zenmewanhuinverhunyin,dangnidelingyibanjijijinitilihun,zheitongchangyiweizheyouliangzhongqingkuang:yishitajuedenicunzaizhongdananti,jitaderenshengdailailejidafengxianxing;ershitayijingzhaodaolegengjiahaodetidaipin,weiliyizuozuzhunbei。mianduizheiyangdeqingkuang,ruguonixiangyaowanjiuhunyin,zhuyaoyoulianggequantaojueduibunengcai:
圈套一:强势抵御,但又苟且偷安

danglaogongtichulihunshi,niruozhishiqiangshidishuodao“butaikenengli”,danyoubingmeiyougenbenxingdegenggaiyuxingdong,zheiyangdetaidubujinwufachuliwenti,fanerhuishitayinniqiangyingtaiduerzuochuyixiebuyiyuguanlianxiubudecuoshi。niyexuhuizaiyiduanchongchizhejinzhangyudiyidehunyinshenghuozhongzhengzhamanzhangsuiyue,zuihoudejieguoyijiushiliyi,qiequanguochenggengweitongchu。
圈套二:过多低声下气,恳求式挽留
lingyizhongbuzhengquedeqingxudiaojieshiguoduodiweidikenqiulaogongbuyaoliqu,fuwuchengnuojiuzhengsuoyoudebuzhengque,naizhiyihaizimingyikukuwanliu。zheizhongxingweifanerhuirangzhangfugengjiajianxinliquniyeshichedikexuehelide,juedenishiyigedijiazhi、qianquezizunxindenvxingpengyou。yaojizhu,zhenzhengdeaiqingbunengtongguokenqiudedaode,jiusuannilinshiwanjiulehunyinshenghuo,zheiyewuyishiyifengxianzijizizunweidaijiadedizizunqingkuang,zheihuiduishuangfangwuli。
neiyang,yingduilaogongtichulihun,daodiyingdangruhejinxinghelideshangtan,yiqiuwanjiuhunyinni?yixiashuyuyitaoshijidecaozuobuzhou:
diyibu:jijijianyilengqueqi
zailaogongtichulihundezaoqi,niyingzhudongyaoqiusheliyigelengqueqi,bingfeibeidongjienaxijiuminzhengjusuotigongdelengqueqi。
ninengduitashuo,niduitadequedinggandaojingya,xuyaoshijianqusikaoyulejie,yexiwangtanenggoushenzhongkaolvliyiduizheigejiating(baohanxiaohai、babamama)chanshengdeyingxiang。jibiantashengchengyiqiedouyizhunbeituodang,neiniyeyingzunxunzijidelichang,zhuzhonglihunshilianggerendeshiqing,bukeyiguangpingtayirenquedingjiucangcukaizhan。
dierbu:shencengcipouxiwentigenyuan
zenmewanhuinverhunyin,yunyonglengqueqi,womenxuyaoquanliyifudipouxihunyinshenghuowentidebenzhi。zhuyaobaokuojianchazishenquedian、zhenglilianggerenzhijianzhangqicunzaidemaodunyuchongtu、jianbieyinqizhengzhideyinanwentixingye、pingdingbicidegexingjiben、fenbianduifangkenengdechuguimubiaodeng。zheishiyigexuyaonaixinyuxixindiquanguocheng,niyinggaixiangtananyiyang,yidianyididifajueanjianxiansuo,zhujianpinzounantidequanjing,zhangwofuqiganqingpoliedezhenshiyuanyin。

disanbu:zhidingbingshishitupoduice
zaizuowanwentipouxihou,niyinggaigenjufenxishujuzhidingzhenduixingdetupoduice。zheihuishejitishengziji、gaijinjiaoliufangshi、chuliguanjianfenqi、zhonggouxinlaidengduogefangmian。zaizhixingcelvedeguochengdangzhong,womenxuyaozhanshichujiandingdeyizhiyuzhixingnengli,rangzhangfukanjiannidegenggaihenuli,jinerzhongxinsikaozheiduanganqingqijiazhi。jilao,tupomubiaobujinjinshiwanjiuhunyin,gengjiashitishengziji,buguanzuihoujieguozenmeyang,zheixiegaibiandoujianghuiduiniderenshengrichangshenghuochanshengshenyuanyingxiang。
yingduilaogongtichulihun,nixuyaobimianqiangshidiyuyuguoduodishengxiaqizheijizhongshixiaoqingxudiaojie,fanershiyaojijijianyilengqueqi、shencengcipouxiwentigenyuan、zhidingbingshishitupoduice。zheishiyigejikunnanyoubixudequanguocheng,buguanzuihounengfouwanjiuhunyin,niyejiangcongzhongdedaochengzhangheqifa,weiweilaidexingfurichangshenghuodiandingjianshijichu。yiner,yingduiliyikunjing,bubijupa,jiandingdianshangshuliuchengqunuli,nijiuhuifaxian,jibianmianlinkunnan,niyekeyizhaodaoyitiaotongwangxingfudelu。
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