婚姻修复：婚姻怎么去挽回

　　hunyinzenmequwanhui，zaizheiyangyigekuaijiezoushidai，hunyinshenghuohaoxiangyeshiyuelaiyuemingan。congqiandeshengsiqikuo，kenenghuizaishenghuozhongdesuoshiyuyalidechongjixia，zhujianbiandemohu，naizhimaixiangliekai。dannizhidaoma?jibianlihun，yebingbuyiweizheyiqiejiucizhongjie。ruguohaiaizheqiannanyou，qipanzhongxindianranneiyifencongqiandereqing，neiyang，benwenbianshiniburongcuoguode“wanjiuhunyinshouce”。

　　一、认清离婚实际，但别陷入其中

　　zuixian，womenyinggaimingbaiyigedaoli：liyi，shiliangrenzaimouyishike，youyugezhongyuanyin，xuanzejieshufuqiguanxidegerenxingwei。ruguotachongmanzhetongchu、quehan，danshiyeshiyigexindekaishi。nibunengyizhichenjinyulihunyinmaizhong，yuantianyouren，huoshiduiairenchongchizhezenghen。zheiyangdetaidu，huirangniliwanjiuhunyinmubiaoyuezouyueyuan。

　　fangfa1：mianduixianshi，diaozhengqingxu

　　renqingqingxu：chengrenzijitongkuyushiwang，danbuyaorangtamenzuonishenghuodequanbu。

　　leguanmiandui：baliyikanzuoshiyigechengzhangdejihui，yigezhongxinshenshiziji、tigaozijidetupokou。

　　baochikaixin：xiangxinweilailangsonghaidedaogenghaodehenyoukeneng，baohanyuqianrenfuhedekenengxing。

　　二、思考婚姻中的问题，寻找问题所在

　　meiyouwuyuanwugudelihun，meiyiduanhunyindeliekai，douyoutashencengcideyuanyin。youkenengshigoutongbudaowei、jingjifudan、disanzheganyu，huozhesanguanbuhe。nixiangwanhuihunyinshenghuo，jiubixuxianxunzhaozheileiwentiwentisuozai，cainengshibangongbei。

　　fangfa2：shencengcisikao，zhenchengdaoqian

　　hunyinzenmequwanhui，ziwofansi：tanrandiwenziji，hunyinliniyounaxiezuodebugouhaodequyu?shihushilebierendeganshou，huoshitaiguoziwohexin?

　　jiaoliuyugoutong：ruguokeyidehua，heqianrenjinxingyicizhenchengdeduitan，lejieta/taduihunyindekanfa，yijita/zaitakanlaiwentichuzainali。

　　zhenchengdaoqian：duizijideguoshi，bunengtaobi，yaoganyudirenke，bingwangqianrenbiaodanideqianjiuziwogaibianjuexin。

　　三、展示你的更改，让其/他看见你的不一样

　　zhiqianzhishidiyibu，zhenzhengdegaibiancaishizhongdian。nixuyaoyishijixingdonglaiyanzheng，nijiuyijingbuzaishineigerangqi/tashangxinderenla。bulunshixingqingshangdebuzu，huoshishenghuofangshilideqianjia，douxuyaonulidequjiuzheng。

　　fangfa3：shentilixing，zhanxiangenggai

　　tishengziji：baomingyixietishengzijikechengneirong，lirugoutongdejiqiao、qingxukongzhi、caiwuguanlideng，rangzijibiandegengjiachuse。

　　genggaishenghuofangshi：jiaruqiannanyoumaiyuanguonilalilata、buzhuzhong，neijiukaishizhongshiqingjieweisheng，weichijiajujiajuganjingzhengjie，chengxianyigequanxindeni。

　　jijizhudongshejiaomeiti：canyuyixiexiuxianhuodong，tuokuanzijideshixian，shita/takanjiannirengranyouqizhi，yourenjijiaowangnengli。