zenmewanhuiganqinghunyinwenti,zaiaiqingshijieli,womendoucengmangran,doucengjingxinteng。dangyiduanyiqianchiredeaiqingmanmanjianwen,shenzhimianlinpoliedebianyan,womenyinggaizenmewanliu?zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi,womenjiangdainiyiqitanxunwanhuiaiqingdeguanjiansuozai,yucitongshijieluzheixiefeichangrongyimairudeleiqu,shinideganqingdeluzaicizhanfangguangcai。
一、挽留前自我反省:了解自己,才能更好的挽留

1. zhimianwenti,buhuibi
wanliudediyibu,bingbushijiqiequlianxiduifang,ershizhijiejingxialai,renqingnimendeguanxinanti。shigoutongbudaowei?shixinrenqueshi?huoshishenghuosuosuijileixialaidefenqi?zhiyouzhaodaowentidebenzhi,cainengshibangongbei,fangzhilumangxingshi。
2. fanshengziwo,tishengziji
fenshouwanhuiyiqian,xianwenziji:woshifouyeyouzuodebugouhaodequyu?shibushiyounaxiexiguanhexingweinengrangduifangbiaoshibuman?genjusikao,xunzhaozishendebuzu,bingnulitishengziwo。bulunshineizaixiuyanghuoshizishenxingxiang,dourangzijibiandegengjiachuse。
3. diaozhengqingxu,baochilixing
wanhuiaiqingbushiyicuerjiudeshier,xuyaoshijianhexixin。fenshouwanhuihuanjiezhong,baochilixinghelianghaodexintaiyouweizhongyao。bieyinyishideshiluoganerfangqile,qianwanbuyaoyinweiduifanglengdanersangshilizhi。
二、挽留过程的雷区:避开这些,让挽留更加顺利
1. leiquyi:sipilailian,shiquzunyan
wanliubingbushiqiuqi,yebushisipilailian。yiweidijiuchanbuqinglingyifang,zhihuirangduifangyufadichu,naizhijiakuaidajialianxideliekai。jilao,ganqingbushikenqiude,fanershixiyinlaide。baochizhuzizun,yongshijixingdongzhengmingzijishiyongjiazhi。

anlifenxi:xiaozhaozaiwanhuinvyoushi,meiriyejilingyifangfajishitiaoxiaoxi,naizhipaojinlingyifangqiyeloudixiadenghou。jielun,qianrennvyoubudanmeiyouhehaoruchu,fandaoyanjuan,zuizhonglaheishanchulexiaolidesuoyoulianxifangshi。
2. leiquer:guoduofuwuchengnuo,qianquexingwei
fenshouwanhuihuanjiezhong,haoduorenfeichangrongyizuochu“guoduofuwuchengnuo”cuowu。weilenenghonghuita,takenenghuijiangchuxuduohaowuyiyidefuwuchengnuo,danwangwangquefashentilixing。zheizhongxingweizhihuirangduifangrenweinibukekao,gengjiandinglikainidexinxin。
zhengquedezuofa:fenshouwanhuishi,jinliangbuyaoxuxianuoyan。ruguoshizaiyouxuyaogaijindedifang,jiujingjingdilaigaibian,yongshijixingdonglaizhengmingzijideyongqihegenggai。
3. leiqusan:qingxubengkui,shanghaitaren
wanliuhuanjiezhong,qingxudeguanliyouweizhongyao。jiaruniyinweibierendelengdanhuojujueerqingxubengkui,youkuyounao,naizhieyanxiangxiang,neiyangwanliudegailvjiuliaoliaowujile。youyuzheizhongxingweizhihuirangduifanggengweihaipaheshuyuanni。
xintaiguanlijineng:fenshouwanhuihuanjiezhong,dongdekongzhihaozijideqingxu。danggandaofennuhuoyayishi,xianshenxiqi,rangzijilengjingxialai。huozhezhaoqinqipengyouqingtu,huoshijiaqiangyundong、lvyoudengfangshilaihuanjieyali。
4. leiqusi:hulvetarenganjue,qiangrensuonan

