怎么挽回婚姻流失的爱情

　　zenmewanhuihunyinliushideaiqing，dangganqinglaidao"yaolihun"delingjiedian，henduonanshichangshenxianliangzhongjiduan：yaobuyinweijuerduobi，yaobuyinjinzhangerjiutuobujue。danxinliyanjiubiaoming，78%delihunbulizhilaiyuanyu"jingshenxuqiumeibeikandao"deleijibaofa，bingfeizhenzhengxiangyaowanbiguanlian。xiamianwomenjiuronghehunyinshenghuoyixuelingyude"qingganxiufusijieduanjichulilun"，shendujiedunvshizailihunkunjinglidezhenzhengxinlizhuangtaigongnengfenqu，jiyukecaozuodejianbiexinhaoyuxiubuduice，bangzhunibawozhuguanlianzhuanjidejinziduihuakuang。

　　yi、bianjiemaliyikunjing：nvshitilihundedicengsiwei

　　hunyinzixunjigou"xingfujia"2023niandiaoyanshujuxianshi，nvxingzhudongtilihundeanlizhong，83%cunyou"qingganzhanghuzhangqixingtouxian"zhuangkuang。yunanxinggengjiaguanzhuwentigaijinbuyiyang，nvshiduiganqingdexiwangzhuanzhuyu：

　　qingganlianjiedeyanxuxing(shibushibeiguanzhu、lejie)

　　zaijingshenshangdegongjidu(wendushinengfouhuodeshiyong)

　　jianglaiandinggankeyucexing(guanlianshibushiyougaishanhenyoukeneng)

　　经典案例：

　　mouqiyeguanlirenyuanlaopotilihunshizhichu："woshengbingdeshihoutazhishishuo'daoyiyuan'，xiaohaifumuhuitaconglaimeiyoucanyu，zheixieshiqingxiangzhenyiyangchuolewunian。"zheilei"qingganhushidediejiaxiaoying"，yuanbiyicizhongyaomaodungengjuyoushashangli。

　　qishixiangzhuishangyigenvsheng，zhiyaohuixianliao，jiuhuiyoubachengjiyuzhuishangta。youyuchuduixiang，benzhijiushiyige“tan”zi，henvshengtanshenghuo，jiaoxin、tanweilai，zhixunigentatouyuan，caiyoufazhandekongjian。jiarunibianshizuibaben，xianliaogangtiezhinan，neijiulaiwodegongzhonghao~liexinrenlaoli，gongxiangniyifen，dingjiandeliaotiansiweidaotu，shinibawoliaotianguanjianqiaomen，heshiyaofengqudian，heshiyaogaoqingshangdeliaotian，yucitongshirangniyitaodingjianxiaoshouhuashu，shinijiejuebutongdechangjingdeduihua，doukeyidexinyingshou，henjiandanjiunengjiangnvhailiaonadaoshou。

　　er、laopodengzheniwanliude5gemimishujuxinhao(fuxingweixinlixuefenxi)

　　shujuxinhao1：baocunzhongyaoqingxumeijie

　　典型表现：

　　buquzoujiehunzuanjie/qinglvjiezhi

　　shejiaowangluopingtairengbaoliujiehunzhaohuogongtonghuiyidongtaixing

　　huijuebanchuzhuwoshihuoyitongshenghuokongjian

　　深层次心理状态：

　　yijuyilianlilun，wulixuelianjiedebaocunshiqianyishili"guanlianweiwanquanpolie"xinhao。shenjingxitongkexueyanjiufaxian，dangyigerenyingduifenlishi，rendedanaoqiankoudaihuibiaopiceng(jiejuebeishangdeshenjingzhongshu)renqizhiyuwulilianjiedebaocunshuipingchengzhengxiangguan。

　　应对措施：

　　zijueweihuzheizhongqingxumeijie(ruanshicaxijiehunzuanjie)

　　zaigongtongshineikongjianshengchanzhizaoxinhuiyi(ruxiubuyizhangjiuhezhao)

　　fangzhixunwen"weishenmehaibubanli"，gaicheng"zheigejiatingzongshiyounideweizhi"chuansongguishugan

　　shujuxinhao2：jianjiexingweichichuanqizhifuchengxu

　　典型表现：

　　genjuxiaohai/gongtongpengyouchuansongguanzhu("taxunwennizheigexingqishibushijiabanjiadian")

　　baocunnidelianxifangshiweipingbile(tebieshizaiweishanchuweixin)

　　duiyunidedongtaixingyirancunzaifanying(jiarunichanshengbingdongtaixingshi，tatongguobierenxunwenqingkuang)

　　动机：

　　shehuifazhanshenrujichulilunqiangdiao，guanxiehuashihoudejianjiexinghudongjiaoliushi"youyiwuyizhonglian"dezhuanzheqi。nvshichangtongguogezhong"jianju"guanchaduifangshibushiyougaibianyixiang，fangzhizhijiejiechudenankan。

　　经典案例：

　　zenmewanhuihunyinliushideaiqing，mounanxingzailihunlengjingqifajue，laoposuijujuejianmian，quetongguoguinvzhuansongweitongyao(tazhangqixingchangweibuhao)。kangfushiyindaotamentuisong："yaowoshoudao，ganxieniyizhijide。"yigeyuehoulaopojijijianmian，xiubuguochengjiakuai。

　　shujuxinhao3：baocungoutongdefangshidanxintaifenqi

　　典型表现：

　　huifuxinxijianjieminglequehuihuiying("ng""zhidao")

　　huijueshenduduihuaquejienashiwuxinggongzuogoutongjiaoliu("xiazhouhaizifumuhuiniquma?")

　　xiangjianshiweichishentijulidanyunxujibenshangchupeng(rudidongxideshihoubukeyihuibi)

　　心理现象：

　　yijuchongtujiejuejichulilun，zheilei"youxianduduiwaikaifang"shiziwofangyujizhiheqidaixinlishangdeboyi。nvshijidanxinyicuozaicuo，youzaiqianyishizhongxiwangbierennengtupotaxinlifangyu。