wanhuiyiduanganqingzuihaodebanfashifangshouma,buyaodanxin,zheiciwozheiyizimeitipingtaiqinggandashijiuyaolaijidajiazhizhizhao,shoubashoujiaoniwanliuyigebatashanglexindenvren。xianbiejizhechuitousangqi,zhiyaozhangwolezhei5geshizhanjiqiao,xiangxinniyidingnengzhonghuotadeai!
一、看清不正确,真诚道歉

zuixiana,niyaogaoqingchu,wanliuyigenvrendexin,diyibujiushirenqingzijibuzhengque。niyaozixihuixiangyixia,jiujingshinaerzuodebudui,rangtajuedenanguoheyihan。doushiyinweinihushileduifangdeganshou,huoshiruguonimeiyouduixiannuoyan?doushiyinweiniguoyuzisizili,huoshiyouyunibuzhidaozhenxi?
xunzhaowentidebenzhiyihou,xiayibujiushizhenxinchengyizhiqian。jizhua,zhiqianbingbushijiandanlaishuoyiju“zhendeduibuqi”jiuxingle。niyaoyongnidexingdonghehuayulaibiaodanideqianjiuheyongqi。liru,ninengxieyifengxixizhangzhangzhiqianxin,bazijineixindeneijiuhouhuimojidoubiaodachulai;huozhenikeyizijixiachu,jitazuoyiduntazuixihuandeshiwufanshi;zaihuozhenikeyipeitaquzuoyijiantayizhixiangzuodanhaimeiyoujiyugandeshi。
zongeryanzhia,nidedaoqianderangtaganshoudaonizhenzhiherenzhen。qianwanbuyaojuedenvshenghuisuibianyuanliangni,danzhiyaokennuli,jianxintayidinghuikanjiannidediaozhenghefazhan。
二、聆听她心里话,了解对方的感受
xiamiana,niyaoqingtingtaxinlihua。youxieshihoua,nvxingweishenmehuinanguo,shiyinweitaganjuezijidexiangfabeihulvele。suoyiya,niyaojitayigejiyu,rangtabaneixinqiangliebumanhenanguoshuochulai。
wanhuiyiduanganqingzuihaodebanfashifangshouma,dangtaxiangniqingsushi,nikehuodeyongxintinga,biemanbujingxinde。niyaoyongyanshenheshentiyuyanlaibiaodanideguanzhuyulejie。lirua,ninengdianlediantou、weiweixiao,huoshiwozhutadeshoujitayixiekuanwei。
dengtashuowanzhihoua,niyekeyihetashuoshuonideqingxu。ninenggentashuo,nitingwantadehuayihouneixinyouduonanshou,nishiduomehouhuimojizijiyiqiandechulifangshi。zheiyangya,tajiunengganjuedaonigongminghemingbaile。
三、给他一些时间与空间
youshia,nvrenshangxinle,henyoukenengxuyaoyixieshijianyukongjianlaihuanjiezijidexinqing。zheishihoua,niqianwanbiejizhequjiuchanbuqingta、dajiaota。niyaozhongshitadexuanze,jitayixieduchudeshijian。

zaizheiqijiana,niqianwanbiexianxialai。niyaohaohaodefansiyixiazijiwenti,xiangyixiangruhejiuzhengzijidewenti。yucitongshia,niyekeyitongguoyixiejianjiexingdefangshilaibiaodaniguanhuaiheqingyi。lirua,keyijitafayitiaoduanxinhuoweixin,gentashuoniyizhizaixiangta;huozhenikeyizaitajiamenkoufangyishutazuixihuandehua。
jizhua,jitashijianyukongjianbingbingbushiyaochedifangxiata。fanguolaia,zheiyeshiweilerangtanenggougenghaodijiejuezijidexinqing,yeshiweilerangninyougenghaodejihuiquwanhuitadexin。
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