hunyinweijizenmewanhuiqizi,danghunyinshenghuodehuocheshijinhunyinpoliedezhankou,fuqiliangrentongchangshenxiantongchu、mimangyubengkuidangzhong。congqiandeshengsiqikuofangfochenglemanzhangdemeihaohuiyi,mianqiandezhengzhi、lengmoshuyuanlingrengandaojiqishixi。danshi,hunyinshenghuobingbushiyichanghuibuletoulvcheng,zhiyaoshuangfangyeyouwanliudeyixiang,qingyuanfuchuqinfen,zhongyuanbingbushiyaobukejidemengxiang。xialiejiangcongduogefangmianweihunyinpoliedefufujiyuwanliuhunyindeyouxiaoshouduan。
一、直面问题,真诚沟通交流

1. yonggandemianduiaiqingliefeng
hunyinpolieburongyimomingqimiaochansheng,tatongchangshizhangqijileidemaodunhewentidequanmianbaofa。fuqiliangrenshouxianjiuyaojiandingdirenqinggezhongwenti,yonggandequmianduihuozhuangzuozhiruowangwen。keyizhaoyigeqingjing、bingmeiyouyingxiangkongjianheshijian,zuoxiayongxinhuiwanghunyinlideyidianyidi,pouxizaochenghunyinpoliejutiyuanyin。
liru,shiyouyujingjifazhanyalitaida,lianggerenzaixiaofeiguanhelicaifangfashangchanshengmaodun;huoshiyinweiqueshaoyouxiaogoutong,bicizhijiandeyaoqiuhetihuiwufadedaolejiebingmanzu;yihuozheshiyouyuchuxiandisanzhe,pohuaifufuzhijiandexinren。jinyouqueliwentidebenzhi,caikeyizhenduixingdicaiquyouxiaocuoshiyuyijiejue。
2. chuangjiantanchengdegoutongdefangshi
hezuoshihunyinshenghuodechuangkou,danghunyinpolieshi,zheizuoqiaolianghuoxuyijingjijikewei。zheishi,fuqiliangrenbixugongtongfendou,fujiantanchengdegoutongdefangshi。zaigoutongdeshihou,yaofangxiafangbeigongjidetaidu,yipingjing、lixingdetaidubiaodaguandianhetihui。
jinliangshiyongchize、bumandeyuyanbiaoda,ershiyi“wo”kaishidejuzibiaodazijideyaoqiuheqiwang。biru,bieshuo“nicongbuzhaoguwo,zhidongdemangzijigongzuo”,zhishishuo“wozuijinganjuehengudan,xiwangninenggouduohuaxieshijianpeipeiwo”。yucitongshi,yaonaixinqingtinglingyifangdejianyihekanfa,jiduifangzugoudezunzhongyulijie,buyaojizheqieduanhuobianbo。genjuzhenchengdejiaoliu,shuangfangkeyigenghaodelejiebicizhijiandeneixinshijie,xunzhaojiejuewentidegongshi。
二、重建信任,修补情感创伤
1. 诚信面对过去
jiaruhunyinpolieshiyouyuyifangquebuzhonghuoqitazhimingcuowuxingweidaozhide,neiyangchengxinmianduiguoqushizhongjianxinrendediyibu。fancuowuyifangyaoganyudichengrenzijidecuowu,buyaoqingyimanbaohuozhengbian,zheizhihuirangduifanggengweixinhanfennu。

biru,ruguoyinweiwaiyuzaochengganqingchuxianwenti,waiyufangyaozhenxinchengyijiduifangzhiqian,biaodazijiaohuiheneijiuzhixin,bingxiangximiaoshuchuguideyuanyinhetongguo。yucitongshi,yaofuwuchengnuoyihoubuhuizaifantongyangdecuo,yishijixingdonglaizhengmingzijidexinxin。
2. duixianchengnuo,yongshijixingdongzhengshi
hunyinweijizenmewanhuiqizi,xinlaidefujianbushiyicuerjiude,bixufancuowuyifangtongguozhangqidexingweilaizhengmingzijidediaozhenghechengxin。zairichangrichangshenghuo,yaoyangezunshouzishenchengnuo,baozhengyanxingyizhi。liru,jiarufuwuchengnuozhihouduohuadianshijianpeibanqinren,jiuyaohelianpaizishenshenghuohegongzuo,jinkenengjianshaobubiyaodejiaoji,zhunshihuijialehejiarenyiqichiwanfan。
jiaruchengnuohuijiuzhengziyidebaopiqi,yidingyaodongdekongzhihaozijideqingxu,zaiyudaokunnandeshihoulengjingfenxi,yongkeguandefangshijiejuenanti,erbushiyiweidinaopiqi。tongguozheigeshijixingdong,nengrangduifangmanmankanjiannidegenggai,jinerzaicigoujianqiduinidexinren。
3. jiduifangshijianyukongjian
zhongjianxinrenshiyigemanzhangjiannandeguocheng,shoushangyifangxuyaozugoudeshijianyukongjianlaizhishangxiaohuatongchu。fancuowuyifangzunzhongbierendeganshou,buyaojigongjinli,jibicishiya。
zairichangrichangshenghuo,yaojiduifangchongzudeziyousirenkongjian,nengrangduifangkeyianzhaozijidejiezoulaiguanliqingxuhexiufuguanxi。yucitongshi,yaoguanxinheaihutarendeshenghuo,danbuyaotaiguoyujiuchanbuqinghexutao,nengrangduifangkanjiannideguanhuaishiyong,youbuhuijuedeyayishixi。
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