20多年的婚姻怎么挽回

　　20duoniandehunyinzenmewanhuiyouderenshiyinweiliangkouzizairichangrichangshenghuoquefayouxiaogoutongyujiaoliu，yeshiyoushiyouyupoxiguanxichulibuhelisuoyinfade，huozheyouyushuangfangxinggebutong，mouyifangguoyuqiangdasuoyinqide，youhuozheyouyufuqierrenwufatongbufazhan、tisheng，shenzhiyouyixieyehuiyinweilingyibanchuguibeipanfuwuchengnuosuozaochengde。dajiajiuyongyigezuijudaibiaoxing，shejidaonantishuzuiduodezhuangkuang——airenwaiyu，laishenruyanjiuyixiazheiyihuatiba。(youyuwaiyunantiwangwangshishangmiantidaodezheileiwentizonghexingbiaodaxingshi)

　　ps：wenzhongshizhuanmenzhenduizheixieyijingchengshouhunyinshenghuokunhuo，xinlingshenchuyiranxiwangkeyiwanjiuhunyindexiaohuobanmenjingxinzhunbeide。ruguonijijingxiadinglejuexinliyi，neiyangjiumeibiyaojixuliulanxiaqu，dajiakeyiliyongzheiduanshijianquzixunyixialvsuo，lejieruhezailihunguochengzhonghaohaobaohuzijiquanyi。

　　dangwomentingjianairenwaiyushi，daduoshurendediyifanyingjiushiliyi。tamenborandanu，haobuyouyudezuochujueding。danshidajiadouzhidao，hunyinshenghuobingbuzhishixiangdangyutianmideaiqing。zaizheizhongguanxili，xuyaokaolvliangjiaren，gongzuozhong，jingyingqingkuang，yijihaizidenggezhongfuzadeyaosu，suoyizhendebushisuoyourendounengxiangxiangxiangzhongdeneiyangsatuobuji。henduorenzaiyingduiairenwaiyudeqingkuangxia，tamensuozuodebingfeilikeliyi，fanershiqinfensisuowanhuilaogong。

　　ziran，yeyoubushaorendangmianduizhangfu/qizichuguiqingrenzheigeshiqingshang，diyifanyingjiushixiangjinbanfachaikaitamen，suihoujinzaorangzhangfu/xifuzhonggui。

　　youqingtixing：zheiduichuliwenti，shijishangwanquanjiushishebenzhumode。

　　yezhengyinweihaoduorenyouzheizhongxiangfa，caishideyixiebuliangsuowei“zixunguwen”liyongzheiyidian，dazhangqigudangjiucaige。

　　这群人非蠢即坏。

　　nizhangfuquzhaorenzheijianshiqing，shishuyushiyigebingzheng，haobishuowozheiyishoushangqilexiaohongdian，tafayang，neinijiuyaodaoyiyuanjinxingjianyantaweishenmeyangduiba?

　　nimeibanfanengpaojinyiyuanmenzhengenyishengshuo，aiyawozheiyixiayangle，kuaijiwonaonao。neiyishengkenenghuishuomeishibani。

　　ziranyebunenggenyishengshuo，nibangwozuogeshoushuzhiliao，baneiyikuaixiaohongdianbangwoxiaochule，neimewojiushashimeiyoule。

　　nidaoyiyuan，zheigeyishenghaowuyiwenshidiyibuweinizuojianyan，mingquegenbenyuanyinwentizaiquduizhengzhiliao，shiba?

　　birushuoshibingjunganran，neihoubiandezhuyaorenwujiushiqingchuzheiyixijun，neiyishijueduibuhuimeitiankanzhezheiyixiaohongdianmashifou，nixijunguibilexiaohongdianziranxiaoshi。

　　xiangtongdenizhangfuqingrenzheijianshiqing，jiubunenggaosuwo，jiaoshi，nibangwobacirenganpao，nijiangtamenliangchaikaifenlichulai，rangzhangfugankuaizhonggui。

　　meiyouyongdenvhai，nilijinjianxindejiangtamenchaikai，balaogonggaohuijiale，nihuifaxianzhangfuhuiguizheiyiqiantishichuangjiancongnihaofeizheiyiduanganqingqiantixia，nijiangzheifenganqingjinyibudesikaiyigegengdadeliekai，laihuandenizhangfuzheileituoxie(pobudeyizhonggui)。

　　sui20duoniandehunyinzenmewanhuihounijiuhuifaxianyigezaogaodeshi，bianshinizhangfuhuiguiyihou，nizongshirenbuzhuyiweita，nizongshirenbuzhuchata，nihaishibuyaoshushi，nizongshirenbuzhulianxitazhengchao。

　　xiangtongde，nizhangfuhaihuibutaidui，tayaobuchenmowuyantaobini，buhenishuohuajiatinglengbaoli，yaobumeihuijia，wanmingxiai“dapingpangqiu”，zaiyougengeliedehenizhaochaerzhengchao，xintaihencha，yaomejiushibujiuyouyubierenlianxidao，huoshizaizhaoyigenvxing。

　　jianyanzhi，nizhangfuyishangzhongzhongxingweiquanshinishoulidexiaohongdian，xiaohongdiancongbuduzifasheng，tayidingshiyipianfashengde。