离婚了怎么才能挽回婚姻

　　lihunlezenmecainengwanhuihunyinpengyoumen，zaihunyinshenghuozhong，youshizanyigebuxiaoxin，jiuyoukenengranglaopochedishiwang。youkenengshizanmeilvxinghaozuozhangfudezeren，yeyoukenengshizanzuoleyixierangqibeishangdeshiqinger。xifuyidanchedishiwang，neijiazhongtoufenweikebianle，yitiandaowankongdangdangde，zanneixinyenanshoua。neizawanhuiqizixinhandexinni?jinrizanmenjiuhaohaodiliaoyiliao。

　　1、chengzhichengrencuowu，biezhaoliyou

　　xifuchedishiwang，zannidexianyaozuodejiushichengzhichengrencuowu。bieyishanglaijiuzhaogezhongjiekou，naxie“woneishitebiemang”“doushiwobuhao”，zheiyangdehuazailaopotingshuode，neibianshizanzaitaobizeren。niyaochengxinchengyidihetashuo：“xifu，wozhendecuole，zheigeshiqingjiushiwozuodebudui，rangnishiwangle，nimadawodoukeyi。”

　　bianshuowomenjiapangbianneilaowangba，youyihuitayinyupengyouchuquhejiu，batongyixifupeizhetashengrirideshiqingwangdeyiganerjing。xifujidebuhao，haoduotianyemeidalita。laowangyizhujianhaizhengbian，shuotagongzuotailei，yaochuqufangsongyixia。jielunxifugengbugaoxingle，lijihuileniangjia。zhihoulaoliyishidaowentideyanzhongxingle，tapaodaozhangmuniangjia，dangzhangmuniangheyuefumian，jixifuchengkendizhinengrenlecuo，shuotabuyinggaibazheiyangdadeshiqingwangjile，haiquebaoyihouyidinggai。xifuqukantaxintaineimechengzhi，qijiuxiaoxiaquleyidaban。

　　2、huiyiwangxi，gouqiwennuan

　　chengrencuowuyihou，zandexiangjinbanfagouqixifuduilishikuaileshiguangdemeihaohuiyi。nimenkendingyiqijingliguohenduokaixindeshier，lirugangzaiyiqideshihouyiqiqudumiyue，huoshiyoulehaiziyihouyiqikanjianxiaohaizhangda。nijiuzhaogeheshideshijian，genxifuyiqifanyifanguoqudezhaopian，huozhedaodajiayiqianquguodechengshizouyizou。

　　woyouyigepengyou，taqiziyinweitachangchangbuzhejia，duitayouqixinhan。pengyouyexianglegefangfa，tazhunbeileyichangliangrenyuehui，bajialibuzhidefeichangwennuan，haizhaodaoletamenjiehundeshihoudexiaoshipin，yiqikanleqilai。kanjianshipinzhonglianggerenxingfudeyangzi，xifujinbuzhudiaoxialeyanlei。haopengyoujiejigenxifushuo：“xifu，womenzhiqianduoxingfua，wobuyuanyiyouyudoushiwodecuo，rangwomendeaiqingjiuzheiyangbiandanle。”xifutingwan，xinliyeshibianruanlechulai。

　　3、fuzhushijian，zuochudiaozheng

　　guangshuobuzuojiabashi，zanguangchengrencuowu、huiyiwangxibugou，dezhenzhenzhengzhengfuzhushijian，zuochudiaozheng。jiaruxifudoushiyinweiniyitiandaowanbuzhejia，duijialibuwenbuwenerxinhan，neinijiudehelianpai，duojishijianpeibanta，jitashoushijiawu，daidaihaizi。

　　ruguoxifudoushiyinweiniduiqianmeiyougainian，budongzhengtiguihuajiatingcaiwuerxinhan，neinijiudehelilicai，zhidingyigehelidejiatingyusuan，baqianhuazaidaorenshang。liru，niguoqumeiyigeyuexinshuinadaojiuhuluanhuaqian，neinixianzainenggouhelaopoyiqishangyi，nachuyibufenqianfangxiaqu，yibufenqianyongyirichanghuaxiao，yeyouyibufenqiancunzhejinji。ranglaopokanjiannidegenggai，tacaihuizaiciduiniyouzixinxin。

　　4、jitayiwaijingxi，langmanjingxi

　　lihunlezenmecainengwanhuihunyinnvshengdouxihuanxiyuelanman，zaiwanhuiqizishangxindexindeguochengdangzhong，zanhebujitazhunbeiyixiexiaolangman。buyonghuataiduoqian，zuizhongyaodeshiyaorenzhen。liruzaitashengrishi，qinzijitazuoyigedangao;zaitaxiabanlehuijiashi，jitatiqianzhunbeiyishuxianhua;huozaifangjiadeshihou，daitakanyichangtayizhixihuandedianying。

　　wopengyouxiaozhao，taqiziyinweitayizhihushiduifangdeganshou，duitafeichangxinhan。xiaozhaozijitoutoubaoleyigepengrenban，xuexixifuzuiaichidecai。zailaoposhengrineiyitian，tazijixiachu，zuoleyizhuofengshengdemeishi，haimaileyigexiaolipin。xifuxiabanhuilai，jiandaozheiyiqie，jidongdeshanranleixia。congneishiqi，xifuduitadebiaoxianyezhujiangaibianle。

　　5、求助，借力使力

　　ruguonizijidenulilehaojiu，haishimeiyoubanfawanhuiqizishangxindexin，neimebufangxunzhaoyixiapengyoudebangzhu。keyizhaodajiagongtongdepengyou，rangtamenbangzhuzaizhengzhongjiandediaohediaohe;huozhezhaojialidezhangbei，rangtamenrangnichugezhuyi。