挽回婚姻：破坏婚姻怎么挽回

　　pohuaihunyinzenmewanhui，neihaizhendeshixuanduileren!wanjiuhunyin，cujinshangtandadaomude，zheinandaobushiworichanggongzuoma?suirandabufenhunyinxiufuanzi，tanpanmudibingbushizhenzhengdeweilenengliyi，danhenduoshihouhunyinshenghuodezoushitongchangsuizhuguanxinglaiding，yeyouhenduorenqidaizaishejiliyidetanpanshang，bubichidakui，huodezishenyingde。jinrijidajiazongjieyitaoguanjiandeshuoci，“liyi”shangtankanzheigeyipianjiuxingle!

　　1、摆正心态，不要成为情感上的俘获。

　　zhuzhongzijidexiangfa，erfeichizelaogong。yekeyishuo：

　　“zheiyiduanshijianyouyuliyi，woxianglelexuduo，xinqingyumen，shiyubujia，yewanshangshuibuhao……”

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　　2、恰当地发觉老公的个性薄弱环节，针对性地处理问题。

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　　3、彼此妥协，保证对方有看望儿女的支配权。

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