怎么挽回婚姻的错误

　　zenmewanhuihunyindecuowu，jinxienian，zhongguolihunlvbuduanshangsheng，chengweileyigebeishouzhumudeshehuiwenti。juxiangguanshujuxianshi，[shijiniandai] quanguogedihunyindengji [x] wandui，lihundengji [x] wandui，zhongguolihunlvdadao [x]%。zaiyixiedadoushi，zhongguolihunlvgengjiashichixushangsheng，ru [chengshimingcheng]，zhongguolihunlvshenzhichaoguo [x]%。zheiyixiliedeshujuxinxi，mobulingrenzhenjing，yerangdajiajinbuzhusisuo：hunyinshenghuojiujingzenmele?

　　shijishang，lihunyuanyingezhonggeyang，qianshedaoshenghuodediandiandidi。youxiefuqishiyouyusanguanbuhe，zairifuyirixiangchuzhong，mocachixu，zuihoupaoguanglebicizhijiandeqingyiyuxixin;yeyoudeshiyinweijingjifudan，zhufangdaikuan、gouchedaikuan、yuerchengbendengzhongrenyaderenchuanbuguoqi，zhengzhijianduo，aiqingyesuizhichuxianliefeng;yeyoudeshizaoyudaolehunwailian，xinlaitanta，hunyinshenghuodezhongyaoqiantidangranwucun，wunaizhinenggebendongxi。

　　danliyi，jiuzhendaibiaozheaiqingdewanquanjieshuma?qishibushi。xianshishenghuozhong，youhenduofuqizailihunzhihou，caijingjuexinlingshenchuduilingyibanyirancunzaijuannian，duicongqiandeneiduanhunyinrichangshenghuowangbudiao。cike，tamenxinlijiuhuifanqiyigeniantou：zheifenganqing，haikeyifuhema?neimexiangyaozhaochudaan，guanjianzaiyunengbunenglingminbuhuolihunzhihouaiqingkewanhuideqianzhao。zheizhongyuzhao，haosiheiyedexingxingdiandian，jineixiezaixinlimigongzhongpaihuaiderenzhiyinzhefangwei，rangtamenyoujiyuzhongshijiuai，jixieyiqianzhongduandeganqingzhangjie。

　　一、情绪方面的思念

　　(一)积极关注现况

　　lihunzhihou，zhiyaoduifangjingchangzhudonglianxini，lejiezuijindenihuoderuhe，gongzuozhongshifoushunli，shentichuxianwubuliangfanying，naizhixizhidaozaihunimeiriyinshi、shuimianzhuangkuang，zheibianshiyigejiweiguanjiandeqianzhao。biru，zaijiangdiwendushitishinitianjiayiwu，huozhezaimangliuyitianhoufalaixinxixunwenniwancanchilemei，kanqilailingsuiderichangwenhao，qishiyouzheshenshendeqiangua。duterilitou，jiarunideshengri、jiehunjinianriri，lingyifangruoyiranhaijide，bingsongshangchengzhizhuyuan，neizheiyifenneixinshenchudezaihugengjiashibuyaneryu。zheileiguanzhubingbushiyishixingqi，fanershibuduanqiezhenzhide，tixiancunzaiyulingyifangxinlingshenchu，nicongweizhenzhenzhengzhengyuanqu，nimendeguanxiqingganlianjieyiranzaiqiaoqiaodiweichi。

　　(二)常常怀恋往日

　　buzhibujue，dajiacongyitongpengyouneilitingdao，duifangzailiaotiandeshihoujingchangtanjidajiayiqianyiqiduguodemeihaohuiyi，zheixieyiqilvxingdeyouqudeshi、weiduifangqingheshengridewennuanqingjing、yitongyingnanershangdejiankushishikeke，douchengweilelingyifangzuizhongbuduantaolaodemeihaohuiyi。naizhizaimouyigeshengengbanye，duifangjiuhuiyinxiangniannanyirushui，fanyuejiuzhaopian、duanshipin，chenjinyuwangrisuiyueli。youshihou，nihaihuifaxian，lingyifangzaihebierenjiaoliushi，henzirandiyinrudajiacongqiandepeihemoqiyuju、zhuanshunicheng，yixiexijiemobusanfazhetaduiyuneiyiduanaiqingdeshenshenjuanlian，shebudejiucifangshou，rengwoxiwangninengzaihuiyizhongmidefuwei，yeqidaizhehaiyoujihuijixieweiwanchengdegushi。

