家庭破裂怎么挽回婚姻

　　jiatingpoliezenmewanhuihunyin，qishiwozijiyouqilijiezheizhongjinghuang——dangyiduanganqingyaosangshishi，dajiazongshixiangzheyizuizhijiedefangshibiaodazaiyi，kewangwangshi“wobunengmeiyouni”zheihua，bianchengwanliulushangdebanjiaoshi。zuoweizhongyuanhunyinzixunshijingyingtuanduideyiyuan，dajiajianguohenduowanhuizhangfuerqieyongshuocuoshu，balaogongtuigenggaogengyuandelizi，yejianzhengguohenduoyongyouzizunxindegoutongjiaoliu，zaiciladaolingyifangxinshi。

　　xianzaijiuxianggendajialiaoyiliao：weihe“wobunengmeiyouni”meiyouyong?jiujingshuoxieshenme，caikeyijibaoliuzizun，yourangzhangfuxiangyaohuiguotou?

　　01 先弄懂：“我不能没有你”，究竟错在哪?

　　yougeguniangxiaoting，helaogongwanhun 7 nian，shangnianzhangfushiyinweijuede“lianggerenyulaiyumeiyouhuashuo”mingquetichufenli。xiaotingneishihouhunshendoukuadiaole，meirijizhangfufajishitiaoxinxi，dianhuaneitoufanlaifanqubianshi“wobunengmeiyouni，meiyouniworuhehuo”“nihuilaihaobuhao，woshenmedoutingnide”。

　　kejieguo?zhangfuyikaishihaihuihuiying“buyaozheiyang，dajializhixia”，zhihoulijibuhuixinxi、dadianhuabujie，naizhibanquleqinqijia。xiaotinglaizhaowomenshi，yanjingfuzhongdegenhetaoren：“wohaineimebeiweile，tazenmebuxintengwoni?”

　　qishibingbushizhangfuyebuxinteng，fanershi“wobunengmeiyouni”zheihua，chuandadecongbushizaihu，fanershidiweiganyuyilaigan。

　　congnanrenxinlilaishuo，dangtatingjian“wobunengmeiyouni”shi，diyifanyingbushi“tahaoxihuanwo”，fanershi“talikaiwobianhuobuxiaqu”。zheizhongrenzhihuishunjianjianshaotaduiyuganqingdeaixidu——rutongzhumingqingxuqingganzixunshi、fuhedashimaikeleigesuojiangde，rendebenxingbenjian，renduichuishoukede、libulezishenderenyushi，huishaoleyifenjingweizhixinhezaihu，huibuzuaixi。

　　gengzhuyaodeshi，“wobunengmeiyouni”huijiangwanliudezhudaoquanchedijiaodaolingyifang。nixiangdangyuzaijiang：“wodexingfu、woderensheng，douyouzijijueding。”gezhongyali，fanerhuirangbenjiuyao“taochu”dezhangfugengpaichi——tamenhuijuede，jishihuiguotou，niyijiushilibukaideren，yiqiandenantiyagenmeiyoujiejue，faneryaodanfuqi“zhaoliaonideyisheng”dezhongren。

　　zhongyuanhunyinzixunshijingchangshuo：“wanliudeguanjianzaiyuxiyinzhu，bingbushikenqiu。”kenqiudemeiyouaiqing，shitadelianmin，kelianminzhichengbulezhangjiudehunyin;zhiyourangtazhongxinkanjiannideshiyongjiazhi，bataxiyinzhu，tacaihuijijixuyaopeizainishenbian。

　　02 记牢这三句体面地得话，比“我不能没有你”有用十倍!

　　henduonvshengkenenghuishuo：“wojiuxiangyaozuogaoyanzhiwanhuizhangfu，keshijiyinggaishuoshenmeni?”buyaozheji，jiehewomenzhongyuanhunyinzixunshifengfudejingyan，zheisanjuhua，jibaoliulenidezunyan，younengjingzhunchuansong“nibuduanbianhua”“zheifenganqinghaiyouxiwang”xinhao，dajiakeyigenjuqingkuangdiaozhengyingyong。

　　diyiju：renkenanti + biaoshuxiwang——“womingbaibicizhijianyoushenmewenti，wohaizaigai，yaoshiniyuanyizaijiyicijihui，wojianxinwomenkeyibiandegenghao。”

　　zheijuhuaguanjian，shi“buhuibiwenti，bubiandiziji”。

　　jiatingpoliezenmewanhuihunyin，henduonvshengfenshouwanhuishi，yaobuyiweichizezhangfu：“quanshinibuzhaoguwo，womencaihuizoudaozheiyibu!”yaobuyiweiziwohuaiyi：“shiwobuhao，wogai，nibielikaiwo!”zheijizhongdoubukexing——qianmianyizhonghuiranghaizijuedeni“manhengwuli”，houmianyizhonghuiranghaizijuedeni“meiyoudixian”。

　　er“womingbaibicizhijianyoushenmewenti”，shilixingkandaizheiduanganqingdefenqi，bingbushibaguoquantuijibici，bingbushijiangzijijiangdeyiwushichu;“wohaizaigai”，shichuansong“wohaizaijijichuliwenti”xinhao，rangtamingbainiyebushihuishuo，ershizhendewomenzaixingdong;“yaoshiniyuanyizaijiyicijihui，wojianxinwomenkeyibiandegenghao”，naishijiletayige“jijizhudongdeqiwang”，bingbushizai“bizhetahuiguotou”，ershi“qingtayiqibianhao”。

　　jiuxiangzhiqianyougeguniang，zhangfushiyinweita“xingziguoji”mingquetichufenli，tashiyonglezheihuahou，zhangfuxianchangbianshuo：“woqishilejiedajiadouyounanti，kanjiannixiangyaogai，woyeyuanyishiyixia。”