aiqingpoliezenmewanhuihunyin,hunyinshenghuo,conglaidoubushiyichangwanmeiwuquedetonghuagushi。zheishiyouyanjiangculidemoheqi,doushikekebanbanlidefazhan。dangganqingchuxianwentishi,buyongjiqiefourenzheiduanganqing,ershiyinggaizhaodaogenghaodefangshi,rangaizaicihuiguizhenggui。xialieqigefangshi,yexunenggoubangzhunizhengjiumianlinkunjingdehunyinshenghuo。
1. 倾听,了解别人的感受

xuduofenqidegenbenyuanyin,bingbushichanshengfenqi,fanershiyouyuqueshaolejie。ruguonizongshijiqiebiaodazijidexiangfa,hushilebierendeganshou,nantizhinengyuegunyueda。
changshizaizhengbianshianxiazantingjian,xianlingtingbierendexiangfa,huifutadeqingxu,erfeijizhequbianbo。liru,ruguoduifangshuo“woganjuezijibuhuibeizaihu”shi,yuqishuoshi“wobingbushizheimexiangde”,bibushanghuifu“womingbainiyouzheiyangdetiyan,wohenbaoqianrangzijiyouneizhongganjue”。qingtingshigoutongjiaoliudediyibu,doushijiejuemaodundezhongyaoqiaoliang。
2. 学会放下“胜负”,别让婚姻变成试炼场
hunyinshenghuoconglaidoubushishengfudebipin,fanershilianggerengongtongjiejuewentideguocheng。
zaichaojiashi,bunengrangshuyingbianchengzongtimubiao,ershiyinggaizhuanzhuyuchuliwenti。jiaruweileyingdeyicizhengzhieryanlidajilingyifang,zuihoushiqudedongxishiaiqing。biru,dangzhengzhi“sheiyingdangshuawan”shi,bibushanghuanyizhongyudiao:“jintianwolaizuojiawuhuo,ninengxiuxiyixia。”wenroudixintaiyuanyuanbiqiangyingzhenglungengrongyirangshuangfangdachengyizhi。
3. 注重仪式感,让感情再次提温
changshiweibicizhunbeiyixiexiaolangman,liruzaiputongdeyitianweitazuoyidaoyouqicai,huoshizaijinianrixieyizhangshouxiexin。hainenggoufanganyiciduantulvyou,zhuiyichuyudelangman。jiusuanzhishiyigexiaoxiaodexiangyonghuoshiyijuzhenxinshiyidezanmei,douhuiranghunyinshenghuoduoyifenwennuanyutianmei。
4. 分担相应责任,是彼此的合伙人
hunyinbushiyigerendedujiaoxi,fanershilianggerengongtongyunyingde“hehuozhiqiye”。

jiawuhuofenpai、jingjiguihua、haizijiaoyu,zheixieshiruguoyifangyizhichengdangengduo,shijianjiuleziranjiuhuileijibumanyi。yiner,hebufenpeimeirirenwu,bayalifentankai。biru,“zhoumojiawuhuowomenkeyiyiqijinxing,yeliyiqizuodunjiandandewancan。”gongtongchengdan,jikeyihuanjieyali,yekeyicujinganqing。
5. 接受另一方自身的缺点,学会宽容
zaihunyinshenghuozhong,meirenjueduiwanmei。suosuishenghuodexianshishenghuozhong,xuduorenderuodianhewentiyishibukedongyao,biruyouderenmenzongshiwangdiaoxideng,youderenxihuanluandiuyifu。zheixiequediankanqilailingsui,quejianghuichengweishenghuodangzhong“fenqigaobeifangdajing”。
aiqingpoliezenmewanhuihunyin,danyuqishuogenggailingyifang,bibushangchangshijieshoulingyifangzishendequedian。liru,tazonghuiluanduiwupin,neinikeyititazhunbeiyixiezhenglihe;jiarutahuashao,hebujieshoutadechenmowuyan,bagengduodeshijianliujizijidexingquaihao。hunyinshenghuodexingfukuaile,congbudoushijiyujizhiyishang,fanershikuanrongbuwanzhengdeconghui。
6. 保持独立,让爱维持呼吸感
hunyinxuyaoqinmiwujian,yeyaoshuligan。guofenyilaihekongzhihuishihunyinshenghuoyuelaiyueyayigan,shidudedandufandaokeyirangguanliangengyoudanxing。
weichigerenxingquaihao,jibiciyixieduchushineikongjian。liru,tahenxihuandalanqiu,ninengchenzheigejihuiyaoshangpengyouyiqihexiawucha。yongyouzijishejiaoquanzihejingshencengmian,bujinrangnigengyoujingzhengli,yenengrangduifanggewaizhenxini。
7. 坚持不懈深度交流,让感情保持恒温

hunyinlidelengdan,wangwangshicongsangshigoutongjiaoliukaishi。duomangdeshenghuozhuangtai,yeyaoweilingyifangliuxiayiduan“huihuashizhang”。
meirijiduifangshifenzhong,liaoyiliaoshenghuoqushi、renshengguihua,naizhizhishiyiju“jinriniguodezenmeyang?”zheizhongxiaogoutongjiaoliu,yekeyizaibuzhibujuezhongzengjinbicidejuli。shendujiaoliubingbushifanzadetanpan,fanershinaixinqingting,yiaihuifu。
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