怎么挽回感情婚姻失望

　　zenmewanhuiganqinghunyinshiwang，zaiganqingdezhangheli，womenmeigerenhaoxiangzhangwodehangshou，yihuierfeichirensheng，yihuierzaoshoufengchuiyuda。youshi，yigebuxiaoxin，henyoukenengjiuyaoaidexiaofanchuanbeililehangxian，shenzhimianlinfanfudeweixianxing。danbuyaodanxin，zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi，wojintianjiuyidingyaolaibangnizhizhizhao，jiaodajiaruhewanhuiganqing、wanjiuhunyin、wanhuiaiqing，rangzheixiekansishiqudedongxixingfukuailezaicihuidaonidehuaibao。

　　一、看清现况，直面问题

　　zuixian，nidexiangtananyiyang，xixinsikaonimenzhijiandeganqingxiankuang。shifoujinqizhengzhideduo?shifoulingyifangjianjianbiandelengmo?huoshilianggerenzhijianchuxiandisanzhe?bieduobi，bieziquqiru，zhimianwenticaisuanshijiejuewentidiyibu。

　　haoduorenyiyudaokunnanjiuxuanzechenmo，renweizhiyaomeiquyingdui，wentijiuhuizishenxiaotui。danganqingbushierxi，nantidoubuhuituranxiaoshi。niyueshiduobi，nantijiuyoukenengyuezhong，yizhidaozuihouwufamibu。yinci，yonggandequmianduiba!jiangwentibaifangzaizhuomianshang，cainengfaxianjiejuedefangfa。

　　二、理性分析，找到原因

　　xiamian，nixuyaoxiangyigexinlixuezhuanjiayiyang，lixingfenxiwentideyuanyin。shigoutongbudaowei?shigongzuoyalitaida?huoshibicizhijiandegerenaihaobuhuizaitongyang?xunzhaowentidebenzhi，cainengshibangongbei。

　　xianbiejizhedechujielun，shuo“ta/tashibuaiwole”。ganqingbushidianyuankaiguan，shuoguanshiguan。aiqingdezhuanbiantongchangyeshiyouyuanyinde，yexushinihushilebierendeganshou，henyoukenengjiushinimenshenghuojiezoubuhuizaiheyan，yeyoukenengshinimendeguanxishenmiganmeiyoule。yinci，naixinyidian，xixinzhaozhaowenti。

　　三、有效的沟通，重建信任

　　zhaochuyuanyinyihou，jiezhejiushishangliangle。goutongjiaoliubingbushizhengchao，bingbushichize，fanershixinpingqihedebiaodaguandianhetihui，yucitongshilingtinglingyifangdejianyi。

　　niqingchuma?youxieshihou，aiqingdeliekaishiyinweigoutongbudaowei。nikenengjuededuifangmeiyoutiliangni，duifanghenyoukenengjuedenibuguanxinbieren/ta。danshijishang，dajiakenengdoumeiyouzhenzhengyiyishangshuochuzijidexiangfa。yinci，youshijianle，zuoxia，liaoyiliaoba。gaosutamennideqingxu，tingyitingbierendexiangfa，yexunimenjiuhuifaxian，yuanxianlianggerendouhaishineiyangzaiyilingyifang。

　　zenmewanhuiganqinghunyinshiwang，zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，zhongjianxinrenshifeichangzhongyaode。zhiyaoduifangyinweiyixieyuanyinduizijideshiquxinlai，neimenijiuyaoyishijixingdonglaizhengmingzijidediaozhenghechengxin。biezhishuobuzuo，xingweibiyancigengyouxiaoguo。

　　四、改变现状，提升魅力

　　niqingchuma?youshi，aiqingdekunjingqishishiyigetishengzijidehaojihui。ninengkeyijiecijihui，gaibianxianzhuang，tigaozijidemeili。

　　biejuedezijiyijinggouhaola，meirenjueduiwanmei。nikeyixuexindejineng，tigaozijidezhuanyesuyang;nikeyiduanlianshenti，weichiqiangjiandetipo;ninengyuedugengduodeshu，chongshizijideneixinshijie。dangwomenbiandeyuelaiyuehaoshi，nijiuhuifaxian，yuanxianlingyifangtongyangzaiqiaoqiaodegenggai，nimendeganqingyebiandeyuelaiyuenonghoule。

　　bingqie，gaibianxianzhuangbujinjinzhishiwanhuiqianren，yeshiweilezishen。napazuihoubingmeiyouwanliuqudechenggong，neiniyeshouhuoleyigezuihaodeziji。zheibingbushiyijianhenfeichangzhidedeshima?