怎么挽回悬崖边的婚姻

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　　yi、chengrencuowu，danshibuchenmiyukuijiu

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　　1. mianduibuzhengque，buhuibi：tanrandirenkenisuofandecuowu，buyaoqingyiyongtuocizhegaihuochakaihuati。nizhencheng，shizhongjianxinrendediyibu。

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　　yihuoshizhang：nijuede，zaizhiqianshi，najuhuabijiaorongyizhijirenxin?fabiaopinglunfenxiangzijidekanfaba!

　　er、xingwei，shuomingnidegenggai

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　　san、goutongjiaoliu，zhongjianxinrendechuangkou

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　　1. lingtingbishuogengweizhongyao：jiduifangyigeanquanshineikongjian，rangtamenbiaodaganshouhedanxin。lingtingshi，weichihuanweisikao，fangzhiqieduanhuobianbo。

　　2. kaifangshiwentituidonglejie：yingyongkaifangshiwentizhengqueyindaohuihua，ru‘niyiweiwozenmeyangcainengshinizaicixiangxinwo?’zheizhongwentinengjililingyifanggongxiangneixinxiangfa。

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　　yihuoshizhang：nijuede，zaizhongjianxinrenhuanjiezhong，youshenmesuoshinengzuo，quechangchangbeihulve?ganjinfabiaopinglunfenxiangzijideconghui。