怎么挽回婚姻的困境

　　zenmewanhuihunyindekunjing，fenkai，zheiyiganqingshijieli“xiaoyiwai”，yizhirangrencuoshoubuji，beitongbuyi。danaiqinga，jiuxiangshiyichangbuquedingdetanxian，youshi，jibianzoudaofenchalukou，yezonghuiyouyisibuganxin，xuyaohuiguotouzaishiyici。yinci，wanliuchenglexuduorendexinlixiangfa，erneixiezhenzhengkourenxinxiandewanliuyuju，jiuhaoxiangshiaiqingmofa，yexukeyirangzaoyilengquedexinzhongxinranqiqiwangdehuomiao。jinri，jiurangwomenyiqitanxunzheixiefenshouwanhuidehua，shenmezuihuidongrendeneixinba!

　　一、真诚道歉，认错

　　jingdianyulu：“wozhidaowocuole，woshizhendebuyinggai……qingniyuanliangwo，jiwoyigejihui，woyaoyongwodexingdonglaiyanzhengwodegaibian。”

　　jiangjie：zhenchengshiwanliudediyibu，yeshihenzhongyaodeyibu。dangninengtanchengdijienazijidebuzhengque，erqiejiandingdijiduifangzhiqianshi，nijiuyijingtachuwanliudeyidabu。jilao，buyaozhishikoutoushangjiangjiang，ershiyinggaishijiqiangdiaonicuozaina，zheiyangduifangcaikeyikanjiannidechengxinheyongqi。

　　shishangquanshi：“qinaida，woxianggemiludexiaohai，zaiaidesenlinzhongzoucuolelufangwei。rujinzhongyuzhaodaolehuilaidelu，zhixiwangninenggoukaimen，rangdaizhenongnongdeqianjiuziwogaibian，zaicizoujinnidexinfang。”

　　xiaotishi：zhiqianshi，muguangjianding，yudiaoyaochengzhi，nengrangduifangkanjiannidechengxinchengyi。

　　二、回忆美好，共鸣点情绪

　　jingdianyulu：“jidewomenyiqi……neixieshiguangzhendehaomeihaoya，wozhendehaohuailian。kebukeyizaihuidaocongqian，congtoukaishi?”

　　jiangjie：huiyishilianjieguoquyuxianzaidechuangkou，doushihuanqilingyifangqingxudeyouxiaofangshi。genjugongtonghuiyizheixiexingfudeshiguang，keyirangduifangzaicitihuidaonimendeguanxiqingganlianjie，congerzengjiawanliudegailv。

　　shishangquanshi：“nishifouhaijide?neiyiciwomenyiqihaibiankanrichu，nigaoxingdebiriguanghaicuican。neiyike，wojiuzhidaole，niyeshiwodequanshijie。rujin，wojuedezaiduheniyiqi，dailaigengduoshuyuwozuimeihaodehuiyi。”

　　zenmewanhuihunyindekunjing，xiaotishi：huiguwangshishi，nenggoudaishangyixiexiaowupinhuoshixiangpian，nengrangduifanggengweizhiguandiganshoudaozheixiezhenguideshunjian。

　　三、表述舍不得，呈现真情

　　jingdianyulu：“woshizhendeyuelaiyueaini，meiyouniderizi，rutongmeiyoulinghun。qingnibuyaolikaiwo，haome?”

　　jiangjie：zhijiebiaodanibushezhiqinghezhenqing，keyirangduifangtihuiniduiyuganqingdezhenxiheyilai。youshi，jianyidejijuhua，jiukedadonglingyifangneixinzuirouruandedifang。

　　shishangquanshi：“niqingchuma?meiyounideshijie，jiuhaoxiangshiyifumeiyousecaidehua。nishiwojinshengdezheimoguangzedu，meiyouleni，yiqiedoubiandeandanwuguang。qingrangwozaiduchengweizijidejiezhu，rangwomenyiqizhizuoshuyuwomenwucaibinfenjianglai。”

　　xiaotishi：zaishuozheijuhuashi，keyishidangdijiashangyixiezhitiyuyan，liruwojinduifangdeshou，huoshihuanhuandexiangyonglingyifang，nengrangduifangkanjiannidehuanjingwendu。