　　二、交流的意向

　　(yi)jingchanglianluohudongjiaoliu

　　danglihunzhihou，lingyifangkaishipinfandihenigoutong，zheiwuyishiyigejijidexinhao。tabuhuixianggangfenbieshineiyanglengdanshuyuan，fanershijijinaqidianhua，rangnifalaixinxi，wenhouniderichangdiandiandidi。yexushizaishangbanlushangjiandaoyouyisidejingse，pobujidaidixiangyaofenxiangjidajia，shiniyitongganshouneiyifenxiaoxingfu;yexushixiabanle，yuniliaoyiliaoyitiandegongzuosuosui，qingtuyudaodewenti，xunzhaoyixiejianyi。zheileijingchangzhijiandehudong，zhanshichutakewanghenijianlixindemiqielianxi，xiwangninenggouzaidurongjintaderensheng，chengweilegongxiangsuoyouxinuailedetiexinren，rutongyiwangrelianshineiban，wuhuabushuo，bicideshenghuojiaozhizaiyiqi。

　　(er)guanxinaihugoutongjiaoliu

　　zaijiaoliuguochengzhong，taduinidemeiyijuhuajiyujijizhudong、yongxindehuifu，zheiyeshikanzhongdeqiangyoulizhengshi。tayebuhuifuyanleshidiyingduiyiliangju，gengjiabunengrangnidexinxininiuruhai。ruguoniqingtukunaoshi，tahuiyongxinqingting，shidujiyukuanwei，yongwennuandehuayuquchunixinzhongdeyinmai;tangruoshenrutantao，tahuizhuanzhuyusisuo，mingquetichuzijideguandian，henihudongjiaoliu，haoxiangshijiandaoliu，huidaozheixietantanxindeyeli。tadezheiyangdetaidu，chuandachuyigemingquedexinxineirong：tazhenxihenidehuihua，gaoduzhongshinideguandian，xiwangyonggoutongjiaoliuzaicilajinbicixinlingdejuli，shiqicongqiandepeihemoqihexinren。

　　三、人际互动的暗示

　　(yi)guanxinshejiaomeitidongtaixing

　　zenmewanhuihunyindecuowu，zairujinzheigeshejiaowangluoshengxingdeshidai，weixinpengyouquan、weiboweixinshejiaowangluopingtaibianchengrenmenderichangshenghuoyishanchuang，tongshiyeweiguanchalihunzhihouqingxumaixiangdailaileanjianxiansuo。ruolingyifanglihunzhihourengjingchangguanzhunideshejiaomeitidongtaixing，duizijidegongbudemeiyitiaopengyouquandourenzhenfangwen，lijiguanzhudianzanzheixiegongxiangrichangxiaoxingfuneirong，huozherenzhenpingjianibiaodaqingxudewenben，zheijiuyiweizhetaxiangyaoshishikekelejiezijideshenghuofangshi，lejiekuailehebeishang。nishaichugongzuochengjiu，tahuidiyishijiansongjinqinghe;nigantanshenghuodebuyi，tahuifaguolaizuiwennuandegulihuayu。naizhi，tahuimomodijidenizaishejiaopingtaibujingyijiantanjidexihao，zaimouyigebujingyijiandeshishikeke，weinidailaiyiwaidejingxi，zheixiejudongdoutouluzhetazailihunzhihou，yiranmomodibanifangzaixinli，genjuwangluoshidaideneiyisilianluo，yanxuleduiyunideguanzhu。

　　(er)rongjinlingyifangshejiaoquan

　　ruguoduifangzhujianzhudongduijienijiaojiquan，jijikaizhanniyupengyoujuhui，reqingdehenidexiaohuobanmenwenhao、xianliao，haoxiangcongweilikaiguozheiqunren;huozhezaijiatingjucanshi，xinhuaibugui，bangzhuchouhuafanshi，yulaorenqinqiejiaotan，qinfenyingzaowenxinhemudeqifen，zheiyixiliexingweidoushitakewangzhongguinishenghuodeqiangliexinhao。tabuzaibazijishizuoxiaomianren，fanershinulixunzhaoyiqianershunengxiangdexinrengan，changshizaicizuonirichangshenghuobukehuoquedeyibufen，rangtamendeshenghuoguijizaidujiaocuozhongdie，jixieyiqianzhongduandeqingyuanzhangjie。