挽回老公的手段

　　wanhuilaogongdeshouduan，biezheji，biezheji，zheiciwozheiyizimeitipingtaiqinggandashijiuyaolaijidajiazhizhizhao，jiaonimenjidazhaoqingganxiufumiji，rangtamenqingqingsongsongwanhuiqizizheikeshangtoudexin!

　　一、看清现况，端正态度

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　　二、共情力，建立联系

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　　三、改变自己，提升价值

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　　ruhegaibianzijini?ziranjiushiconglidaowaidigaibianla!shouxiannidegenggaizijideqingxu，biandeyuelaiyueleguanxiangshang。qianwanbiexiangzhiqianneiyangyitiandaowanmaiyuanzheiyimaiyuanneigele，yaoxuehuiganenrichangshenghuo，zhenxishenbianren。

　　zhihouni，nixuyaotigaozijidewaizaixingxiang。zaijianshenfanglianxijirouzuzhi，huanyigeshishangdefaxing，maijigeyouneihandeyifukuzi。wobianle，tajiannideyanguangdangranjiuhuibian。

　　zuizhongyaodejiushiyaotigaozijideshijijiazhi。duoyuedu、duoxuexijineng、duotuozhanzijideshejiaoquanzi。ruguonibiandegengyouxiule，jiuhuifaxian，yuanxianwanhuiqizibingmeiyouneimekunnandeshier。shiyinweitahuikanjiannidezhuanbian，nvshenghuizaiciduiniyouxingquaihao。