怎么帮父母挽回婚姻呢

　　zenmebangfumuwanhuihunyinnidanglaopoqingqingdijiangchu“lihunba”shi，dabufennanrenhuishunjianbeijiaolvbaonang——shoushangdebeizihenyoukenengturanbianzhong，erpangxiangshenghaoxiangdoushizaimohubuqing，neixinzhishengyigexiangfa：haohaodirizi，weishenmejiuzoudaozheiyibule?huoxunibuyongzhejizhezhiyiziji，yebuyaoganjuehunyinshenghuozaoyiwujiu，juedabufentilihundelaopo，bingbushizhendexiangwanquangeduan，fanershizhangqijileidexinhan，rangqilinshikanbujianhunyinshenghuodeqidai。jiarunizhengkunzaizheileiwunaili，bufangjingxiaxin，gensuibenwenzhenglisilu，gengkeyicankaoyixiawanhuixueyuanhunyinzixunshiheguichulihoudeshuqiangehunyinwanhuixifushili，tadounengcongkanqilaiwujiedemaodunzhong，xunzhaorangbicidoukeyizhaotaijiexiadetupokou。

　　yi、xiannongdong：laopotichulihun，keyishuoshibuailema?

　　dabufennanrentingjianliyi，diyifanyingshi“tashifouwaimianyourenle”huoshi“tazaoyibuaiwole”，keshishishang，laopomingquetichulihunyuanyin，daduoshuzangdaorichangbeihushixijieli，bingfei“yiqingbielian”。dajiajianguohenduoshili，laopozuihoujuedinglihun，daduoshiyinweizheijigeyuanyin：

　　diyigeyuangu，shijingshenxuqiubeizhangqilengdan。birutajiabandaolingchen，tuozhepibeideshentihuijiale，xianghenijiangju“jinrihenlei”，erniquedingzhediannaoxianshipingfuyanleshi“zhidao，ganjinshuiba”;tazhunbeilejiehunjinianriridewanfan，xiangheniliaoyiliaojinqidexinxu，erniqueyibianwanshoujiyibianshuo“doulaofulaoqile，gaozheixieyongbuzhe”。zheixiexiaoshiyiciliangcisuanbudeshenme，danshijianjiule，tajuedezijizainixinzhongxiangyige“yinxingren”——taxuyaodebushiduomedeguizhongdedongxi，fanershiyijuguanzhu、yifengaoduzhongshi，kezheixiezainizhei，jingchengle“bubiyaodebubian”。

　　diergeyuanyin，shijiatingyaliquanyazaitashenshang。youyigexueshenghewomenshuo，talaopotichulihunshi，zhishuoleyijuhua：“woyigerenguo，biheniguoqingsongduole。”houlaicaifaxian，taqizibujingongzuo，youyaomeitianjiesong、zhufan、qingjieweisheng，dantaquemeitianxiabanhuijia，yaobutanzaishafashangkanshouji，yaobuchulaigenpengyouhejiu，lianhaizizuoyedoumeikanguojihui。laopobingbushiyushengjulaijiudechengdansuoyoujiawuhuoheyuerjiaoyuyiwu，tagengxuyaodeshiyige“hezuohuoban”，erbushiyige“woxingwosu”。dangtafaxianzijibuguanduolei，yejiuzhinengyigerenkangshi，liyidouchengtataochupibeibukandetiaoxuan。

　　disangeyuangu，shiyudaokunnanzhinenglengbaolihuozhengzhi。lirudajiayouyu“libaitianxubuxuyaozouniangjia”zhengchao，dajiajuede“shangxingqiganglaiguo，zheigexingqiyongbuzhe”，tarenwei“womamaxianghaizile”，daraodaozuizhong，nishuaimenjinxiaoshufang，lengbaolisansitian，jibugoutongdouburangbu。shijianzhangle，tahuijuede“henishuozaiduoyebuxing”——taxiangyaodebingbushi“ying”，fanershilianggerenyiqishangyichuliwenti，keniyaomeyonglengbaoliduobi，yaobuyongzhengzhiyizhi，rangqimanmanshiqulegoutongjiaoliudeqipo。

　　disigeyuangu，shifuwuchengnuowandeshicongweiduifu。hunqiannijuede“zhihoujialideshiwomenyiqifentan”，jielunjiehunhouquejiangquanbujiawuhuotuijita;tahuaiyundeshihounijuede“dengxiaohaichusheng，woyidingduopeinimen”，jielunyingerchushenghou，neihaishimeitianjiaban、jiaoji。tabingbushibutiliangnigongzuotaimang，fanershixinhanyuzijiyicici“shuodaozuobudao”——hunyinzhongdeguishugan，conglaidoubushikaohuayanqiaoyuduichulaide，ershitongguoyigegeduixiandechengnuozanqilaide，dangfuwuchengnuobianwei“kongtan”，taduiganqingdezixinxinjiuhuimanmanxiaotui。

　　er、jiejuelaopolihun：4 geshiyongfangshi，tiniyibubuwanliu

　　zhidaokenengdeyuanyin，xiamiangengweiguanjiandeshi“ruhezuo”。xuduonanrenjiuhuijiyuzhiqian、lishi“woyihouyidinggai”，danshijishangzheiyangdexingweitongchangmeiyouyong——laopoxuyaodebushi“koutoushangquebao”，fanershi“shentilixing”。yixiazhei4 zhongfangfa，meiyibudouyoujutidecaozuo，tinijianjiandifujiantaduiganqingdezixinxin。

　　fangfayi：xianwendingzishen，buyaoyong“jiduanhuafangfa”jiangtatuiyuan

　　zenmebangfumuwanhuihunyinnitingjianliyidediyifanying，xuduonanrenjiuhuihuang：youdehaihuibuduantongdianhua、faxinxixiangfuhe，youxiehuipaodaotagongsihuozheguimijiaduta，yeyoudeyaoshuo“ruguoniganliyi，wojiuduixiaohaibutaihao”。danzheiyizuofafanerhuirangtagengdichu——tajijingfeichangshiwangle，nidejiuchanzhinengrangtagandao“nihaizheimemanhengwuli”，fanergengjiajiandingbuyiliyideniantou。

　　zuihaodebanfashi“jishuangfangyidianhuanchongqi”。ninenghetashuo：“womingbainirujinxinlihennanshou，yexuyaoshijianlizhi，woshibuhuibizhenizuochujueding。danxiwangwomenyoujihuiquliaoyiliao，woyexiangzhidaowonazuodebugouhao，shinineimexinhan。”zheimeshuojimeishijiayali，biaodale“xiangyaomianduikunnan”dexintai，burongyirangtagandaoniyizhizai“saposhualai”。

　　liruyouyigexueshenglaoyang，yikaishitingjianlaoposhuolihun，meitianpaojinxifuniangjiarenloudixiadeng，jielunxifugengqifen，lianshoujiyebujie。zhihoutayizhaoyongzheizhongfangfa，jixifufaleyitiaoxinxi：“yiqianjiushiwotaijile，meiyoukaolvnideqingxu，zhendeduibuqi。nixiangyaolizhiduozhangshijiandounenggou，wobudaraoni，danruguonixiangkaikoule，wowushiwukedouzai。”guoqulesantian，talaopozhudongweitafanhuilexinxi，shuo“libaitiannenggouzhaoyigedifangliaoyiliao”。