逆向思维怎么挽回婚姻

　　nixiangsiweizenmewanhuihunyin，dajiazaishengminglizongyaojinglizheiyangdeshike：hezhiaifenshouzhihou，xinlirengrannanyishihuaitadeyingzi，shichanghuixiangxiang，ruguonengzaicihuidaotadehuaibaogaiyouduoxingfu。

　　zheizhongganjueshifenpubian，shiduiyuyiwangkuaileshiguangdemeihaohuiyihehuainian。

　　danshi，fenshouzhihouzaiduzaiyiqidejiyuzhenshicunzai?

　　zaiyingshi《lianaidewendu》hanyouneiyangyijutaici：“suiranzhongxinzaiyiqidegailvshi82%，danxiangbanyishengdejilvjinyou3%;

　　ciwai97%dexiaoqinglv，huizhongxinfenkai，bingqiegendiyicifenshouyuanyinyiyang。”

　　qinglvfuhe，daibiaozhenimenbicixuyaozhongxinjieshoulingyifang，jieshouziji。

　　meiyoumeiyiduiqinglvzaifenshouzhihou，dounenggoufuhexing。neiyang，zaishenmeyangdeqingkuangxiahuiyouduozhongjiyu?jiuzheigewenti，rangwomenyitongxunqiudaan。

　　01

　　争执分开

　　youyixieqinglvfenshoushibingbukequ，lianggerenzhijianbingmeiyoubukediaohedemaodun，zhiyinweiyizaisuofashengdexiaozhengchao，jianjianshiqulexixin。

　　erzaizhengchaohou，youyigerenxiangfenshou，lingwaiyigerenqiahaotongyangzainaopiqi，suoyibiandayinglefenkai。

　　ruguonigandaofennushi，bubiqinglvzuochujueding，yebieqinglvdishuochushanghaitarendehua，zheishisuoyourenzaiganqinglidouxuyaozhuyideshiqing。

　　kezheizhongfenkai，huidaomeiduojiudourangliangrengandaohouhui，youyubingbushiyinweibuaideshihoucaifenkai，zhishiyinweiyishichongdongcaifenkai。

　　02

　　yidifenshou，houbianyouhuidaoletongyidifangrichangshenghuo

　　yixieqinglvfenshoudeyuanyinzhiyijiushiyinweitamenyuanjulitanlianai;yiguolianshizaishifeichangjutiaozhande，tebieshineixiedanxinjimoderen，gengwufarenshouzheileigekaichanshengzhemo。

　　dangliangrenyishidaole，bujiudejianglaixiangdangzhangdeyiduanshijianneidoukanbujianweilaishi，tongchanghuixuanzewanbiguanlian。

　　danshi，ruoliangrenbingweiburuhunyindediantang，bingqiedoujuzhuzaitongyidachengshi，tayiranyouzhonghuiyiqidegailv。

　　bingweiwanhunqiemeiyoujinxingxindelianai，zaihelingyifangbendishenghuowangdeqingxingxia，feichangrongyizhongxinzaiyiqi。

　　03

　　有实力兑现诺言

　　ruguodangshiliangrenfenshoudeyuanyinshiyinweiqizhongyirendezibeigan，daozhibunengjiyuzaihuderengenghaodeshenghuo，yushijiuxuanlefenkai。

　　zaifenshouzhihoudeyiduanshijianli，cirenjuyoulejiyutiaojian，qieyiranbaochidanshenzhuangtai，zheijiutigaolefuhexingdegailv。

　　niyuelaiyuegengjiachusele，danniyuanlaishenaiderenyijiushidanshennannv;nidanshennannv，womeijia，bingqiewoliangdouhuibiandegengjiachusele，zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，chedikeyixuanzezhongxinzaiyiqi。

　　04

　　fenshouhou，caifaxianyuanlaiqiannanyouhuoshiheshizijide。

　　duiyuyixieyouyiqinglvfenshoueryan，tamenqishijiushijingguoshenzhongkaolvzhihoucaizuochufenkaisuojuedingde;youyumouxieyuanyin，liangrenzhendewufazaicizaiyiqishenghuoxialai。

　　zheixierenzaikeguanzhonglianai，zaiganqinglitansuoziwo。danyuejinqianfanhou，haishiganjueqiannanyoucaisuanshizuishihezijideneiren。lianggerendoubingmeiyouwangjiqiannanyou，xinlibaoliuzheqingyi，zheiyangdezhuangtaiyiyangkeyixuanzefuhexing。

　　nixiangsiweizenmewanhuihunyin，neiyang，genqianrenfuhe，yidingyaozuohaoshenmezhunbei?

　　zaicihuidaowenzhangneirongzhujianyibufen，tijile《lianaidewendu》lideyijutaici。dabufenfuqizaiquedingzhongxinzaiyiqihou，huiyinxiangtongdewentizaidufenkai。

　　zheizhongchangjingjingchanghuichuxian，danshiruoniliangdouxiangyaocongtoukaishi，yidingyaowenbicizhijian：shibushiyijingzhaodaolechulifenshoudeyuanyindefangfa。

　　jinyouquedingjuyouwentijiejuenengli，caikeyixiashoukaolvdaojiejuefangfa。

　　jiaruwomendangshifenkaishiyouyujinqianwenti，neimejintianyaokanshifoudadaolemudi;ruguoyinweiyuanjulilianai，neimequankannishifoushenghuozaitongyigechengshi。

　　jiaruyinweizishenbuyu，neijiukanliangrennengfouzaicijieshoubicizhijian。

　　congtoukaishiyiduanzhongyuandeaiqingsuiranlingrengaoxing，danmangmudefuhexingkenenghuizhishizaidufushang。zaitanlianaideshihou，shixiangduidaiganqingyiyangyongxin，xuyaofuchuxixin、zhenzhiheshiminggan。