jiaoniwanhuihunyindefangfayounaxieni,hunyinjiuxiangyisouzaihaiyangzhonghangxingdexiaofanchuan,youshiqingkongwanli,fuqierrenjinqingxiangshoumeihaoerrenshijie;eryoushihouquebolanzhuangkuo,liangrenzaizhengchaohemaodunzhongyuelaiyueyuan。jiabao,tebieshilaogongduilaopochushou,keweishizheisouxiaofanchuanzaoshoudezuimengliedijufengzhiyi。ruguoniyishichongdong,dalelaopo,wanquanshangdaoletadexin,zheiduanganqinghaoxiangzoudaoxuanyabianyuan。danqingjizhu,zhiyaoxinzhongyouai,youkuijiu,yeyouwanliudekongjian。jinri,zuoweiyimingzimeitipingtaiqinggandashi,wobianlaibangnizhijidazhao,bangzhuzijiwanliuneiyiduanjiangyaoposuidehunyin。
一、深刻反省,意识到错误严重性

zuixian,niyaozhidao,dongshoudarenqizishikendingjieshoubuledegerenxingwei。zheibujinshiduitashentideshanghai,gengjiashiduitaxinlingshenchudecanhai。nikenenghuizaineiyikebeinaonumengbileshuangyan,dannidexingweizaoyiyueguolehunyindedixian。rujin,womenxuyaozuoxia,shenshenfansiziji,yishidaozheigecuowuyanzhongxing。
wenziji:woweishenmehuichushou?shiyouyugongzuoyalida,yeshiyinweizaiwaishoudaoleqi,huijialebaqingxuxuanxiedaoxifudeshenshang?huoshiyinweiwoduizheiduanganqingyijingshiquxixin,buhuizaiaixilianggerendeganqing?buguanyuanyinyounaxie,nidoudeqingchudirenshidao,darenjueduibushijiejuewentidefangfa,fanerhuirangnantiyuelaiyuegengjiazaogao。
zaiziwofansideguochengdangzhong,nixuyaodongdehuanweisikao,lizaixifudejiaodulaitihuitadetongkuhetongku。xiangxiangyixia,jiarunibeitada,ninengshishenmexinqing?ninengyuanliangma?dangninengzhenzhengtihuidaoduifangdeganshoushi,nicainengrenshidaozijidegerenxingweiyouduobukeraoshu,yecainenggengjiajiandingbuyidexuyaoquwanliuzheiduanganqing。
二、真诚道歉,表述愧疚和勇气
ruguonishenkefanshenglezijidewentihou,xiayibujiushixuyaoxiangxifuzhenxinchengyizhiqian。zheiyizhiqianbingbuzhishishuoyiju“zhendeduibuqi”,ershiyaorangtakanjiannidekuijiuheyongqi。
jiaoniwanhuihunyindefangfayounaxieni,xuanzeyigeheshidejihui,baozhengdajiadouyouzugoudeshijianyukongjianlixingfenxizheizhongqingkuang。suihou,kanzhetadeshuangyan,yongzhenchengdeyudiaogentashuo:“xifu,wozhidaowocuole,wobugaidongshoudarenni。neiyikewobeinaonumengbileshuangyan,zuochulebukewanhuishier。wowubishanghaileni,yeshanghaidaodajiajiandeganqing。worujinaohuibuyi,woyuanyichengdanyiqiehouguo,zhixiwangninenggoujiwoyigejihuilaimibuwodeguocuo。”
zaizhiqiandeguochengdangzhong,nixuyaorangtaganshoudaonizhenzhihexinxin。gentashuoniyaoweilewanhuizheiduanganqingfuchuyiqieqinfen,baohangenggaizijidegexing、kongzhihaozijideqingxu、xuexipeixunruheyouxiaogoutongyugongchudeng。rangtaxiangxin,nibingbushiyigezhinengdarendedaitu,ershiyigekeyiweilejiatinghemuernuligaibiandehaonanren。
三、聆听对方的感受,带给他充足的支持和理解
ruguonixianglaopodaoqianhou,takenenghuichouqi、shuochuzijidetongchuhetongku。zheishihou,nixuyaorenzhendilingtingduifangdeganshou,bubiqieduanta,yebuyaojizhebianbo。rangtabaxinlideweiqufennudoufaxie,neiyangtacaihuijuedebeilijieyuzhichi。

zailingtingdeguochengdangzhong,nixuyaodaijitachongzudezhichihelijie。gentashuonimingbaitadetongku,yenenglijietanaonu。gentashuoniyuanyichengdanyiqieyiwu,yekeyiweiletadexingfuernuligaibian。rangtaganshoudaoniguanhuaiguanai,rangqiwoxiangxinnijiushitakeyiyikaoderen。
yucitongshi,niyedezhongshitaquedinghepanduan。tayaoshixuyaoshijianlailengjinghesisuo,nijiujitazugoudeshijian;tayaoshixiangyunifenkaiyiduanshijian,niyeyaozhichitadexiangfa。bubibitajinxingrenhetabuxianggandeshi,fouzezhihuirangqigengweifanganhepaichi。
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