chuguizenmewanhuihunyinlaogong,hunhoushenghuo,dangchuneigeshenfubujiqishuroumeiyumengxiangdegangwan,youshiyehuizaodaojiannanxianzu,shenzhishandongciyandexinhaodeng。jiejuelingyibandelengmo、zhengchaogengxin,naizhifuqiliangdifenjuhuoliyiweixie,nishifougandaowuzhu、benkui,shenzhijianchibuxiaqu?danqingjizhu,meiyiduanhunyinzongyaojinglimolian,zhongdianjiushinishifouyuanyishenchushou,heairenyiqinuli,jiangjiongjingzhuanhuanchengzhuanzhedian。jinri,jiuweinijiemi6gechaoshiyongdewanhuihunyinfangshi,rangnizaijuejingzhongtanxunxiwang,ranqiaidehuoyan!
方法一:理性思索,寻找婚恋问题的主要原因

1. zhongduanzhengchao,jibicilizhideshineikongjiansheji
dangaiqingxianrukunjingshi,xinlizhuangtaiyibanchuyugaodujinzhangjiaolv,yidianxiaoshijiukenenghuizaochengjiliedezhengchao。zheishihou,zhongduanzhengchao,jiduifangyigelizhidekongjianheshijian,shiwanhuihunyindediyibu。haikeyixuanzelinshixingbanchulaijiri,huozheyuedingyige“lengqueqi”,zaiciqijian,duanlelianxi、buzhengchao,rangbicidoushijihuidiaojieqingxu,dulisikao。
2. shencengcisikao,xunzhaowentidehexin
jingxiaxinlaihou,womenyinggaishencengcisikaohunhoushenghuocunzaidewenti。shigoutongbuchangdaozhidewujiehegehe?shigongzuoyalida,rangbiciganjuepibeiyubuan?huozhedisanzhedeganshe,huihuaihunyinshenghuozhongdexinrenjichu?yidingyaozhaodaowentidehexin,cainenggouyouzhenduixingdizhidingwanhuicelve。
3. chengrencuowu,yongyudandangzeren
zaifansiguochengzhong,ruguonijuedetayeyouzuodebuduidediqu,tanranmianduihuotuixiezeren。jiandingbuyidechengrencuowu,xianglianrenbiaodanidekuijiuhehuigaizhiyi。shuji,zhenchengshiwanhuihunyindeguanjianyinsu,zhiyouranglianrenkanjiannidezhenchenghexinxin,caixinganqingyuanweiniyigegaiguozixindehaoshiji。
anli:“zheiyiduanshijianwoyizhizaisikaozheiduanganqing,woganjuezijizaigegefangmiandouzuodebugouhao。biru,wohulvelenidexinqing,meiyourangnichongpeideguanxinhezhichi。wozhendecuole,woyuanyigaizheng,xiwangninengjiwoyigejihui。”
方法二:重建交流与沟通,打开相互之间的心弦
1. zhaodaoshihezijidejiaoliuyugoutongjihuiyuziranhuanjing

chuguizenmewanhuihunyinlaogong,hezuowanhuihunyinchuangkou,danzhaodaoshihezijidejiaoliuyugoutongjihuiyuziranhuanjingzhiguanzhongyao。baozhengzailianrenqingxuguojihuoxinliqiaocuishixianghujiaoliu,zheiyangrongyirangqingkuangbiandegengzao。xuanzeyigebicixintaifeichanghao、xiangduiqingsongdeyike,biruzhoumodewuhouhuowanshangdesansanbu,zaiyigeanjing、shushidehuanjingzhongxianghujiaoliu。
2. yong“wo”yuyanbiaodanenglibiaodazijideganshouhexuqiu
zaigoutongshi,jinliangbimianshiyongxunchihuogongjinengliyuyanbiaodanengli,zheiyangrongyirangqinglvganjuefangyuhedichu。xiangfan,yong“wo”yuyanbiaodanenglibiaodazijideganshouhexuqiu,biru“wozhendehengudan,yinweiyuanninengduopeibanhaiziwo”,bingfei“nizonghushiwo,genbenbuzaihuwo”。neibandebiaodafangshihainengranglianrentiliangnideneixinshijie,tishengxianghuzhijiandelejiegongming。
3. qingtinglingyibandeshengyin,jiyulijiehezhichi
jiaoliuyugoutongshishuangxiangde,bujinyaobiaodazijideganshouhexuqiu,haiyaoqingtinglingyibandeshengyin。weitachongyushijianyukongjianbiaodaguandianhetihui,bukeyiduankaihuopobujidaizhengbian。yongyanshenyushentiyuyanbiaodanenglinidexihuanyulejie,rangtaganshoudaonidedalizhichihebaorong。
anli:“wozhidaozuijinwomenzhengzhongjianyouhenduowuhuihegehe,woxianghenihaohaoliaoyiliao。xianshuochunidexiangfahetihuiba,wokeyiyongxinquganshoude。”
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