wanliubingbushidanfangmiangerenxingwei,fanershixuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendou。jiarunifenshouwanhuiquanguochengshangzhikaolvdaozijidexiangfa,hulvebierendexiangfayuxuqiu,neimejiusuanyigerenzuodezaihao,yewufachudongduifangdexin。
zhengquedezuofa:fenshouwanhuishi,duosheshenchudidedulisikao,zhangwoduifangdeganshouyuxuqiu。genjujiaoliugoutong,xunzhaobicidounengjieshoudejiejuefangfa。
三、挽回爱情的关键所在:努力去做,让爱情回归
1. qiaomenyi:tanchengjiaoliu,changkaixinfei
hezuoshiwanhuiaiqingdechuangkou。genjuzhenxinshiyi、tanchengdejiaoliu,dajiakeyigenghaodelejiebicizhijiandexiangfaheyaoqiu,xunzhaowentidebenzhi,binggongtongxunqiujiejuefangan。
goutongdejiqiao:zaigoutongdeshihou,baochilizhihelixing,fangzhiqingxuhuayanyu。yongpingjingdekouqibiaodaguandianhetihui,yucitongshilingtinglingyifangdejianyi。fangzhichizeheweiqu,duoduoguanzhuwentijiejue。
2. qiaomener:gaibianxianzhuang,tishengxiyinli
wanhuiaiqingbujinjinzhishiwanhuiqianren,yeshiweiletigaoziji。tongguodiaojiezishenxingxiang、xiguanxing、siweimoshideng,ninengbiandegengyouxiuyuyouyouhuoli。neiyang,budanhuirangduifangkanjiannidediaozhenghefazhan,yenengrangnizishengengyouzixinyukuaile。
zhuanhuanfangxiang:genjuzijideqingkuang,zhidingyigeqieshikexingdegaibianjihua。nengcongzishenxingxiangzhujian,liruhuangefaxing、maijitaoxinyifu;haikeyicongneizaixiuyangxiashou,liruxuexixinjineng、peiyuxinxingquaihaodeng。
3. qiaomensan:zhizaojihui,cujinganqing
zenmewanhuiganqinghunyinwenti,wanhuiaiqingbixuzhizaojihuilaicujinlianggerendeganqing。nengtongguogongtongdepengyou、shejiaowangluo、qiaoyudengfangshilaichuangzaojihui,nengrangduifangkanjiannidediaozhenghechengxin。yucitongshi,haikeyizaiheshideshijianyaoyuelingyifangyiqicanjiayixiehuodonghuolvyou,tigaobicidelejieyuqinggan。
zhizaojihuidebanfa:guanxinlingyifangdongtaihua,lejietadexingquyuaihao。zaiduifangyoukongyushijianshi,mingquetichuyiqizuoyixieyouqudeshi,lirukandianshiju、guangjiegouwu、huodongdeng。yekeyiyaoqinglingyifangcanyunijuhuihuodonghuohuodong,rangtaganshoudaoniderechenchengxin。
4. qiaomensi:duoyidiannaixin,qieerbushe
wanhuiaiqingshiyigemanzhangmanzhangdeguocheng,xuyaonaixinyujianchi。bieyinyishideshiluoganerfangqile,qianwanbuyaoyinweiduifanglengdanershiquzixin。weiyoujianchijianchibuxiedenuli,caiyoukenengchudongduifangdexin。
duoyidiannaixindebanfa:weizijizhidingyigewanliufangan,bingshedingyouxiaodemubiaoheshijianfanwei。fenshouwanhuihuanjiezhong,chixujizijidaqi,weichilianghaodexintai。yucitongshi,yeyaodongdejieshouduifangfanyinghequeding,bieqiangqiujielun。
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