怎么去挽回自己的婚姻

　　zenmequwanhuizijidehunyinhunyinshenghuolinanmianhuifashengwentizhengduo，youshigezhongwentihenyoukenenghuishanghaidaoxifu，zaochengxifudeneixinshuyuanni。zaiwomenzuocuoleshi，womenyinggaiwanhuiqizideneixin，jinzaozhongxindedaotaxinrenheai。zaibenwenzhong，womenbatantaoyixiehaoyongdeqiaomen，yibangzhuniwanhuiqizideneixin。

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　　wanhuiqizideneixin，ranghunyinchangcun

　　youxianzhaoguxifuqingxu，dengtaxintaihaolazaijutiyaokanmaodunruhejiejue。

　　nvxingsiweihenanxingbuyiyang，nvshikanhaolaogongduinidetaidu，wulunfashengshenmeshier，bixulaogongxianmeiyouliyoubaorongta，jienazijidexingzihejiaozong。

　　laopoyaoxuanxie，niyejiuzuoyigeqingtingzhe，rongxutaxutao，zuihaoshijitaxiangyong。

　　yaoshiniyuanyi，zaiyingyushangdoushuoliangjufuwei，liru“meishier，zhangfuzaizheierpeizheni”、“niyeshiwozuizhongyaoderen，ninanguolewoyeyiyangshangxin”、“womenyiqiduguozheijiannandeshike”deng。

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　　wanhuiqizideneixin,xuehuihuanweisikao

　　fuqijiangengxuyaodeshijiaoliuyugoutong，erfeixianglaixiangqudecaizimi，zuizhongjiangaiqingcaimeiyoule。

　　zhinanzuidadequedianjiushizigaozida，yingduishierbumingbaihaiguoyibuquwen，jiuyikaozijicaice，caibahuoshiyigenjin，xiangdudongnvrenxin，nannengkeguihen。

　　yiner，yaoxuehuiquconglaopodejiaodukaolvwenti，bumingbaijiumashangbiaodachulai，duolejieyixiaduifangdexiangfa，qianwanbuyaoshanzuozhuzhang。

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　　zhangwoxifuxinlibixudeshisha

　　anfuhaoduifangdeqingxuyihou，nenggouhuanhuandijindaoxinyuxindejiaoliu。

　　renzhendilejieyexiwangnizenmezuo，tacaihuihehaoruchu。

　　例如：

　　“xifu，nixiwangwonengzuodianshenme，nicaihuiyuanyijixuhewozaiyiqi?”

　　“xifu，womenxuyaobaozhengnayigeshuiping，ninengxiangxidegenwoshuo，youyuwocaibutounidexiangfahekanfa，danwoshizhenxinyuanwomenhaikeyijixuguorijiede。”

　　“xifu，woyuanyongshijixingdongyushijianlaiyanzheng，wojiushizhenxinchengyixiangheniyiqide。”

　　zhishangxiaoshouhuashuzhijingongcankao，xuyaozhuyi，nvxingyoudeshihouhuixinkoubuyi，youshiburongyi，bianbiebushangmeishier，zhiyaoshizhenxinshiyidehetashufaqinggan，nvrendoushiganzhidaode。

　　heqizichuangjiankaifangchengxindejiaoliu，nenggoubangzhuchuliwentibingzengjialejie。

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　　yongxinduixianchengnuo,rangtagandaoniyeshikekaokexinlaide

　　zenmequwanhuizijidehunyinyibanqingkuangxia，daduoshunvshengyebuhuiqingyiliyi，nvxingfeichangkanzhongjiazhong，tebieshizaiyouxiaohai，yerongyixinruan，neimenideyanxingyizhizhiguanzhongyao。

　　dayingguoxifuchengnuoheshieryidingyaozuodao，ruoshiyouhuranzhuangkuang，yidingyaojishigentajiang。

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　　wanhuiqizideneixin,buduantishengzishenshiyongjiazhi

　　aizheidongxi，libuleyouhuoli。

　　eryouhuoli，libuleshangxi、xingfu、chuse、shuiping、xindishanliang、zhongshidengzheigedongxi，bingbushiyaonishibabanwuyiboxueduoshi，neiyebuxianshi。

　　keyizuodaorichangshenghuojijizhudong，qinfenshangjin，buduanchuangzaozishenhejiatingdeshiyongjiazhi，zheiduiyunvrenlaishuobianshifengcai。