyuyongxin。yucitongshi，keyishaoweitanjiyixiedajiayitongzuimeihaodehuiyi，gouqitaduilishiaiqingdeaixi。

　　“zenmewanhuirijianlengdandehunyinjidedajiagangzaiyiqideshihou，meigezhoumodoushihuiyiqiqugongyuansanbu，nizongyizaiwodejianbangshang，xiaodehenkaixin。neishidewomen，duomexingfu。errujin，youyuwofanxiadecuowu，zheizhongmeihaodehuamiandouhuibianderuciyaoyuan。woyehenhuailianzheixierizi，xiangxinwomenyenengzaiciyouzhe。”

　　三、认错，负责任

　　zaizhiqianzhong，quelichengrenzijidecuowubingchengdanxiangyingzeren，shiranglaopokanjiannichengxindezhongyaoyibu。buyaoqingyiduizijidexingweizhaoliyouhuotaobizeren，ershiyinggaizhengshiwenti。

　　“xifu，wobufourenwozaihunyinshenghuozhongfanxiaxuduobuzhengque。womeiyoujindaoyigelaogongyingyoudezeren，bingmeiyoucongnixuyaoshipeizainideshenbian，bingmeiyouguanzhunideqingxu，fandaoshinishoulehenduobiequ。zheidoushiwodebudui，woyuanyichengdanyiqiehouguo。”

　　tongguozheizhongmiaoshu，laopokeyiqingchudezhidaoniduizijibuzhengqueyouzheshenkedelejie，bingyuanyiyincichengdan。zheibujintixianlenidedandang，shitakanjianleniduiganqingdegaoduzhongshi。