怎么挽回婚姻不要离婚

　　zenmewanhuihunyinbuyaolihun，zaiqinmiguanxizhong，qiangyingdelaopokenengmianlinzhuduotiaozhan。guoduzhangkongyu、zhanyouyuyijiquefajingshencengmiandelejie，douhuihuihuaifuqizhijiandexinlai，shenzhikenengdaozhifuqiganqingpolie。danshi，zhiyaoshuangfangyirancunzaiqingyi，youyixianglaigaibianheyouhua，wanhuizhangfubingfeibukenengwanchengderenwu。yixiajiushiyixiefanganheliucheng，weiqianghanlaopojiyuwanhuiaiqingdegonglve。

　　一、自我反省与改变

　　zhenduiqiangyingdelaopoeryan，ziwofanshengshishifenzhongyaodediyibu。xuyaozixishenshizijidegerenxingweihexingwei，shibushiguoyuqiangshi，shibushijilaogongzugoudeshijianyuzunzhong，shibushizaijingshenshangjiyushiyong。genggaibujinshiduilaogongzunzhong，qishishiweileweihubaoyangjiatingdehexie。bixugaibianzijicaozonggerenxingwei，jilaogonggengduoziyouxuanzedequanli，zhongshitadexiangfahequeding。

　　二、创建有效的沟通

　　qianghanlaopokenengzaigoutongzhongjilaogongguoduogongzuoyali，huoshihushitamendeganshouyuxuqiu。weilenengwanhuizhangfu，xuzhongxinshulilianghaodeyuyangoutongjiqiao。duoqingtinglaogongdexiangfaheganshou，lejietadeyaoqiuhexiwang，rangtaganshoudaobeizunzhongyulijie。yucitongshi，yexuyaobiaodaguandianhetihui，ranglaogongzhangwozijidelichangheqiwang。

　　三、提高情感沟通

　　zenmewanhuihunyinbuyaolihun，qianghanlaopohenyoukenenghushilejingshencengmiandehudongjiaoliu，zheiyanghuishilaogongjuedebeishoulengluo。weilenengwanhuizhangfu，bixutigaojingshencengmiandehudongjiaoliu，liruduotilianglaogongderichangshenghuo、shenghuohegongzuo，duocanyutadezhutihuodong，duoyiqijinxingyouqudehudong。yucitongshi，haikeyitongguolangmanfangfa，ruqinmideguanxihuihua、xiangyong、jiewendeng，tigaofuqizhijiandeqingganlianxi。

　　四、创建共通的个人爱好

　　gongtongdegerenaihaoshizengqiangfuqizhijianqingganlianxidezhongyaoshouduan。keyishizhexunzhaogongtongdegerenaihao，huoshiyiqixunqiuxindegerenaihao。zheibujinkeyitigaofuqizhijiandeqinmigan，haikeyigaishanfuqizhijiandeguanlian。