婚姻出了问题怎么挽回

　　hunyinchulewentizenmewanhui，fuqiguanxiyidanchuxianliehen，henduorenshouxianxiangdaodeshiliyi，haoxiangzheiyeshijiejuebeishangdezuihaoshixuanze。

　　ranerxianshiyuanyuanbixiangxiangfanza，bingfeiyiyoumaodunhechongtu，huanyigeairenjiukechedixiaochunanti。

　　jiarufuqijianmeiyudaozhangjiudejiabao、pinfandihunhouchuguidengzhuangkuang，zhishizhiwang“lingmixinhuanjiukewanshiruyi”，zheishijishangshiyizhongtuolixianshi、zuobairimengxiangdezhuyaobiaoxian。

　　shishishang，dabufenfuqizhijiandefenqitongchanglaiyuanyubiciwufabawojiejuewentidebanfa，jiqiaiqingmoheqiluoshibudaowei。

　　yiner，danghunyinposui，airentilihun，cikeniqianwanbuyaotaibeiweilewanliu，yunyonghaozhei3gegaoaozidafangfa，tongyangkeyiqingqingsongsongwanjiuhunyin。

　　一、调整情绪

　　zaiyiduanguanxilaidaopoliedebianyanshi，yiwujuebujinjinqujueyuyifang，fanershibicilaiquziru，yitongsuozaochengde。

　　yiner，dangliefengfasheng，womenbuyinggaigangbiziyong，ershiyinggaiyingyongbianzhengluojilaisikaowenti。

　　bieyiweidijiangwentiguiyinyulingyifang，haoxiangzijihaowuxiaci;yebuyaoguoyuhanhoulaoshi，basuoyouzerendoulandaozijishenshang。

　　zuihaodebanfashi，zaijiaowangshixinliyouyigancheng，bianzhengdikaoliang。

　　yifangmian，jingxiaxinfanshengzijinaerzuodebugouhao，nalinenggaishan;lingyifangmian，yexuyaolixingkandaiduifangyantanjuzhi，lijiebierendeganshou。

　　sikaoshi，lijieduifangdejiexianganyouweizhongyao，meiyigerendoushiduligeti，yongyoubutongdexinggehekanfa，yidingyaozhongshibingzunzhongzheixiechayi。

　　yucitongshi，yexuyaoganyumianduizishendewenti，tanchengdijiuzheng;jinjinyoubianzhengsikaobugou，xinlizhuangtaiyexuyaobaochiwending。

　　rutongfengzheng，heduifangbaochishidangdejianju，jibuhuiguoyuchanmianfeice，doubulengdanshengshu。

　　zheileishidangdeqingkuang，youliyubaochilengjinglianaizhongdenanti。

　　danshi，dadaolitongsuyidong，shijianqilaiquenanzhulehenduoren。

　　henduorenyidanguanxiehua，jiubeinuqihuobiequchonghun，lixinghaowu，zuochuhenduojiazhongchongtudeshier。

　　ruguoniganjuezishenshenxianqingxuwoxuan，meifalizhi，xuyaojishixunqiuzhuanyexiezhu。buyaorangxintaihexinnidexingwei，zhiyaonizhudongxunzhaobangzhu，womenjiukeyizhaodaowentidebenzhi，zhidingyouxiaodejiejuefangan。

　　jilao，yidannikeyilixingdikandailingyifanghezheifenganqing，neiyangwanliuzheiduanganqing，jiuyitachuqudechenggongdeyidabu。

　　二、提升离异准入门槛

　　zaiwanhuihunyinzheiyichangjiankude“zhanzheng”zhong，henduorenhuixianrucuowuguannian，zongxiangyaolizaidaodezhigaodianshang，yongdaodehefalvquanweixingqu“qiaoji”lingyifang，changshijianglingyifangbangzaishenpang，qingchulihundeniantou。

　　比较常见的观点如：

　　“wolaiweijiazhongtouruneimeduo，niweishenmezheimewuqing?”

　　或者威协：

　　“nihuiliyi，woyaonirizibushitaihaoguo!”

　　再或者是质疑：

　　“nizheiyangduiwo，liangxinhezai?”

　　zheizhongyujubiaomiankanshangqushinanguodeqingtu，danqishishixiangjinguyiyang，ranglingyifangbeiganyaliheyanjuan。

　　airenzhenzhenzhengzhengkanzhongde，shirichangshenghuozhongdediandiandiditihui，erfeishuodeyijuhua“nengzheduolao”he“wusifengxian”。

　　guodushehuidaodeshijiayalizhihuibalingyifangtuigenggaogengyuan，naizhinengrangduifangxiajuexinliqu。

　　neiyang，zuihaodebanfashishenme?zhongdianzaiyutishenglihun“menkan”，ranglingyibanzaijishizhisunhou，xiangyaohehaoruchu。

　　hunyinchulewentizenmewanhui，zuixian，yaojinyibutishengzijidejiazhi，jingjishangyaonulichuangzaoziligengsheng，buyilaitaren;xintaishangshizhongbaochiwenzhongpingjing，jirenyizhongkaopugan;zaijiatingyalicengmian，zhanshichuyinggaiyoudedandangyujiazhi。

　　cizhi，yaojiaqiangyuxiaohaiyulaorenzhijiandeguanxi，nengrangduifanggaoqingchuliyibudandanshierrendeshi，haiguanxidaoyigejiatingdepinganwending。

　　yucitongshi，zhanxianchutazaijiatingzhongshijinengli，bulunshigerenlicaiguihuahuoshirichangpengzhi，yidingyaozuodaojingranyouxu，nengrangduifangyishidaole，shiquleni，jiazhongjiuhuishiquzhichengdian。

　　wanhuiaiqingbixulengjingchenzhedejieduhecelvexingdexingwei。

　　jilao，wanliubingbushikenqiulianmin，fanershipingzhezhenshibenshiyumeili，nengrangduifangxinganqingyuanpeizainishenbian。