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　　erdangwomenxianggaibianzishenchangzuodejudongshi，shijishangdengyushizainizijidegexingxiguanxing。

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　　nitianerxingdezheigeguochenghaowuyiwenshitongkude。rutongrenmenchangshuo，chenggongderenweihegengrongyihuode?

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　　1、nimendehunyinwentigenyuanxianzaishenmedifang

　　xiangzhengjiunimendeguanxihunyinshenghuo，jiuxuyaoxunzhaonimendeguanxiwentichuzailenaer。

　　youxieshihouliyiyeba，waiyuyeba，douzhishiyigejielun，erfeiyuangu。

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　　ganqingchuxianwentishihuiyoushenmeyuzhao?

　　1)fuqizhijiandehuihuayaoyiyankezhujian

　　shenmejiao“yiyankezhujian”?bianshizhangzuibianshimaitairen，liru：wogennishuoleduoshaohuile，niweihebianshijibude;niyejiuzheiyipinxingle，niwufagaibianle。

　　zaiwomenyongyanke、fengci、jifengdekouqilaigenlingyifangjiaotanshi，zheijiushiyigeqianjiadeqianzhao。

　　2)“morisiqishi”fasheng

　　shenmeshihunyinde“morisiqishi”?

　　zhize：niweishenmelianzheiyidoubuhuizuo?ruguobushini，wo...

　　qiaobuqi：wojuedenizheijianshiqingzuodebudui，tajiaopingdingzheijianshiqing。danwojuedezheigerengenbenjiumeijiuxia，niganshenmedoubule，tajiaoqiaobuqi。

　　bianjie：beibishideyifangheduifangbianbo、zhenglun。

　　lengbaoli：pengdaofenqibuhangsheng、bugoutong、doubuzhengzhi，lengbaolishiyizhongbizhengzhihaixuyaosunhaiaiqingcaozuo。

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　　weishenmezheimeduonanrenjiuhuitiaoxuanlengbaoli?

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　　zhangciyiwang，aiqingyejiushizaiyiciyicidelengzhanzhongbeixiaoshidaijinle。