婚姻怎么样挽回

　　hunyinzenmeyangwanhui，zaiganqingdezhangheli，hunyinjiushizheizuobeifuzhexiwangyumengxiangdechuangkou。danshi，suiyueyunzhuan，reqingyexuhuituise，congqiandehuayanqiaoyuyoukenengbeirichangdelingsuisuoyangai，hunhoushenghuoyoushihourongyixianruyipianlengdandehuangye。danbiehaipa，woqinaidepengyou，zuoweidajiadezimeitiqinggandashi，wojintianjiuyaodaidajiazouchuyitiaoconglengdandaolangmandeguangmingdadao，yongsanbuzouzhanlve，jiaonimenzenmewanhuineiyifenjianxingjianyuandehunyinshenghuo。

　　1. 了解婚姻生活的“冷冻期”

　　meiduanhunyindoukenengzaoyu“lengdongqi”，rutongdongtianlideshuimian，biaomiankansipingjingwubo，qishishuizhonganchaoyongdong。zheiyijieduan，fuqizhijiandegoutongjiaoliujiangdi，qinmiganqueshao，naizhiyiduhuaiyidangchudexuanze。danjizhu，lengzangbingbushishenwang，qishizhishihunyinshenghuoshengmingqizhongdeyigelinshiqingkuang，shikeyiyongqinfenronghuadiaode。

　　2. 敢于迈出第一步

　　pobingzhilv，jiushiyouxierenxianmaichuneiyibu。biedengdaolingyifangxianzhangkou，yinweikenengta/tadengzheni。zhaoyigebujingyijiandeyishunjian，liruwancanhousanbu，huozhelibaitiandewuhou，huanhuandeshuoyiju：“zuijinganjuewomensihujianjianshuyuanxuduo，wojuedeliaoyiliao，dajiajuedeni?”zheihua，rutongchunrizhongdeyilvaiyang，nengjianjiandironghuaxintoudefengxue。

　　3. 聆听比说更为重要

　　hunyinzenmeyangwanhui，pobingzhilvyihou，jiezheshishendujiaoliu。jilao，cike，erduolimianbizuigengweizhongyao。yongxinqingtingbierendexiangfa、bumanyinaizhimaiyuan，buyaojizhebianbohuofanbo。youshi，dajiazhishiyaobeitingdao，beirenlijie。ruguonizhenxinchengyilingtingshi，lingyifangnengkanjiannidechengxinziwogaibiandexintai，zheiyeshizhongjianxinrendediyibu。