分居2年怎么挽回婚姻

　　dangfenju2nianzenmewanhuihunyinhunyinshenghuochuxianliehen，xifujuexinlikai，zheiwuyishiduihunyinshenghuodehuimiexing。danshi，napashizaineiyangkanqilaibengkuideyike，yebingbushihaowuzhuanzhe。wanhuiqizi，rangqizhongxinaishangni，bixudebujinjinshixinxin，gengjiashizhengquefangfayujiqiao。zheishiyichangduizishen、duiganqingderenzhenfansiyujijizhudonggenggaizhixing，meiyibudouxunizoujiandingercongming。#hunyinyujiatingqingxu#

　　yi、renzhenfansi，zhaodaowentidegenyuan

　　ganqingchuxianwenti，bingfeiyichaoyixideshi，tongchangshizhangqijileidejielun。xiangwanhuixifu，shouxianyaozuodeshipingjingxialai，renzhenfansihunyinshenghuozhongcunzaidewenti。yixiashuyuyixiechangjiandehunyinshenghuoqingjing，genjuzheixiechangjing，womennenggengquanmiandizhangwocunzaidewenti，bingjichuxiangyingdechulihejiaoliufangshi。

　　情景一：沟通不到位

　　难题会话：

　　ni：“jinrizenmehuilaihenwan?”

　　xifu：“jiabanjiadian，niguanbuzhe。”

　　ni：“wojiushizaihuni，niduiyuneimechongma?”

　　xifu：“nizhaoguwo?niguanxinguowome?nijiulejiegongzuozhong，congbulianjia。”

　　pouxi：zaizheiyangdechangjingzhong，xifudefennulaiyuanyuzhangjiudegoutongbudaoweihequefaguanzhu。nideyijuguanzhuduitalaishuoyexuzhishishunlichengzhang，erqietadenaonunaishizhangqijileidejielun。

　　解决方法：

　　jijigoutong：zhaoyigeheshideshiji，zhudongyuxifugoutongjiaoliu。keyizheimeshuo：“womingbaiwoqianjitiangongzuomang，hushileni，zheiyeshiwodebudui。woxianghenihaohaoliaoyiliao，tingyitingnideguandian。”

　　biaoshuguanzhu：zairichangrichangshenghuo，duobiaoshuduiyutadeguanzhu。liru，tajiabanjiadianhuijia，nikeyizhudongwen：“jinriyouduolei?yaobuyaoworangnipaobeicha?”

　　gongtonghuodong：anpaiyixieyitonghuodong，liruyiqikandianying、sansanbudeng，tishengbicizhijianzhijiandehudongyujiaoliu。

　　情景二：价值观差异

　　难题会话：

　　ni：“nikebukeyibuyaoneimexiaodujichang?zheizhongxiaoshizhiyuma?”

　　xifu：“woxiaodujichang?niyoumeiyoukaolvguowodeganjue?”

　　ni：“wozheibushiweilenihaoma?nizongshizheiyang，zhenlingrenchengshoubuzhu。”

　　xifu：“nichengshoubuzhu?neimejiubieguanwo。”

　　pouxi：zaizheiyangdechangjingzhong，nidezhengzhilaiyuanyujiazhiguanchayi。nikenengjuedezishenzuofajiushiweilenengtahao，ketaquerenweinimeikaolvduifangdeganshou。

　　解决方法：

　　lejieduifang：shizhelejieduifangxinggetezheng，bieyinjiazhiguanchayierchanshengmaodun。keyizheimeshuo：“womingbaidajiaxinggejiongyi，danzheibingbudaibiaowomenbuyinggaigongchu。dajiakeyichangshixianghuxinren，xianghutiliang。”

　　lijieduifang：zaixiangchudeguochengzhong，lijieduifangdexiangfaheganshou。liru，taduiyumoushiyoubutongyijian，ninengzhongshitaguandian，erfeiqiangzhigenggaita。

　　xunzhaoxiangtongdian：xunzhaonidexiangtongdian，tishengbicizhijianmoqi。liru，nimenyexihuankandongman，nenggouyiqiqukandianying，gongxiangguanyingtiyan。

　　情景三：经济负担

　　难题会话：

　　ni：“zheiyiyuedezhufangdaikuanyouzhangle，yinggaizenmebanni?”

　　xifu：“wobuzhidao，nikannengbunengduozhengdianqian。”

　　ni：“wozheibushizaibuduanma?nikebukeyibuyaoyizhicuiwo?”

　　xifu：“wobingbushicuini，wojiushidanyouweilaideshenghuo。”

　　pouxi：zaizheiyangdechangjingzhong，nidezhengzhilaiyuanyujingjifudan。nikenengjuedetazaicuini，ketashijishangshizaidanyounimendeweilai。

　　解决方法：

　　yiqimiandui：yingduijingjifudan，nimenxuyaoyiqimiandui。keyizheimeshuo：“womingbaiwomenmuqiandejingjiyalifeichangda，danwomenyiqinuli，yidingnengduguonanguan。”

　　zhidingmubiao：zhidingyigehelidejingjijihua，queligezizhizehezongtimubiao。liru，ninengzhidingyigemeiyuedeyusuanfangan，helianpaishouruyuzhichu。

　　xianghufuchi：dangmianduijingjifudanshi，xianghuzhijianlijiehezhichi。liru，tajiabanjiadianhuijia，nikeyizhudongganjiawuhuo，huanjietayali。

　　er、tanchengjiaoliu，biaoshuxinlixiangfa

　　fenju2nianzenmewanhuihunyinhezuoshihunyinlichuliwentidehexin，danzaiwanhuiqizideguochengdangzhong，zhenchengeryouxiaogoutonggengjiashiyouweizhongyao。yixiashiyixiejutigoutongdejiqiaohexiaoshouhuashu，bangzhuzijinenggougenghaodibiaoshuxinlixiangfa。

　　方法一：聆听

　　具体方法：

　　zhuanzhuyulingting：danglaopozaishuohuadeshihou，tingzhushoulideshier，zhuanxinditingtashuohua。bubiqieduanta，buyaojizhebianbo。

　　huifu：zaitajianghuadeguochengdangzhong，shidudiandiantoubiaoshizantong，huoshiyongjianduandehuayuhuifu，liru：“wozhidaonishayisi。”

　　huizong：zaitashuowan，jianlvehuizongtajianjie，quebaonimingbailetadeyisi。liru：“niyeshishuoniyiweiwozaihenduofangmianzuodebugouhao，duibudui?”