zenmewanhuihunyinzuihao,dajiazaihunyinshenghuozhongjiaruchanshengfenqihuozhengzhi,nengrangzijixianpingjingxialai,niyinggaizhidaoqishizheiyeshiyouqizhengchangdehezirandeshiqing。niyongbuzheyouyuhunyindangzhongchulewenti,jiujiqiefourenzheiduanganqing,yebuyaojizhefourenairen。hunyinlichanshengfenqi,daduoshiyinweifuqiliangrenjianyiheyishibutongyisuozaochengde。neiyang,zenyangcainengzhengquejiejuehunyinlidefenqini?zhei5gexiaojiqiao,keyibangniqingqingsongsongjiejue。
1、维持足够的交流沟通。

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jiarufuqijianzhangqiquefagoutongjiaoliu,neiyangzaiganqingliduijiwentihefenqibianhuisuizhizengjia。jiarulianggerenzhijianchuxianrenhefenqi,liru,duihaizidejiaoyunantichanshengmaodun,liru,duipoxiguanxijuedekunhuo,zheixiemaodundajiadouyaotongguolijidejiaoliulaihuajie。haizidejiaoyunanti,dajiakeyixianghuzunzhong,zhixuchufadianshiweilehaizihao,jiunengdadaotongyidejianyi。fuqijianzaijiaoyuhaizideshihou,yaogesiqizhi,yigebanhonglian,yigebanbailian。zhenduipoxiguanxi,nanshengyaodongdeqiadangjiejue,bubigucishibi,yaojinkenengyiwanshuiduanping。
2、有理有据,不必提过去。
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zaifashengzhengzhishi,dajiazhenduifenqixingchengdeyuanyinxunzhaohuajiemaodundefangfa。dajiayaobaguanzhudezhongdianfangdaojiejuemaodunshang,erfeitiguoqu,lairenaoairen,ranghunyinshenxiangengweigangadejingdi。danglianggerenzhaodaofenqixingchengdeyuanyin,ranhouduizhengzhiliao,jiunenghenhaodijiejuemaodun,rangnimenzhijiandeganqingdedaoxiubu。
3、各退一步,不必争锋相对。
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zaihunyindangzhong,jiarufuqijianfashengmaodun,yingdangxianghulijie。buyaotaijijiao。dangninengkuanronglingyibandequedianyubuzu,jiuhuifaxianshijishangzheiduanganqingyeyouwanliudekongjian。ruguoniduilingyibanjuedezuiwuzhudeshihou,nimenzhijiandeganqingziranjiuhuibenkui。
4、关起门化解矛盾,不要惊动双方家长。

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zaihunyinshenghuozhong,fuqijianchuxianrenhefenqidouyingyoufuqiliangrenquhuajie,dajiabuyaojingdongshuangfangjiazhang。tianxiafumuxingenzijidezinvyoutongyitiaoxin。babamamajiaruchanhenimenzhijiandeganqingyuaiqing,neinimenderizijiushiqulepingjing,yuelaiyuejiquanbuning,huishinimenzhijiandeganqingzaoyugengduofenqiyutiaozhan。
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